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01, travel is more important than class;
02, opinion is more important than obedience;
03, interest is more important than achievement;
04, conscience is more important than right and wrong;
05, happiness is more important than perfection;
06, faith is more important than worship;
07, growth is more important than winning or losing;
08. Self-examination is more important than the lawyer.
1. Parents
01, spend half an hour every day communicating with children.
02, and children at home should also use civilized language, "good morning, please, thank you, good night" and so on.
03, let children develop a good habit of loving hygiene.
04, listen to the voice of the child! ——With patience, with love, with happiness, the heart has eyes!
05, do not always expose the child's scars in order to remind the child.
06, seriously point out the child's mistakes!
07, do not always be serious about children, but laugh with children: because laughter can make children love life more; guide children to look at things positively, easily and happily.
08, tell children stories, be patient, stories have a certain educational significance.
09, do not impose the unfulfilled ideals on the child, want the child to achieve.
10, care for the child but the appropriate time appropriate punishment is also needed, do not protect the child's short.
Second, the growth chapter
01, give your child some private space.
02, give children the opportunity and right to choose.
03, let children freely choose their partners and friends.
04, let the child do what they want to do.
05, let the child do some housework within his ability, such as washing his own clothes, boiling water and cooking, etc., so that he realizes that he is a member of the family.
06. Prepare a display shelf for your child to display his own items on it.
07. Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by children.
08, treat the child as an adult, get along with him as an equal, and treat the child as your friend.
09, timely discover the child's progress, know how to appreciate the child.
10, remember to say to the child: I love you, you are my baby!
3. Life
01, give the child some money, let the child learn to manage money.
02, without the child's permission, do not read the child's diary and letters.
03, often with children outings.
04, tell stories to children before going to bed, let children laugh and fall asleep!
05, give the child a room or part of the room that is mainly for him to play.
06, if you have the conditions, every day after dinner and the children to go for a walk outdoors.
07. Happy sharing with children!
08, smile happily at the little guy, and hope that he (she) will laugh often!
09. Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.
10. Encourage children to interact freely with people of all ages.
4. Study
01, read with children, parents can read the newspaper, a good learning partner is very important.
02, children learn at home, parents must not engage in some recreational activities, a comfortable learning environment is very important.
03, do not force children to learn what they don't like.
04, do not scold the child because of the child's achievements.
05, do not think that the child is not out of the picture because of the low score on the child's test paper.
06, teach him or her knowledge enough to bring a sense of accomplishment: ancient poetry, numbers, stories, housework, play, make friends.
07. Educate children to read good books and read well.
08, do not pay too much attention to the child's academic performance, which will cause the child to learn nervously and the pressure will increase.
09, do not compare your child's grades with other children, analyze the reasons for this phenomenon, and reflect on whether you have your own responsibilities.
10. The child's room should have its own desk, and there must be several books on the desk that he loves to read, such as "Grimm's Fairy Tales" and "Aesop's Fables".
5. Entertainment
01, watch his favorite cartoons with your child, listen to the stories he loves to hear, etc.
02, play games with children, exercise.
03, control the time your child watches TV, between half an hour and an hour every day.
04, let children watch more children's programs: cartoons, puzzle programs, etc., watch less action movies, serials.
05. When children watch TV, parents accompany them in a timely manner, and make some explanations and discussions on the content inside.
06, in the spring, you can go on an outing with your children by bicycle, go to the river with your children to swim in the summer, carry an iron pot and your children to go to a picnic in the autumn, and a family of three in the winter play snowball fights on the field and build snowmen.
07. Children are allowed to collect all kinds of waste.
08, the child's friends should be welcomed when they come to visit.
09, play chess with the child, let the child know that there is no regret, educate him to be responsible for what he does, and admit that he has lost, and parents sometimes have to let the child win one or two sets, which is very important for the child.
Words to tell your child (very important)
01, people who are not good to you, you don't mind too much, in your life, no one is obligated to be good to you, except your father and your mother. People who are good to you, you must cherish and be grateful.
02, no one is irreplaceable, no thing is a must have. Seeing through this, even if you lose everything you love most in the world, you should understand that this is not a big deal.
03, life is short, today may still be wasting life, tomorrow will find that life has been far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you enjoy life, and it is better to expect to live a long life, but it is better to enjoy it early.
04, love is just a feeling, and this feeling will change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let time slowly wash away, let the soul slowly precipitate, and your suffering will slowly fade. Don't overly dream of the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of lost love.
05, although many accomplished people have not received a lot of education, it does not mean that they can succeed without studying. What you learn is the weapon you have. People, you can start from scratch, but you can't be unarmed, remember!
06, you can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy, you can ask yourself to be good to people, but you can't expect people to be good to you. How you treat people does not mean that they will treat you, and if you can't see through this, you will only add unnecessary troubles.
07, relatives only have a once fate, no matter how long I and you will get along in this life, please cherish the time of getting together, the next life, whether you love or not, you will never see each other again.
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