Everyone has no right to choose their origins, some are born with a golden key, and some are born into poor families.
Different family circumstances mean that people enjoy different resources, such as educational resources. Some children don't have to worry about what type of school they go to, while others worry about whether they can go to school.
High school-educated boyfriends for beautiful college students to go to college
Xiaomei (pseudonym) was born in a poor rural family, and the family has a strong concept of son preference, so Xiaomei has not been very popular with her parents since she was a child, and her parents always left the best to her brother, and she may even lose the opportunity to go to school.
By chance, Xiaomei got to know Xiao gang (pseudonym), the two chatted very well, although Xiao gang only has a high school education, but he is very good to Xiaomei and often cares about Xiaomei.
After a period of contact, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up and a relationship was established. In the company of Xiao Gang, Xiao mei also gradually came out of the haze of the original family and was able to focus her main energy on learning.
In high school, Xiaomei works hard because she wants to change her destiny through reading. In the year of the college entrance examination, Xiaomei played an excellent role and was successfully admitted to a double-first-class college.
However, for such a good news, Xiaomei was not happy. Because she knows very well that her family is not well off, whether her family supports her to go to college is also a big question mark.
However, just when Xiaomei was worried about her tuition and living expenses, Xiaogang stood up and took the initiative to tell Xiaomei not to worry about tuition and living expenses, these problems are entrusted to him, as long as he is there, he will definitely be able to provide Xiaomei to finish college.
Xiao Gang's commitment made Xiao Mei very moved, and her inner good feelings and recognition of Xiao Gang were also steadily rising.
After graduation, the woman broke up, and he didn't deserve me
However, what people did not expect was that at the university level, as Xiaomei came into contact with more and more people and things, her vision became more and more open, and gradually Xiaomei thought that Xiaogang was somewhat unworthy of herself.
Because in addition to the family situation, Xiaomei's other aspects of the condition are really good. Double first-class undergraduate degree, 1 meter 65 tall, more than 90 pounds of weight, more importantly, the appearance is very outstanding.
Because of this, xiaomei has many suitors around her after going to college, among which there are more suitors than Xiao Gang who are excellent.
Because of this, with the passage of time, Xiaomei's mentality has undergone a major change. In her heart, she thinks more and more that Xiao Gang is not worthy of herself, and her liking for Xiao Gang has gradually decreased, and the breakup has gradually been put on the agenda.
In Xiaomei's view, Xiao Gang is indeed a good person, helping himself out of the haze at his most difficult time, so that he can have the opportunity to go to college, but gratitude is not equivalent to liking, if there is no particularly deep feeling between two people, it will feel very painful to continue to insist on being together, so it is better to directly choose a decent breakup, and each other can find a more suitable partner.
Ungrateful is not advisable
For Xiaomei, because she has come into contact with more excellent people and has more and more excellent suitors around her, she has begun to want to give up Xiao Gang. This practice may be more beneficial to herself, but it will be a huge psychological blow for Xiao Gang.
Although Xiao Gang only has a high school education, in order to provide Xiaomei with college, almost all the money earned from part-time work is spent on Xiaomei. In Xiao Gang's mind, Xiaomei is almost all.
So after so many years, Xiao Gang did not have any complaints.
However, now that Xiaomei has graduated from college, she can support herself, and there are many excellent suitors around her, and at this time, she chooses to kick Xiao Gang away, which is inevitably too ungrateful.
If everyone thinks like this, what should this society look like?
In fact, sometimes, although the family situation that pursues you is superior, it does not necessarily treat you sincerely, but it just feels fresh and on a whim, so I want to chase you to enhance my sense of accomplishment.
However, after spending a long time together, the novelty is no longer there, then you may become a victim and be gradually left out in the cold. After all, there is no shortage of people with good looks around people with good families.
But if Xiaomei chooses Xiao Gang, then in Xiao Gang's heart you are his whole, in the process of getting along, you can feel the obvious difference, the feeling of being wholeheartedly cared for and loved is simply different from the dispensable treatment.
Therefore, it is not recommended that everyone become someone like Xiaomei, although everyone has the right to make their own decisions. What do you think about this?