Text/Little Snow Mom
Soon it is going to be the New Year, those who are not married, or married without children, or married with only one child, going home will inevitably be urged by the elderly, catalyzed, urged to have a second child, many young people express pressure.
The first two are easy to say, but when it comes to the second child, the reason for refusal is a lot, what can not afford, no time, and so on, in short, the second child's willingness is not very large. But in fact, in the New Year, the benefits of having two children in the family are revealed, and the envy of a one-child family cannot come.
In the New Year, the benefits of the two-child family are revealed, and the first-child family can only secretly envy
Every new year, my aunt's family and the second aunt's family New Year's contrast is quite clear, my great aunt's family has two children, the second aunt's family has only one child, to the New Year's home is not lively at a glance can be seen.
First, the atmosphere of the two children's New Year is more lively and more flavorful
Every time it is almost the New Year, the aunt and the uncle will prepare the New Year goods in various rushes, because there are many children in the family, the children also have families and children, and every New Year is a big family, so the food and drink must be prepared a lot, but the old two are happy, the New Year is to be more lively, the children have more atmosphere, this year is called the New Year.
Speaking of age, parents do not ask for anything else, only that the children can be safe, healthy and healthy, and that the family can get together to enjoy this rare reunion life after the New Year.
On the contrary, the second aunt's family is much more deserted, the second aunt's family is a daughter, after graduating from college, she has been staying in the field, because of the epidemic for two years, she has not returned for two years, and when she arrived at the Chinese New Year's Eve, other people's homes are full of joy, the second aunt and the old two eat dumplings at five o'clock, and go to bed at eight o'clock, and this year is not like a year.
The contrast between these two kinds of before and after is really very obvious, when you are young, you have a lot of interests and hobbies, but when you are older, you look forward to having children and grandchildren, otherwise your later life is really lonely and lonely.
Second, parents of two children live happier lives
There are two children in the family, the early pressure is indeed relatively large, and it is indeed more tiring to run for life, but the advantage of the second child is that the more obvious it is in the future, the more it is enjoyed in the old age.
Just like the New Year, my aunt and uncle rarely worry about buying anything, the two children are clearly arranged, the eldest buys rice to buy noodles, the second brother carries oil and meat, and when the Chinese New Year's Eve meal also has a son and daughter-in-law to handle, or go out to eat, it can be said that a series of things in the new year the two children will discuss and do together.
And the second aunt's family, although the daughter will send a lot of things back to the previous year, but the old man does not want these New Year goods, but the family can be reunited together, even if the old man prepares the New Year goods himself will be very unmotivated, and no one will eat so many people who are cold and prepared.
Third, the parents of the two children have hope in their hearts
The more the year passes, the stronger the parents' desire to return home, the two children in the aunt's family have established a family, the grandchildren have also gone to primary school and junior high school, and the old two will prepare some snacks in advance and wait for the child to return.
The Spring Festival is of great significance to our country, countless parents are looking forward to their children, especially those who have more children in the family, parents hope that their children can come back in the New Year, and the family will be reunited.
And the second aunt's family because there is only one daughter, even if the daughter and son-in-law and children have come, there are not many people in the family, this lively energy is not much lively, and they began to regret that they should have had one more child.
Of course, young people may feel that the idea of the elderly is too narrow, how tired it is to have a second child, but in fact, having a second child is not only a drawback, and the following advantages are also very obvious.
The benefits of having a second child or less are not the envy of a one-child family
First, the New Year's "red envelopes" are more received
This must be experienced by everyone, the elders of the New Year have to give the child pressure money, whether it is a child or two children, the single money is definitely the same, two children also mean that the pressure of the year money is more, and finally it falls into the pockets of the parents.
And even if it is a parent's gift, other people's homes only need to return to one, and their own home can fall two, although it is a little embarrassing, but what falls in the pocket is real.
Second, children have playmates and a happier New Year
Now the New Year's flavor is getting weaker and weaker, more and more people live in the community, do not let firecrackers, walk relatives and there are not too many relatives, children enjoy the joy of the New Year and we at that time are much less.
If there is a child in the home, you can only watch TV and play mobile phones, and if there are two children in the home, the children can play with each other, happiness can be shared, and the atmosphere of the New Year is even stronger.
Third, the two children grew up together
There are two children in the family, one child behaves well, it will definitely become a role model for the other child to learn, this kind of internal healthy competition, not only can cultivate the feelings between children, but also promote the common growth of children, which is of great benefit to both children in the future.
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