How to heat up feelings through chat?

Hello everyone, I am a strict and gentle, dedicated to the truth of the morning brother.

I used to always tell you that don't be too flattering to talk to girls, people can see your careful thinking at a glance.

Well, although some people listen to it and don't lick it, but the sky will not talk, and they are ridiculed by other girls as straight men, so they are not angry.

Since this is the case, we do not steam steamed

#1 Learn to "interject"

Interject, not to let you go in and interrupt people when they are talking, and then start a crazy hi.

Instead, in the case that the girl can't express or the meaning of the expression can be sublimated, you go in and insert a mouth, complete the topic, for example, you will understand.

round1

F: Your brother is so handsome, he is still a 985 master, simply... Simply: outstanding

M: It's not a table of talent

F: Yes, that's what it means!

round2

F: Well, every time I want to do something, it's three minutes of heat, and I don't want to do it after a few days of hard work

M: To put it bluntly, life is a marathon, and if you try too hard, you often run not far

F: That makes sense

Understand no, talking to girls has to come and go, let her think that you understand her, you have a common language, rather than chatting and talking about a one-person talk show.

Either you have a hard time in that self-hi, or let the girls gush endlessly, you are next to the right ah ah ha, happy with a two fools, no communication at all.

You said that you are not happy to brush the bullet screen brush in The Morning Brother, and do not forget the power of one button and three consecutive times, is it not good, saying that you brush it next time must be that.

#2 Give the other person some room for expression

I believe that friends must have experienced such a dialogue.

M: What do you like to eat?

F: Emmm, I don't know what I like to eat, hot pot bar

M: You're really tasteful

Seeing that the iron man above did not, do you say that this is a chat, who can't help but use their fingers on the ground to cut out a Badaling Great Wall.

We must not only interject in the chat, but also let others interject, to give others enough space to express.

This is actually not difficult, you should remember two points, first of all, leave enough information for yourself to say, let others choose, and second, you must extend the information you give, such as:

M: What do you like to eat? Hot pot, barbecue, or seafood

F: Hot pot

M: Eh, no one knows more about hot pot than I do, I have eaten Chongqing hot pot, Thai hot pot, seafood hot pot

F: I often eat Chongqing hot pot, what kind of Thai hot pot is it

M: Thai is.... blabla

#3 Give her "gossip"

I know that as soon as I talk about gossip, someone will diss me, A little bit of a, what gossip about a manly husband, there is a buckle of 1 with this idea.

Look, that's why you're doing things too shallow. Gossip is so important in chatting with girls, you can see by looking at this example.

M: What kind of boy do you like?

Female: Not straight male, good for the wife

M: I feel like you girls like this

F: That must be ah, you look at how happy Yi Nengjing is, that is not to choose a good husband, do you know what happened before Yi Nengjing, come to me and tell you...

See no, sometimes even if you don't say gossip, girls will take the initiative to tell you, because they really like it too much. So if you want to get closer to girls, you have to make good use of gossip.

Of course, you can't put all the things of your three aunts and eight aunts out, and don't mention some privacy of others.

It's best to tell her about celebrities' little things, or tell her about some innocuous things that your mutual friend has done.

#4 Make a trickster

Let's start with a set of conversations.

F: My sister had a birthday, and her boyfriend sent her a red envelope and didn't do anything else

M: What to do?

F: Don't say that you didn't have the heart to choose gifts, at least you have to bless it in the circle of friends

Male: In fact, boys are very simple, the gifts selected by girls may not like, not as good as red envelopes

F: Maybe boys are really different from girls

Let's take a taste, this is actually a very normal chat.

But you can also feel that when girls disagree with you, or when girls express negative emotions, it is difficult for you to control the rhythm and adjust the atmosphere.

One careless one is the rollover scene, so at this time, you can adjust the atmosphere through performances, such as:

M: So what's the matter, I'm such a tacky person, but if it were you, I'd take you to Haidilao for your birthday, and let all your troubles say goodbye, and let all your troubles say hi hi

F: That's not necessary, it's too embarrassing, but there's a saying that Haidilao's tomato soup is not bad

It is appropriate to perform some celebrity quotes or memes, which not only eases the atmosphere, but also allows the girls to catch the stubble, thus opening up new chat topics. Even, you can bring a little special tone when you speak, such as dialect and translation.

F: That restaurant was so bad

Male: Oh, dear old man, I can't believe my ears, you are the same as I thought

F: Huh?

Male: I bet God that I would never eat a second time

Female: Poor little fellow, I swear I'll let you experience something more wonderful than that

Do you feel it? When a girl expresses negative emotions to you, what you have to do is actually pull her out of this strange circle of negative emotions and divert her attention.

Because there is a difference in thinking between men and women, when girls complain to you, most of the little brothers are not good at controlling their emotions, but as the saying goes, it is easy to hide from them, and it is still easy to divert her attention through performance.

Finally, I would like to tell you that there is no chat routine that you have to know, but there is a chat atmosphere that girls like.

And a good chat atmosphere must be to make her feel that you understand her, you have common topics, and the atmosphere of your chat is relaxed, so that girls are more willing to chat with you.