It only takes two or three years for people to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up.
I use this passage as the title of today's article because I especially want to give this sentence to those keyboard men, those unscrupulous internet trolls.
This morning woke up very early, about 6:20, open the mobile phone to see Guo Gangtang is live broadcast, in the live broadcast he said that Liu Xuezhou has died, the comment area exploded the pot at that time, Guo Gangtang in the live broadcast did not say a word for a long time, the face looked solemnly at the comments of netizens, did not say a word for a long time.
I hurried to check the relevant information of Liu Xuezhou, but at that time the news had not yet broken out, I saw the previous information about Liu Xuezhou, in the comment area, there was still information that accused Liu Xuezhou.
I don't want to post screenshots because I don't want to see a new round of online violence, and although maybe these trolls should be punished by public opinion, I still choose not to make their online names public.
These comments accuse Liu Xuezhou of psychological distortion and darkness, the purpose of finding relatives is not to recognize relatives, but to recognize money, before waiting for a house, parents have no obligation to buy you a house, parents do not buy and save calls with parents and WeChat recordings, and sent out, such children no one dares to want.............
What's even more chilling is that this comment is still a high-profile comment. After reading it, I felt very uncomfortable in my heart, and even felt a little angry.
I want to elaborate on this.
Money can soothe a lot of pain
First of all, Liu Xuezhou asked his parents for a house because he did not have a place to live, and the child said that he could not afford to rent one, this requirement is not excessive, more importantly, as an adult, does the parents not know what kind of responsibility they should bear for this child before recognizing their relatives?
On January 18, I once wrote an article about Liu Xuezhou, and in the comment area I saw the following comment:
This is the same as the comment I saw in a certain sound, which probably means that parents are not obliged to buy a house for Liu Xuezhou, Liu Xuezhou should not ask his parents for a house, recognize relatives and recognize relatives, and talk about money and responsibility.
As one netizen replied: They can sell their children, why can't they negotiate with him for money? At the very least, they should give Liu Xuezhou the forty thousand yuan they earned from selling Liu Xuezhou to Liu Xuezhou now, which is enough money to rent a house.
Not to mention that they also broke the law by selling their children. Such a simple truth can be understood by individuals, but there are so many people who pretend to be confused with understanding, I think, this part of the people are probably referring to the people who raise children and eat children when they are old, otherwise, he would not say such a thing.
What is affection? What is affection? The ultimate expression of any feeling is material, because people need material support to live in this world, and it is a joke to talk about feelings without material.
Love is so, friendship is like this, family affection is even more so.
Born without raising, where is the parent's affection for the child? The thrill of indulgence in a moment of pleasure? Born to sell the child for money as a bride price, this is also naked to use the child as a tool for profit, such parents, there are people to speak for them, there are people to wash the floor, the online world can let you see the dirty corners of the dirt at any time.
I also wrote about Liu Xuezhou's house in the previous article, if the parents are not willing to take any responsibility related to this child, you are a shrunken-headed turtle to hide, why do you have to come out and confess your relatives in a high profile? Still hanging a big red banner to hold a meet and greet? They are all adults in their forties and don't know what it means to recognize relatives?
Acknowledging relatives means picking up the sense of responsibility that was previously missing;
Acknowledging relatives means paying for the child and bearing his living expenses because he is still underage;
Recognizing relatives means using money to make up for the lack of love for children.
But all adults should be able to think of this layer, you can't do it, you will be accused and laughed at by the world, but this pair of parents is probably not ashamed, they or recognize Liu Xuezhou's purpose is to think of waiting for them to be old and have multiple children to honor them, pointing to eat a few meals, touching their upper and lower lips a few times, and saying a few good words can produce one more son.
When the children asked them to take on the responsibility of parents, they blacked out the children, not only did they not say anything, but also gave the children a big hat with a dark psychology and too terrible, saying that the children were for hype, and I could only use the beast to describe the parents.
A third marriage, a fourth marriage, gave birth to a bunch of children, but only refused to do a little heart for this most pitiful child who was sold by them, some netizens used the eyes of heaven to check that Liu Xuezhou's biological father had several companies under his name, he was not short of money, what he lacked was conscience.
To tell the truth, the way to quickly soothe Liu Xuezhou's pain is money, to provide him with a better place to live, so that his life can be improved, such a request is not excessive - since you recognize him.
Money can soothe a lot of pain, and this phrase is very appropriate here.
The universe is infinite, and so is man's stupidity and evil.
Yesterday I thought about it very seriously when I saw this sentence, and Einstein said: I can't yet determine whether the universe is infinite, but I have identified the latter.
Human stupidity and evil are infinite, and they are thoroughly manifested in this matter.
There are many people who do not understand the law, do not know that the sale of children is against the law, and do not know that they need to take responsibility, which is their stupid ignorance. The result is to speak ill of a child who has been wounded by fate to the point of inadequacy.
Do you know him? Do you know him? Since you don't know him, why do you talk harshly about him under his personal account? Why would you want to type out words that are enough to be damned? What are you for? Just to brush up on presence?
I was angry, but at the same time I felt a deep sense of powerlessness, because I couldn't stop this kind of person from appearing.
The next life is light, and the time is also pure.
These are Liu Xuezhou's last words to the world, and he tells the story of his short and ill-fated life.
From being sold, to his growth trajectory, to the joy of finding his parents, and finally encountering a second abandonment, and this second abandonment is directly opposite, like a knife inserted into his already sore heart, and more unfortunately, the trolls from all directions are constantly sprinkling salt on this bloody wound!
He was gone, saying goodbye to a world that had done him infinite harm.
At six twenty o'clock, I already knew the news of his suicide, and I had never met him, but when I just opened the news and saw that he had become a black and white photo, I cried and felt very sad.
I want to shout to his parents that you are not worthy of paying homage to his undead, that you are not worthy of weeping at his grave, for it will stain his path of reincarnation!
In fact, I also know that they will not cry, and those who cry have a conscience, and they are people without conscience.
Those Internet trolls who have made vicious noises, please take care of your mouths, remember: a good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June!
I am George, 50 years old, born in 1973, I am a mother of two children, as a person who has experienced a lot of storms in the world, I began to write on the Internet in 2018, I often encountered Internet trolls, I think I have a thick skin, psychological endurance is strong enough, but once a network troll cursed my whole family to die, cursed my children to die, at that time I still will be angry, will be sad, just because I criticized her love bean acting skills.
How could a child, a 15-year-old, endure overwhelming vicious speech? It hurts
As Guo Gangtang said: Everyone lives their own life, don't say something that shouldn't be said on the Internet, the Internet has a memory.
The line you inadvertently typed, the sentence you said, is likely to be the last straw that crushes others!
My heart was sad and heavy, and I wanted to scold people, but I didn't know what to scold.