Text/Circle Poison Sister
In order to give birth to a mixed-race baby from five countries, she spent 500,000 yuan to buy sperm, which caused countless people to discuss at that time.
Some say she has money and is willful and irresponsible, while others say she has freedom of choice.
Although she has endured tremendous pressure from public opinion, she still has no remorse.
Now that 4 years have passed, what happened to this single mother?
Her name is Ye Haiyang, born in Liaoning in 1988, her parents are ordinary workers with low education, and she has been raised as a boy since she was a child.
Over time, Ye Haiyang, who always showed his short hair, subconsciously did not regard himself as a girl.
Ye Haiyang likes to play with boys, she does not want to be a teacher and a doctor like other girls, but has a special love for making money, and has set her ambition to become a rich person early.
Perhaps because he was full of thoughts about how to make money, Ye Haiyang didn't have much of a mind to learn.
When her peers were still listening to the teacher's lectures in class, she chose to drop out of school and chose to go to Guangzhou for development under serious consideration.
At that time, Guangzhou was at the forefront of the mainland's reform and opening up, and its rapid economic development provided opportunities for countless migrant workers.
Ye Haiyang took the start-up capital he asked his parents for, left his parents, and came to Guangzhou alone to look for opportunities for development.
Ye Haiyang has a natural sense of sensitivity to business, and it didn't take long for her to focus on the cosmetics industry in Guangzhou.
At that time, this was a fast-growing industry, because it had not yet reached saturation, so more and more people joined in, and the price war was naturally on the verge of breaking out.
This may not seem like a good entry point, but fierce competition is more present in large enterprises.
For many small, self-made businesses, this is good news.
Because they can get more profit margins in the price war, effectively avoid the risk of business failure.
Although Ye Haiyang is a girl, but there is a boy's hard work in her bones, she used the start-up capital to wholesale a batch of cosmetics, but she did not expect to sell out soon.
This made her feel confident, neither proud nor good at seeing it, but desperately taking out all the money on her body and creating her own factory as a small boss.
Of course, the money on her body is not enough, in order to smoothly open a cosmetics factory, Ye Haiyang chose to borrow money from the bank, such a boldness is not everyone, especially girls in their 20s.
But it is this spirit of not being afraid of losing that makes Ye Haiyang successful, and when she was 29 years old, she was already worth tens of millions, and it was her own makeup brand.
The career has been successful, but the marriage event has not been settled, which makes Ye Haiyang's parents very anxious.
Seeing that their daughter was almost 30, the two old men could no longer sit still, and came directly from their hometown to Guangzhou, and Ye Haiyang officially opened a marriage promotion war.
Perhaps because they were too eager for their daughter to get married, Ye Haiyang's parents kept arranging blind dates for her, but they never considered Ye Haiyang's feelings.
However, even though Ye Haiyang was full of disgust in her heart, she still did not refuse filial piety and appeared again and again on blind dates arranged for her by her parents.
It's just that her blind date experience is not pleasant, and she has no feeling for blind dates.
Coupled with his grinning boy personality, he has never been involved in the affairs of men and women, so he is often bullied by male guests.
Some people said that she was not happy with her age, and some people asked her straight away how many children she was going to have after marriage, and these disrespectful performances made Ye Haiyang suddenly have a thought.
Ye Haiyang has an independent personality and an assertive opinion, so naturally it is impossible to find a man to spend his life like this.
She herself is already good enough to live an incomparably superior life even if she does not rely on boys.
If so, why should we go into marriage? A person can live very well.
But parents can not understand her thoughts, after all, in the mainland has always had the idea of raising children and preventing old age, if the daughter does not marry and has children, who will accompany him and take care of her when she is old?
So even though Ye Haiyang has made his attitude clear, her parents still haven't given up the idea of letting her go on a blind date.
Later, Ye Haiyang overheard about IVF, which made her instantly enlightened.
She learned more about the technology of IVF through the Internet and books, and found that it could not only fulfill her desire to become a mother, but also achieve eugenics, which made Ye Haiyang happy for a while.
In order to choose high-quality sperm, give birth to quality children.
In 2017, Ye Haiyang searched for sperm in authoritative hospitals abroad.
Under her heavy reward of 500,000 yuan, she quickly found a suitable sperm, the owner of the sperm is a mixed-race child of the five countries, and the high IQ and high education make Ye Haiyang very satisfied.
In October, Ye Haiyang, like other mothers, experienced a lot of pain, and even suffered from depression because she was unaccompanied and too anxious.
She began to question her choices, even doubting that she could not become a qualified mother.
At this time, however, her parents and friends, who had previously supported him, gave her great strength.
They accompanied Ye Haiyang through pregnancy, let Ye Haiyang regain confidence, and finally gave birth to a healthy and lovely girl.
So Ye Haiyang had a new identity, a single mother.
The birth of her daughter made Ye Haiyang much gentler, and she gave up her previous extreme hobbies.
Spend time and energy on taking care of her daughter to make up for her daughter's innate lack of paternal love, hoping to make her daughter grow up as happy as other children.
But even if Ye Haiyang has done a good job, it will still be questioned by some netizens, and Ye Haiyang sees this very thoroughly.
She said that as a woman, without harassing other people in society, closing the door to live her own life, trying to give the child the love of the father, the love of the mother, I did not feel that it was a selfish.
Even Ye Haiyang had already considered her daughter's future, because she was worried that after she left, her daughter would be lonely in the world, so she made the decision to have a second child.
In May 2021, Ye Haiyang once again came abroad to get pregnant.
This time she spent 160,000 yuan looking for high-quality sperm and soon became pregnant with a second-child baby.
Although he could not give his daughter a complete home, Ye Haiyang used all his strength to leave his daughter with siblings in the human world, an equally healthy and lovely mixed-race girl.
Now that Ye Haiyang has received the support of her parents, although there will still be netizens who question or even insult her behavior, it is no longer important to Ye Haiyang.
Because her daughter and parents are her strongest backing, no matter how much criticism she encounters, as long as she thinks of her daughter, she has the motivation to persevere. Is such a mother unqualified?