In general, where does the character development of children come from? Undoubtedly from the parents. Many people say that parents are the most important first teachers of children, and children often unconsciously imitate their parents' temper and behavior, which proves the importance of parents' words and deeds.
But there are always some people who do not realize the importance of educating children, and children do not have the concept of right and wrong, it is inevitable that there will be wrong actions, but if parents do not stop in time out of doting at this time, for a long time, it is possible that their children will become "bear children" that everyone hates.
Recently, a woman met the "bear child" of a relative's family, and the loss was so heavy that the woman almost collapsed.
It is reported that near the end of the year, the woman's relatives brought two little boys to the house as guests. The woman was not at home at the time, and her mother enthusiastically left her relatives to eat and went into the kitchen to prepare meals, while the two little boys played in the living room.
Generally speaking, boys are more skinny and bold, and there will always be some strange ideas. Only to see that the two little boys who were still playing in the living room a few minutes ago disappeared, and they ran to the woman's room without anyone noticing. The two bear children did not know whose idea it was, and in order to have fun, they actually blackmailed the woman's cosmetics.
The woman returned home to find this scene is very angry, only to see a circular cartoon floor mat on the ground, and the woman's cosmetics were scattered on the mat and the ground.
It would have been better if it had just been thrown on the ground, and what was even more infuriating was that the two of them had wreaked havoc on all the cosmetics.
Several bottles of well-known brands of foundation were squeezed all over the floor, and the lid did not know where to throw it away. Several lipsticks were used as paintbrushes to draw on the ground, powder was smashed and thrown on the ground, and many eyeshadows were destroyed.
Whoever sees their stuff being so bad will get angry that their blood pressure will soar. Moreover, it can be seen that most of the women's cosmetics are big brands, and the categories are relatively complete, which is enough to prove that women are usually very delicate little sisters.
The two bear children did not stop there, and they did not hesitate to throw away the leftover snacks and small dolls that did not play with cosmetics.
When this scene occurred, the parents of the bear child did not say anything, not even a word of compensation, but left, leaving the woman alone to bear the consequences.
Such a scene can be described as making the woman both angry and helpless, who let himself be stalled with such relatives, can only admit that he is unlucky, blaming himself for not locking the door.
UVIS thinks
Wise parents will lead by example and cultivate their children into a polite and literate child, and excellence is not only good at learning, but also in all aspects of life.
The reason why the bear child is called a bear child is because there is a pair of bear parents behind it. They all say that their children hurt themselves, but different ways of loving will determine the future of children. Coddling cannot be formed by loving a child and embracing him, because coddling will destroy a child.
There are always people in life who coddle children in the name of being good for their children, but they do not know how seriously children are spoiled when they are young, and how fierce it will be when they enter society in the future. If parents are reluctant to educate their children well, always think that this is a manifestation of loving their children, then when the society comes to education, there will be no mercy!