After becoming a parent, you will personally experience that "parenting is not easy". The growth of a child not only requires the child to overcome the difficulties encountered by himself, but also the parents need to overcome many difficulties and make a lot of guidance on the road of "children growing up". And guidance as a child is very important.
A "nibbling little clan" that is comparable to "nibbling on the old clan"?
I believe that everyone has heard of the "nibbling old people", which refers to those "giant babies" who can obviously support themselves but still need their parents to take care of food, clothing, shelter and noodles. Parents are old, should have been able to rely on the children who grew up, but the "old people" turned around and needed their parents to continue to support. Parents with such children can really be very hard.
"Less is like nature, habits are like nature", the quality of thought that children develop from an early age is as difficult to change in life as nature, and will naturally become habits. It is said that there is also a prime time limit for educating children. The so-called "three years old to see the big, seven years old to see the old", the child from birth to 6 years old this golden period should be a good education of the child.
▲ Get up and earn money
Some people say that 0-6 years old is the age when children lay the foundation for life. There is some truth to the experience of these predecessors. I wonder if parents understand the importance of their children's prime time? Some parents may not understand, so there will be the emergence of "nibbling small families".
What is a "nibble clan"? If it is said that the "nibbling old people" are children who need to be "raised" by their parents when they grow up, then the "nibbling families" are the parents who have the ability but do not work to earn money, and let the children of several years old "work to support the family".
More and more parents are becoming "nibbling people"?
How old can children earn money? In the eyes of the "nibbling" group, of course, it can be.
Take the child model, let the child wear a variety of clothes to take photos, and then show the good photos wearing the clothes of the merchant, play a role in promoting the product. In places where children's clothing is "productive", you may see a group of people "spinning around" around a child of a few years old from time to time. This is certainly not a photographic record of the lives of children, and these children are not playing. They are working hard.
▲ Child model
When taking promotional photos of children's clothing, it is generally prepared in advance. That is to say, summer will generally shoot autumn and winter clothes, winter will generally shoot spring and summer. In addition to the difficulty of work in anti-seasonal shooting, there is also time. When shooting, "time is money". These child model children generally shoot a set immediately after shooting a set; there may be a rule for how many minutes must be filmed; if a set has not been filmed well, it will have to be repeated over and over again...
It can be seen that behind this bright and beautiful work is also full of difficulties. These child models are still young and are under no less stress at work than adults in the workplace.
▲ Let the child eat the broadcast
Especially in the era of developed Internet, a large number of short video platforms have emerged. These platforms can publish works, if the works are widely praised, they can absorb powder, and after sucking powder, they can live sell goods and receive order endorsements... These can all make money.
Some parents package their children as "cute babies" and "cute babies" on short video platforms to attract attention, and even more let their children keep "eating and broadcasting" to attract the attention of the audience. Some accounts do have tens of millions of fans under the "packaging" of their children, and they earn millions of dollars a year by "working" with their own babies.
▲ Nibble small clan
How will children be affected by the "nibbling clan"?
A few years ago, there was a 3-year-old child named Zhang Junhao who was not hot on variety shows. After becoming famous, his commercial performance income was as high as one million, and he really "supported the whole family by one person". Later, his parents realized the problem. Because children of the same age are all in school and educated, Zhang Junhao is running in his acting career, which undoubtedly delays his future. Fortunately, he turned back in time and let Zhang Junhao return to the campus.
Parents are the best role models for children, because children mostly stay with their parents from childhood to adulthood. Parents play a role in teaching by example. The behavior of "nibbling on small families" parents has undoubtedly had a certain impact on children, many children have to take on the heavy responsibility of "raising a family" from the age of 3, and then become "old predecessors" in the industry at the age of 6, compared with other children of the same age, after the influence of society, such children undoubtedly appear sophisticated and "greasy".
Children are at work when they should be releasing their nature, keeping them busy in the major "business circles" and exposing them to a variety of people. These can affect the physical and mental health of children. It is conceivable that children who experience this experience are most likely to be "precocious".
Don't let your child be over-consumed
If children appear under various cameras from an early age, they may get used to this environment after a long time. So what to do when a child is "over-consumed" and no audience likes it? Children may suffer from the "guidance" of those around them, and may change their temperament because they cannot withstand this environmental change of their own. These consequences cannot be "foreseen" in advance, and once they occur, they are difficult to recover.
epilogue
Take care of the "innocent heart" of each child seriously, because it is more precious than any wealth in the world. Parents are the "creators" of their children, and seemingly a simple decision can change a child's life. Therefore, parents are asked to make careful choices and accompany their children to go down together!