In daily learning, some motivated and positive children can complete their academic tasks on time; while children with insufficient time concepts, more and more homework will be dragged to "tomorrow", day after day, learning tasks are more and more indebted...
For children with "procrastination" in the family
Parents often look in the eyes and are anxious in their hearts
How to effectively improve learning efficiency?
Today
Xiaobian will talk to you about how to help children
Break the bad habit of procrastination
Learn the right way to "walk ahead of time"
Let's take a look.~
Cultivate a sense of time
Working with your child on a schedule can help your child develop a good habit of following the time. Acting according to the timetable can improve the efficiency of learning and help to form a more harmonious parent-child relationship. In the formulation process, parents should pay attention to guiding their children to learn to arrange time reasonably, improve their children's ability to manage time from understanding time to managing time, from developing a day's work and rest law to realizing self-discipline in life. If children are trained from childhood to keep their time, plan their actions clearly, and develop the habit of doing the right things in a reasonable amount of time, they will benefit for life.
Correct "perfectionist" tendencies
Children with "perfectionist" tendencies often procrastinate. Because they strive for perfection, they often spend a lot of time making a careful plan and are reluctant to take the first step. Fear of failure, for these "perfectionist" tendencies, their procrastination may also be a psychological protection mechanism, and they will subconsciously "rescue" themselves by procrastinating to reduce the time to perform tasks. When parents find that their children belong to this situation, they must point out the advantages and disadvantages of the "perfectionist" tendency, encourage the child to maintain a normal optimistic attitude towards things, and let them enhance their courage to face failure in the process of correcting the "perfectionist" tendency.
Be aware of your child's emotions
Procrastination in children can be a subconscious revolt. Some strong parents always want their children to act according to preset goals and ways, and when they put forward high requirements for their children, they do not carry out reasonable psychological guidance. Children lack the opportunity to express themselves in a harsh family environment for a long time, and over time, they cannot dispel negative emotions and will respond negatively in a way that suppresses themselves. This kind of procrastination is more common in daily life and requires parents to be carefully aware. If your child falls into this category, parents should treat their children's behavior with respect and understanding, think from the child's point of view, learn to listen to the child's inner thoughts, change the way of communication, and replace repression and preaching with listening and empathy.
Xiaobian reminds parents
It doesn't matter if the child procrastinates for a while
Don't keep your focus on it
"Procrastination" on this matter
Learn to procrastinate in behavior
Be aware of what the child is expressing
Thus guiding the child to get rid of procrastination behavior
Create a harmonious parent-child relationship
Source: Fujian Provincial Women's Federation Rights and Interests Department