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Economists say fraud is determined by demand, following keynesian law that "demand determines supply," rather than Say's law that "supply creates demand." People should be soberly aware that when a person appears in front of you properly and all conditions meet your requirements, you have to be careful.
Scammers are also "keeping up with the times"
Whenever you see the news of emotional fraud, some people will wonder: the tricks of the scammers are not new, nor are they clever, but why can they be successful repeatedly?
The first is the issue of marriage urging. Getting married or not being married should be everyone's free choice. But now there is a general phenomenon of marriage urging unmarried young people in society, which is easy to prompt many people to rush to find a partner. Some women may realize that there is something wrong with the man, but most choose not to believe it, or do not want to investigate deeply. It is precisely because of this more anxious mentality that the attitude of mate selection is not rigorous enough.
The second is the problem of the mate selection concept. Many scammers package themselves as rich and handsome, taking advantage of the mentality of some female friends who want to find a boyfriend with good financial strength. This mentality is understandable, but do not take economic conditions as the only criterion for choosing a mate, but also know how to distinguish whether the other party is true or false.
As the saying goes, "liking a person starts with appearance, falling into talent, and being loyal to character", marriage is actually a long run, not a sprint. Good economic conditions are certainly one of the conditions for attracting objects, but in the long run of feelings, whether they can run to the end is related to character, morality, character, values and the development rhythm of both sides. More importantly, in the relationship between each other, it is important to keep yourself excellent and continuous self-development at all times, do not have the idea of relying on anyone, and independent self-improvement is more capable of achieving happiness.
Moreover, the "keeping up with the times" of the cheaters has enabled them to succeed repeatedly. Many scammers now take advantage of women's easy loss of rationality in love, through emotional comfort to the woman, through the fiction of their own tragic experiences to show weakness, pretend to be pitiful, so as to obtain the woman's sympathy and comfort, and then deceive the woman's money.
And when people find out they've been scammed, some people start to struggle with their sunk costs. It is not that they can't let go of this man, but they can't let go of their own efforts, they don't want to admit that they don't have the vision to love the wrong person, so they continue to increase their investment, hoping that one day a miracle will happen, and even try to beautify the person who is not worth paying, beautifying their unwilling emotions after being deceived into love, making mistakes again and again.
Learn to safeguard your legitimate rights and interests
Love is the most sincere and beautiful emotion of human beings, and it is best not to be linked to money. Especially when the feelings of both parties are still unstable, the future of this relationship is still uncertain, do not easily have money transactions with each other, and do not try to deepen each other's feelings and stabilize each other's relationship through the payment of money.
Once a money transaction has occurred, care is taken to preserve evidence throughout the process. For example, through bank transfers, or through agreements, be sure to keep IOUs, investment agreements, etc.
In the face of a person who has given his true feelings, it is necessary to examine many aspects. Ask to see each other's friends and classmates, and observe what types of friends are; Meet with each other's colleagues and observe their work performance; If conditions permit, you can look at the other party's family, family environment, etc.
Don't suffer from gains and losses in emotional matters, and you must balance your mind. It is your destiny not to run, and the person who loves you naturally will not shrink back because you want to verify his true information, otherwise it can only show that he is not sincere.
If you really encounter emotional fraud, the most direct and effective way to deal with it is to call the police in time.
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