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The first time you became a mother, did you become helpless and anxious? Because I have no experience in parenting, I often don't know what things can be done and what things can't be done, so I can only stumble and grope forward.
However, it is precisely because of this that you have taken a lot of detours, and even some behaviors have brought harm to the baby, making yourself regret it.
In fact, new mothers can also perfectly avoid the wrong behavior during the baby's development, and understanding these will make you easily take the baby and transform from a rookie to a parenting master.
Baby development "milestones", these things must not be done, around the pit with the baby is a good mother
0-1 years old is the most rapid stage of baby development, in just one year they not only learned to turn over, learn to crawl, learn to walk, learn to talk, but also learn how to express their emotions with joy and sorrow, it can be said that this year has changed too much.
Of course, during this time, the mother is also the most anxious, because there are always such and such problems that plague themselves, and today we will focus on what the mother cannot do during this period, bypassing the pit of these harmful babies.
-February Development Milestones: Do not give your baby a pillow
Adults can not sleep without a pillow, so after the baby is born, should we immediately prepare a comfortable pillow for them? The answer is: no.
Newborn babies keep their spine and head straight, not as curved as adult necks, so there is no need for pillows to support them.
On the contrary, the use of pillows at this time is not conducive to the development of the baby's neck and spine curvature, and in severe cases, it will also cause brain development, generally speaking, it is necessary to wait until 3 months later to use, and the height of the pillow should be slowly increased from 1-2 cm.
In addition, at this stage, the mother should master the correct holding posture, focusing on protecting the baby's head and body, and the wrong posture will also affect the baby's spinal development.
3-4 months developmental milestone turnaround learning period: do not let the baby out of sight
In the process of baby development, there is such a smooth phrase "three flips six sit seven to learn to climb", three months of baby began to learn the turning skills, which also indicates that the baby's big action development has entered a stage of rapid development, and since then they will no longer be bored staring at the ceiling, immersed in the joy of turning over all the time.
During this period, the baby is obsessed with the learning of turning skills, no matter where they are, they will practice hard, so mothers can keep an eye on the baby to avoid the baby from touching dangerous objects because of turning over, or accidentally falling out of bed, knowing that they are not honest at this time.
Secondly, the baby learned to turn over and pay attention to their careful kicking of the quilt, so as not to kick the head and cause suffocation, which must be supervised at all times.
5-6 months of developmental milestones in the teeth eruption period: don't ignore your baby's feelings
Under normal circumstances, about 6 months of the baby's front front teeth began to erupt, some babies will be slightly earlier, 4 months when the teeth will be decapitated and exposed, but regardless of the time of tooth eruption sooner or later, mothers should pay special attention to a problem, that is, the baby's gum bed will be very uncomfortable, at this time they will not stop drooling, at night will be uncomfortable can not sleep peacefully.
Therefore, during this period, the mother should pay special attention to the baby's teeth, the mother can wrap the finger with gauze to help the baby massage the gums, and can also prepare a soft and hard molar stick for them, which can effectively alleviate the discomfort caused by teething. Secondly, the mother should also help them dry the saliva around their mouths in time to avoid causing eczema.
Chewing up period of the 7-8 month developmental milestone: do not eat too finely
7, in addition to drinking milk, rice flour, fruit has also become their main energy intake, mothers will always make a variety of foods into liquid food, so that eating is not only conducive to digestion and absorption. In addition to drinking milk, rice flour and fruits have also become their main energy intake, and their mothers will always make various foods into liquid food, so that it is not only conducive to digestion and absorption.
In fact, this is not conducive to the development of the baby's chewing ability, the mother should change the shape of the food according to the baby's age, from the initial mud, paste slowly into small particles, and then into a block, so as to further exercise the baby's chewing ability, so that the baby's eating habits slowly transition to adults.
September-October Developmental Milestone Walking Semester: Don't learn to walk too early
As a parent, it is natural to hope that children can be better than ordinary people, especially in the matter of walking, but also hope that they can master this skill as soon as possible, so they use walkers and toddler belts to let the baby practice standing in advance, or learn to walk.
In fact, there are not many children who have learned to walk at 10 months, and parents must not be anxious to let children learn to walk in advance, because the baby's bones have not yet developed completely, premature practice will affect the baby's spine and leg development, do not accidentally let the child become O or X-shaped legs, or affect the height, which is not worth the loss.
11-12 months development milestone habit formation period: do not overly coddle and obedient
Although the baby of about one year old cannot run fast or communicate fluently, he can understand most of what his mother says, and then the independent consciousness begins to emerge, which is also a critical period for habit formation.
Mothers should consciously exercise their children, let them learn to sleep independently, learn to eat, can also play with toys, sit on the potty to defecate, and develop these good habits within 1 year of age can benefit them for a lifetime. Therefore, the mother should also sometimes learn to let go, don't think that they can't do these things when they are small, in fact, he is smarter than we think, and excessive doting and obedience will only turn the baby into a "little devil".
Being a qualified mom is not easy, and learning to grow up with your child is the key
After having a child, I know that it is not easy to be a qualified mother, the child collapses to cry when he cries, when the child is sick, he is eager to fight everything for them, the child bumps and bumps will always be painful and guilty, always feel that his mother is too incompetent.
In fact, mothers do not have to blame themselves, and it is inevitable that they will fall into the pit in the process of taking their babies, because there can be no perfect mother in this world. When we encounter problems in the process of taking a baby, we may wish to ask more people to ask for advice, the child is growing up mother is also constantly learning, those seemingly headache problems can be solved.
Of course, there are still many things to pay attention to in the process of baby growth, so mothers may wish to follow our footsteps to learn together, and becoming a super mother is just around the corner.