Yesterday, the author saw a sad news in Zhengguan News: a 12-year-old boy in Guangxi, because his father did not let him take his mobile phone to school, he stabbed his father to death without spare scissors. Seeing this kind of news, people's first reaction may be to blame the failure of homeschooling. Family education is indeed the most important reason, but the negative impact of mobile games on teenagers can not be ignored.
After reading the news, the author unconsciously thought of a student who had been taught as a tutor, and remembered the stories that his mother told me about the wits and courage with children because of mobile phone games.
It was a very gifted child in terms of learning, and he was in the first year of high school, attending the key class of a well-known key middle school in Chengdu. Although the author was also called a "school bully" in high school, his IQ was completely incomparable with that of this child.
According to the child's mother, she has hardly seen her children actively do homework and review at home, but the child's mathematics, physics and chemistry have always been in the top few grades at that time, and mathematics has remained at about 140 for a long time. Chinese and English are slightly worse because they need to memorize, but also in the 100 to 110 look. It can be said that normal development continues, and it is completely fine for children to go to first-class universities.
But ever since kids became addicted to mobile games, things got completely out of hand. School teachers frequently reported that children dozed off in class and withered. After all kinds of reasonable communication failed, the parents of the children took some coercive measures against the children.
Parents confiscate all of their children's mobile phones, do not give their children any pocket money, and only charge the school's meal card every week. But the child would rather not eat, but also exchange the money in the meal card for cash, and then go to the second-hand market to buy an old mobile phone and continue to play the game!
The broadband in the home is all cut off, and the child secretly gets up in the middle of the night to rub the WIFI upstairs and downstairs!
If you forcibly grab the mobile phone from the child's hand, the child will either fight with the parents or use the jumping building as a threat!
In order to allow the child to sleep well at night, the child's mother even demolished all the doors in the house! But it still doesn't help.
If this is a failure of family education, but children have always been sensible and filial and polite before the second year of junior high school, parents did not expect that children would become like this!
Just today, I spoke to his mother on the phone and asked about the child's situation. The response was very regrettable, the child's mother said that the child is now completely decadent, still immersed in mobile phone games, and the undergraduate line of the first diagnosis can not be on the undergraduate line. For such a result, any verbal comfort seems so thin!
The child is not a fish, but the joy of knowing the fish. People like us who are not interested in mobile games are completely unaware of how big that addiction really is, is it the same as taking drugs?
For mobile games, it is actually very easy to really regulate. Any game account needs to be registered under the real-name system, face recognition is required for each login, and various restrictions can be set for minors under the age of 18, such as only on weekends and holidays, and the total daily duration does not exceed 1 hour.
However, this is a huge industry after all, involving too many related interests, and it also has a positive side, last year's EDG championship did not also win glory for the country? The country may not shake an industry because of the tragedy of a few people, and all we parents can do seems to be to let their children have more healthy hobbies to resist the adverse effects of mobile games!
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