The first marriage failed, leaving a son
Mr. Wu is a rural person, living in the countryside since childhood, his parents are illiterate, he graduated from junior high school, his education is not high, his appearance is average, and it will definitely take a lot of effort for the family to marry her daughter-in-law. Fortunately, a girl in the next village, Ms. Liu, graduated from primary school, looks average, Ms. Liu is a big person, at home with her parents all day long, the family wants her to quickly find her in-laws, she is also willing to Mr. Wu to deal with the object.
After Mr. Wu and Ms. Liu were together for a while, they began to handle the marriage, and Mr. Wu's parents did not mention how happy they were. After getting married, they soon had a baby, a boy, and Mr. Wu's parents were even happier to close their mouths, but Ms. Liu was very protective of the calves and did not let the in-laws touch the child.
In this way, family conflicts naturally arise, which were originally contradictions between in-laws and daughters-in-law, and Mr. Wu was sandwiched in the middle, and contradictions between him and his daughter-in-law were inevitable. Mr. Wu belongs to The people of Mu Ne, who will not make people happy, and like to be reasonable, but his own culture is not high, and he cannot talk about flowers when he is reasonable.
The husband and wife originally did not have a deep relationship, and gradually Ms. Liu felt that it was painful to stay in this family, and Mr. Wu and his parents also felt that this daughter-in-law was not normal, and they wanted to shoot and scatter. The focus of the divorce is still on the children, they all want to keep the children, and finally under the advice of Ms. Liu's mother's family, they left the children to Mr. Wu, after all, it is difficult to find a home with the children.
Went out to work, and saw marriage again
After Mr. Wu divorced, he handed over the child to his parents to take care of and went out to work on his own. There was a failed marriage, and Mr. Wu no longer had any illusions about married life. Mr. Wu worked outside for two or three years, saved some money, and began to think about women again, for Mr. Wu, who has no hobbies, after all, the life of a bachelor is lonely.
Just when Mr. Wu was preparing to go home to see if he could marry another daughter-in-law, a woman came to the construction site where the migrant worker came, and there were usually very few women working in the place where the man worked. Mr. Wu feels that this woman can endure hardships, and may be a person who lives a solid life. I thought of using the "near-water platform" of the construction site first to see if I could "get the moon first".
Therefore, Mr. Wu gave up his plan to go home and worked on the construction site again. With deliberate contact with this female worker, Mr. Wu knew that her surname was Ren and that her home was from the local countryside. Ms. Ren does not pay attention to dressing up, people are not pretty, but can work and not too tired, which is most appreciated by Mr. Wu, he slowly began to set up with Ms. Ren, asking Ms. Ren about her personal situation.
Through further understanding, Mr. Wu also knew that Ms. Ren was 26 years old and had never been married, and Mr. Wu was 27 years old this year, which made Mr. Wu feel that they were quite suitable. Kung Fu pays off, Mr. Wu spent more than half a year, and finally chased Ms. Ren, who is willing to go back to her hometown with Mr. Wu to live.
Remarried to a daughter, but the wife disappeared
Mr. Wu spent 100,000 dowry to marry Ms. Ren, according to the market at that time, this dowry was not high, so Ms. Ren's parents were not very happy. After Ms. Ren and Mr. Wu married, they had a daughter, but soon Ms. Ren discovered that Mr. Wu's personality had a fatal flaw - suspiciousness.
Maybe it was the daughter-in-law of someone else in the same village who cheated on Mr. Wu, or maybe Mr. Wu heard his ex-wife's gossip, in short, Mr. Wu would quarrel with Ms. Ren as soon as he saw Ms. Ren and other men talking and laughing. In addition to quarreling, they sometimes use their hands, Ms. Ren has been doing manual work on the construction site, Mr. Wu and Ms. Ren can not take advantage of the hands, the result can only be to deepen the contradiction.
One day, Mr. Wu found that Ms. Ren was not at home, no one answered the phone, the neighbors and relatives looked for it, but they did not find it, but Mr. Wu did not think much about it, he thought that his wife would definitely come back in the evening. As a result, it was not until the next morning, when he did not see Ms. Ren's shadow, that Mr. Wu felt that something was wrong and began to seriously look for people everywhere.
After another day, still did not see Ms. Ren home, Mr. Wu contacted his parents-in-law, the other party told that there was no news of Ms. Ren, Mr. Wu helplessly reported to the police. The police assisted Mr. Wu in issuing a search notice and issued a notice of assistance within the police, but many days have passed, and there has been no news about Ms. Ren.
After more than a year of hearing nothing, he intends to sue for divorce
He knew that 80% of Ms. Ren did not want to live with himself, but he really did not understand his wife's practice of running away from home. Mr. Wu has also been in his hometown for more than two years, no longer going out to work, the family has no money to raise children, Mr. Wu did not dwell on the disappearance of his wife, and went out to earn money.
Two months after leaving the house, Mr. Wu's parents-in-law called and asked the son-in-law if he had found their daughter, and if he could not find it, he could only find Mr. Wu's vizier. Mr. Wu thought the same thing, their daughter was lost in their own home, they didn't look for who they wanted to find, Mr. Wu contacted all the people who might know the whereabouts of Ms. Ren, and the answer they got was that they didn't know.
Just when Mr. Wu was at a loss, he suddenly thought that Ms. Ren still had a dry father, so he contacted Ms. Ren's dry father, and the other party told Mr. Wu that he had contacted Ms. Ren a few days ago. The news from Ms. Ren's father made Mr. Wu completely rule out the possibility that Ms. Ren was in danger, and Mr. Wu also told his parents-in-law about this situation.
Who knows that after Ms. Ren's parents learned the news, they did not let go of their worries about their daughter, but still asked their son-in-law Mr. Wu for someone, which made Mr. Wu feel that things were not so simple. In addition to working in other places to earn money, Mr. Wu often had to deal with the phone calls and WeChat of his parents-in-law, so after more than a year, Mr. Wu no longer had any news of his wife, Ms. Ren.
In this way, it is not the way, Mr. Wu learned through consulting a lawyer that divorce can be sued through the court, and at present, for this situation, Mr. Wu believes that he can only take this road.
An unexpected phone call that solves a long-standing doubt
Mr. Wu originally felt guilty about his parents-in-law, but since he vaguely felt that maybe his parents-in-law and his wife, Ms. Ren, colluded and deliberately concealed Ms. Ren's situation, Mr. Wu also had a lot of disgust for his parents-in-law.
Just when Mr. Wu was thinking about how to divorce, he suddenly received a call from the cadres in the village of his hometown, saying that the health center asked when to give birth to the child, which made Mr. Wu wonder, and his wife had been away from home for two years, which must have been a mistake.
After half a day, Mr. Wu suddenly understood, it is estimated that his wife and others gave birth to children outside, he quickly took leave to return to his hometown, went to the health center and the family planning department to check the birth information of the next lady, Ms. Ren did give birth outside, or broke the abdomen.
Mr. Wu finally understood the truth that ms. Ren had disappeared for such a long time, she was iron-hearted and did not want to live with herself, and she had settled down outside, but what Mr. Wu could not understand was why Ms. Ren did not divorce herself, and it was not possible to have a better life if She divorced Ms. Ren.
Ms. Ren's approach has put Mr. Wu in a dilemma, he has always been grumpy, and now Mr. Wu is bent on finding Ms. Ren, and he wants to pursue her bigamy. Ms. Ren is indeed elusive, and she should not have children with others during her marriage.
Now the married life is easy to break up, the divorce rate is also rising year by year, but whether the married life is happy or unhappy, we should cherish the fate of being able to become a husband and wife in the vast sea of people, it is better to get together and disperse if you really can't live, otherwise you will have to resort to the law in the end, and you may also turn against each other.