"Those who become early may not be successful, and those who arrive late may not be unreachable", this society is not fair, some people are born with a golden key, and the starting point of life is many times higher than that of their peers born in rural areas. But there are many people who break this class restriction through their own efforts and become the dragon and phoenix among people, including such an extraordinary woman - Yu Wenxia.
A noble son from a poor family
Yu Wenxia was born in 1989 in Xinhua Village, Yabuli Town, Shangzhi City, Heilongjiang Province. Yu Wenxia has always buried the seeds of art in her heart, and has never been stifled due to her family background, but she has no choice but to get what she wants because of the financial support of her family.
Her parents were worried about this, and for the sake of their daughter's future, they took her daughter to Yabuli Town to study. Yu Wenxia herself is also very hardworking, and she has achieved excellent results in ordinary high schools in the high school entrance examination, but in the end, the empathetic Yu Wenxia chose the secondary school department of Shandong Heze Conservatory of Music, because the policy of free compulsory education in vocational high schools can reduce the burden on parents.
After entering the school, Yu Wenxia was favored by the teacher with her excellent talent, and the teacher thought that she had great potential in vocal music, so he strongly encouraged her to go to university for further study, Yu Wenxia was flattered, so she trained more diligently. Finally, the hard work paid off. In 2008, Yu Wenxia successfully entered the National Vocal Music major of the Conservatory of Music of Harbin Normal University.
Becoming a college student means that you are one step closer to your dream, which is something to be happy about. But when I think of the high tuition fees, the family is sad. For the sake of her dreams, in desperation, Yu Wenxia worked part-time to earn money during the summer vacation, and her parents borrowed money from relatives and friends to make up for their daughter's tuition.
She had to apply for a national student loan to solve her urgent need for tuition, and then work part-time as a nanny and tutor while studying to solve her food and clothing problems. In her sophomore year, Yu Wenxia never reached out to her family to ask for money. Even though she got up early and worked hard for her livelihood every day, Yu Wenxia did not slack off in her schoolwork.
After several years of college precipitation, she had the opportunity to participate in the 62nd Miss World beauty pageant in 2012. After layers of screening, Yu Wenxia won unanimous praise from the judges with her song "Luhua" and won the championship title in one fell swoop. Yu Wenxia, who won the championship, has attracted much attention, and many people think that she is more beautiful than Li Jiaxin.
Adversity produces talents
Society is like a theater, everyone is playing their own role, but the role is relative, there is a rich second generation, there will be poor. Although this unfairness cannot be avoided, in this world, everyone's time is 24 hours, and no one is an exception.
Yu Wenxia just made good use of this time to cultivate herself, neither humble nor arrogant, not complaining about her background, and not complaining about the difficulties of life, which led to this remarkable achievement.
The child of a rich family has the support of his parents behind him, and whatever he does in the future, whether he returns with a feather or a full load, the villa at home is waiting for him. And rural children like Yu Wenxia are parents who walk around them, looking forward to their daughter's success.
Yu Wenxia has no resources, no connections, and even the economy is a problem. Despite this, she has no way out, so she can only break into society single-handedly, just seeking a foothold. This depends not only on the courage of loneliness, but also on the efforts put in behind it.
The word "hard work" is easy to pronounce, but it contains not only actions to achieve goals, but also the inner torment caused by the impact caused by the contradiction between reality and ideals.
A few years ago, a netizen named "Maizi" published an in-depth article "I struggled for 18 years to sit with you and drink coffee", which expressed the difficulty of the children of the poor family to change their own destiny and the complex state of mind of contradictions and confrontations after being changed.
Three years after the article was published, a graduate student at Tsinghua University wrote an article entitled "I have struggled for 18 years, not to drink coffee with you" on the basis of the article, raising the question of "can knowledge change fate and squeeze to a higher class level" for the public.
In this regard, many people from poor backgrounds are discouraged, thinking that it is unlikely to change the class, so they are used to the hardships of life since childhood, and they are unwilling to endure the hardships of studying hard. Of course, there is another type of person, like Yu Wenxia, who not only does not stand up for himself because of his family background, but firmly believes in the meaning of hard work and creates a bright future with his own hands.
In the British documentary "Seven Years of Life", the team interviewed 12 children from different walks of life every seven years, and found that the children of the rich are still rich, and the children of the poor are still poor, except for a poor child named Nick, who became a university professor through his own hard work.
It can be seen that in fact, fate is in your own hands. The talented woman of Peking University also said: "Fate gives you a lower starting point than others, is to tell you, let you use your life to struggle out of a Jedi counterattack story, this story is a will where there is a will, there is a way, the cauldron is sunk, the one hundred and two Qin Pass ultimately belongs to Chu, this story is a painstaking person who does not live up to the sky, lying on the salary to taste the gall, three thousand Yuejia can swallow Wu." ”
Put down the halo and do public welfare
The purpose of the "Miss World" contest is to "promote world peace, set an example for outstanding women, help hungry and disabled children", and advocate "meaningful beauty". Yu Wenxia, who won the crown, was routinely going to a year-long charity fundraiser around the world, so she lived a life traveling around the world.
During this period, she once raised 3.603 million yuan, setting a record for the event since its inception.
After the end of her term, because of her love for public welfare, Yu Wenxia did not replan her life like other worlds, but continued to devote herself to public welfare. Perhaps because she was born in a poor area and was quite touched by the plight of poor children, Yu Wenxia firmly went to a primary school in a remote mountain village in Fujian Province with volunteers to teach.
There, she patiently taught the children to sing, draw, share, and more. Such a tireless and selfless dedication is just because of the belief in my heart: "I am not a 'goddess', I am a bitter child who grew up in the countryside, and I should always remember that there are many bitter children like me who need my help." ”
Philanthropists should ignore the charity rankings and the amount of donations, and should pay attention to who has contributed to the charity, even if it only provides a small strength, it is worthy of respect. Just like the teachers who volunteer in the countryside, they are the ones who support the greatest love in our world.
Public welfare is never about giving material, but more about guiding the way. On the one hand, it can guide and encourage people in difficulty to move towards a better life, and on the other hand, it can call on more people in society to participate in public welfare activities. I believe that with the growth of public welfare, more people will join the ranks.