Gao Yuanyuan's role in the TV series "Perfect Partner" Chen Shan is very emotional:
In the workplace, she is a female lawyer with strong business ability; in the family, she is a good wife with a large temperature.
But she lived smoothly, broken by an accident: she was pregnant.
Chen Shan is 40 years old, her career is on the rise, this child is an accident, after careful consideration, Chen Shan decided to pay for this "accident".
This means that Chen Shan has to make a lot of sacrifices for this child. During her pregnancy, a box of condoms on her husband Sun Lei's car made it clear to her that her so-called "sacrifice" was destined to be self-inflicted.
Sacrifice health
Chen Shan's health is not very good, she has a history of heart disease, just knew that she was pregnant, her husband Sun Lei did not recommend her to keep this child:
First of all, she counts as an elderly pregnant woman, which is itself a high risk;
Second, she has a history of heart disease, and no one can be sure whether some accidents will occur in her body during pregnancy.
Finally, after pregnancy, her progesterone index is not very high, which also means that the child itself has the risk of losing it. Especially later, it was detected that the child had a problem with fetal heart rate delay.
But none of this is against the heart of the mother who wants to protect the child and give birth to the child.
Chen Shan knew her situation, but she was very determined that she would not easily give up on this child because of some problems that existed now.
If there is no accident, this also means that in the third trimester of pregnancy, Chen Shan's body load will be very large, and even have a certain impact on her health.
In other words, Chen Shan "sacrificed" part of her health to protect the child.
She was a great mother. For the sake of her children, she suffered and was willing.
Sacrifice the cause
In the workplace, Chen Shan is a very good lawyer, only one step away from the law firm partner.
Her career is on the rise, but in order to better protect the child, she chose to leave work and raise a baby at home.
Many women in the workplace do not dare to get pregnant, and the deepest reason is that they are afraid that after returning from maternity leave, the company will not have its own place.
But Chen Shan is not afraid, she firmly believes in her own ability, and she knows better what she wants. Especially for her, the most important thing at the moment is to protect the baby in the belly.
Therefore, the short-term sacrifice of the cause, in her opinion, is deserved.
However, Chen Shan's return to the family to raise a fetus is forced to be helpless, and her enthusiasm for work is unbeatable.
Even if she is resting, she will still stay up late to check the information because of the request of customer Lin Qingkun, help him find a way to solve the problem.
She enjoys her job, and even more enjoys the sense of accomplishment that her work brings her.
Obviously, for this child, Chen Shan's sacrifice is not insignificant. She is using her sense of achievement and value in exchange for the safety and health of the baby.
Sacrifice yourself
In the matter of raising a fetus, Chen Shan has been as careful as possible, but the accident still happened.
The daughter wanted to go swimming, but Chen Shan couldn't help it and went with her. The most important thing on the floor of the swimming pool is water, Chen Shan slipped and fell, fortunately the child is fine, but Chen Shan has to stay in bed to raise a fetus.
For Chen Shan, who wants to do everything to the extreme, she is very guilty of her carelessness, and in order to protect this child, she is really bed resting:
Lying on a recliner, she can't move; in order to reduce the frequency of going to the toilet, she rarely drinks water; in order to limit her "can't stop working" heart, she does not watch TV and stay away from her mobile phone.
She kept this state for nearly 2 weeks, until she went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor told her that when the baby was fine, she completely relaxed her mind.
Chen Shan is really a person who does what she says. Her success lies in her focus, but also in the pursuit of the ultimate.
She was trying to raise a baby, and it seemed that everything was developing in a good way, but Sun Lei was dismissed, but he did not dare to tell Chen Shan.
In Sun Lei's view, Chen Shan has great expectations for him, he is not willing to let Chen Shan know that he has been dismissed, does not want her to worry, and does not want her expectations to be disappointed.
But there must still be work, money still has to be earned, Chen Shan takes a vacation to raise a fetus, and Sun Lei has to support his family. In desperation, Sun Lei accepted to go to the medicine room, but he went to Chen Shan without permission.
But the paper could not contain the fire after all, and Chen Shan found a box of condoms in the car.
At first, she thought that Sun Lei had cheated on her during her pregnancy, but when she saw the "free distribution" written on the box, she instantly understood.
Sun Lei still went to the medicine room, everyone knew, but he did not say it to her, and he was still famous for it, afraid of affecting her emotions.
The results proved that it really affected her mood, Chen Shan was too excited, after going to the hospital, the child fell, she gave birth.
After being pushed out of the operating room, Chen Shan had a pale face and said to Sun Lei expressionlessly: Divorce!
In the end, Chen Shan's series of "sacrifices" ended with her small birth and divorce from Sun Lei.
She sacrificed her health, sacrificed her career, sacrificed herself, trapped herself in the role of "mother", repeated efforts, but the result was not ideal, she was a "failed" mother, she insisted that her marriage also failed very thoroughly.
Chen Shan struggled for a while, and in the end, she was just begging for food.
The 40-year-old pregnant woman, after a mother's addiction, but before she saw the child, she suffered a small birth.
She was wrong to overestimate herself, and she also overestimated Sun Lei.
In married life, many people will unconsciously have expectations for the other half, but often, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment.
Chen Shan felt that Sun Lei was talented and famous, and he could not draw the ground as a prison and limit himself, he should go to the broader world and shine.
But her expectations are not what Sun Lei wants, and at this point, she is destined to be disappointed.
Chen Shan forgot that even if it is a partner, there must be a sense of boundaries.
Sun Lei's career and future should be decided by himself.
Only love can last.
Chen Shan transferred his high requirements and high pay for his career to Sun Lei, obviously, Sun Lei accepted incompetence, he is not Chen Shan, he is Sun Lei, genes can not be reproduced, even a family can not open 2 flowers called "Chen Shan".
The so-called perfect partner is nothing more than a family, each performing its own duties, and the Lord and the Lord and the Lord are all based on hobbies.
Husbands and wives are originally partners, and only when the inside and outside are well balanced can the family be harmonious.
In the name of "sacrifice", Chen Shan crossed the line to ask Sun Lei, and the relationship between the 2 people was unbalanced, and she was destined to be self-inflicted, just to eat!