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Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

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During this time, douyin and Weibo were all swiped by a boy named "Liu Xuezhou".

His fate was so turbulent that people couldn't help but sigh.

When he was very young, his "parents" were killed in an explosion, along with the house, which was also destroyed.

Homeless, Liu Xuezhou has been fostered in different relatives' homes.

The taste under the fence, Liu Xuezhou, who was a young man, had already tasted it all.

He was rejected and scolded, saying that he was a wild child;

He was ridiculed, hated, and seen enough of the malice of the world.

He always thought: Just grow up.

Why wait until you grow up? Because he knew the secret of his own life.

He was a bought child.

That is to say, the couple who died that year were not Liu Xuezhou's biological parents.

Seeing Sun Haiyang looking for relatives and seeing that the children of the family abducted and sold by human traffickers have been found one after another, Liu Xuezhou also wants to find relatives and wants to know who his biological parents are.

Therefore, he spoke out through the Internet and published his physical characteristics and date of birth completely.

Soon, with the assistance of the public security organs, Liu Xuezhou found his own parents.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

After recognizing his relatives, Liu Xuezhou was very excited, and he posted a photo of himself and his father in the circle of friends, with a picture of "Today is a happy little friend."

And his biological mother also told him in WeChat to dress more in the cold and promised to send something to Liu Xuezhou.

Originally, I thought that at this point in the story, it should draw a satisfactory end.

Although the family has been forced to separate for more than ten years, the remaining decades will surely be cherished and waited for each other.

But the story is not at all what we imagined.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Liu Xuezhou's search for relatives was in December 2021.

During that time, Sun Haiyang also officially found his long-lost beloved son, Sun Zhuo.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Two families, similar fates, but with different endings.

Sun Haiyang was a great father.

In order to find the child, he went on TV, crouched over the wall, and waited in front of other people's homes.

On the road to find a son, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, he will not give up.

The look of standing at the door of someone else's house, looking carefully, the kind of look that expects a miracle to appear, anyone who looks at it will feel sad and tearful.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

He was a man of affection and righteousness, but also a responsible father.

Whether the child finds it or not, he is the same as always.

With love, he built a wall for the child, blocking the storm outside and resisting all the wind and frost and snow swords.

Such a father is an example for too many parents to learn from.

However, not all families who have been trafficked have a father like Sun Haiyang.

The fates of Sun Zhuo and Liu Xuezhou are so similar and so different.

The most shocking thing is that according to Liu Xuezhou, he was not "abducted", but abandoned by his biological parents!

At that time, Liu Xuezhou's biological parents were pregnant before marriage, but there was no bride price for marriage, so Liu Xuezhou's father sold him shortly after he was born, in exchange for money to give his mother a bride price!

What kind of scumbag parents are these?

Children are born in exchange for dowry money?

And when Liu Xuezhou recognized his relatives, learned the truth, and questioned them, his mother still did not repent and replied with a straight face:

Why don't you ask your adoptive parents? Who wants them to keep them? They don't hug and there are other good people to hug!

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

This means that what is causing you such a tragic life now is not our reason, but the reason for your adoptive parents, who call them to have no money to support you, no matter what, you are an outcast that we do not want.

Such words are such a big blow for a 10-year-old, underage child.

Liu Xuezhou said in front of the camera, "They really didn't lose me, they sold me", I can't imagine how stinging it would be for a person to face the reality of blood.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

After more than ten years of turbulent and displaced life, I thought that the moment I met my biological parents, I could finally end it.

But unexpectedly, the storm they brought was more intense and icy than the outside world.

He asked his birth parents that he would buy him a small house or rent a house. In short, he wanted a home of his own.

The reason for this request is that the biological parents already have a new family, and their families do not accept Liu Xuezhou.

Moreover, Liu Xuezhou has offended relatives on the side of his adoptive parents because of his search for relatives, and now, one of the biggest problems he faces is that there is no place to live.

His current home has become a ruin.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

In such an environment, how to learn, how to live?

After all, he himself is an underage child, and it is impossible for him to go out to work and earn money to support himself for the time being.

He had to turn to his birth parents.

However, this request was ruthlessly rejected.

Even, even more desperately, when he later communicated with his mother again, he tragically found that he had been blocked by his mother.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

The father, who is also on the Internet, sneered at this son, saying that he was a "network beggar".

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

The parents, both then and now, have never changed their attitude toward their biological son.

In the year of his birth, they abandoned him for the bride price;

More than ten years later, the son searched for relatives for thousands of miles, but he was abandoned again for the sake of a house.

What kind of human tragedy is this?

The clouds and rain of fate have carved one merciless scar after another on Liu Xuezhou's body.

He could have grown up safely, but he had tasted many of the pains given by fate;

He knew his parents were alive, but he couldn't build a home.

His life is a book that has been turned upside down.

And the initiators are actually the biological parents who are connected to their own blood.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Children without umbrellas can only learn to run hard

In the Liu Xuezhou incident, what moved me the most was that although he was in the mud and accompanied by suffering, he always had a strength to grow upwards.

There is no place to live, to be sent to the fence, to be insulted and ridiculed... Although Liu Xuezhou's life path is more tattered than others,

But he never gave up on learning.

On his walls, there are large and small awards and certificates.

He said, these are all spelled out by me in the dark, one by one...

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

At the same age, other children receive these honors and may receive great encouragement from their parents.

But Liu Xuezhou did not.

He has no home, no one to care for, what he has to worry about every day is where he lives, how to live, how to go to school, how not to bring trouble to others...

For him, these hardships of life were not natural disasters, but sins created by his own parents.

The only thing he could do was close his eyes and grit his teeth and rush forward.

He had always been alone, spontaneously shining in the dark of night.

Children without umbrellas will run harder.

If born in a sound, normal family, Liu Xuezhou will definitely be an excellent child.

He has excellent grades and does not need his parents to worry about it at all;

He is quick-witted and knows how to post on the Internet and find his loved ones for himself;

He struggled with the dirty and dirty people in life for too long, cultivating his powerful abilities and understanding of the world.

Those who can't kill you will eventually make you stronger.

The biological father cried online that he had no money and that his financial conditions were not good.

But Liu Xuezhou quickly found out that there were three companies in his father's name.

His biological parents did not want to raise him anymore, and he took them all to court with a lawsuit, making his parents jealous.

Some people questioned Liu Xuezhou and said: This child is not simple at first glance, and he has too many thoughts.

However, you have not experienced the pain of being abandoned, you have not experienced the despair of being trampled under the feet of life, and you simply do not understand how difficult it is for a person who has been abandoned by the whole world to live.

He didn't have a lot of eyes, but he had to find a way to protect himself, at least to get through his studies.

And what he wants is all he deserves.

What's wrong with a child who wants a place to live, who wants to complete his studies completely, who wants to live a stable life?

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

More important than blood is a person's conscience

The story of Liu Xuezhou is fermented on the Internet.

There are many caring people who have reached out to him for a helping hand.

There are many parents of other people's children who leave a message on Liu Xuezhou's Douyin saying:

"If your biological parents don't care about you, your aunt will sponsor you $500 a month until you graduate. You are so good, you must stick to it."

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

On the one hand, the biological parents do not care, and on the other hand, the unknown person actually wants to fund him to finish the book, you say irony is not ironic?

Liu Xuezhou's questioning of his biological father on the Internet is very heartfelt:

My biological father, when you are concerned about whether your current wife will divorce you, have you ever wondered how your son, who lost his own hands, has survived for more than ten years?

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Whether a person is worthy of being a parent, whether a biological parent should respect it, should not look at the blood relationship, but should look at his conscience.

Just like the Liu Xuezhou incident, his parents did not care, but strange netizens actually wanted to support him to complete his studies.

After going through too many things, we finally understand that the blood relationship is only a physical relationship, and true love has nothing to do with the blood.

The humanity of Liu Xuezhou's parents is disappointing, but the warmth that surges in society has lit up a light for us in this cold winter.

Someone asked Liu Xuezhou if he had opened a donation channel and wanted to send him some daily necessities for the winter.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Someone was willing to offer him a house to live in until he finished his studies.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Another comment that is particularly conspicuous is the message of Fu Jiantao's mother, who is also heartbroken by Liu Xuezhou's story.

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Fu Jiantao is also a child who was abducted and trafficked, and their family has also experienced pain, but those who have been drenched in rain and people who are full of scars still can't see this human suffering and still want to bring a little kindness to those who need help.

Finally, the local justice bureau also responded: it will do its best to help Liu Xuezhou!

Hebei boy looking for relatives was "blocked" by his birth mother: not every parent is called Sun Haiyang

Only kindness can break through the shackles of blood, and only warm blood can make emotions flow positively.

This is the only place worthy of relief in Liu Xuezhou's story.

Finally, I would like to say:

Sometimes, we have to admit that not every parent will do everything to love you.

Even, they are, in their own right, the storms you need to fend off to the death.

And what we have to do is to keep making ourselves stronger, and then slash all of this with a sword.

May you be brave, may you live as a light even in the darkness.

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