Between husband and wife, what really goes on is sometimes really based on righteousness, tolerance and understanding.
In fact, as Chen Shan said, her own family is in conflict, which is different from Lin Qingkun's family.
I don't know the next step in the career of Sun Lei, the male protagonist of the TV series "Perfect Partner".
But watching his operation in these episodes, you can feel that his wife Chen Shan is worried about him, and he understands more and more that it is too important for people to find a suitable position for themselves in their careers.
It seems that the contradiction of Lin Qingkun's family is the problem of communication and paranoia. Like what:
Seeing that his wife, who was 8 weeks pregnant, unfortunately miscarried, Lin Qingkun was distressed and scolded:
I went home and pushed open the door to see you with another man, and then you tell me now that you're pregnant, and you don't know yourself, who believes?"
Wu Min was too aggrieved, but he wanted to do a career, and angrily replied:
What nonsense are you talking about?
I knew you when I was 20 years old and I took my man. My youth, my future is all entrusted to you, take care of your diet and living to take care of your emotional feelings, and how do you treat us?
It is easy to fall in love and difficult to keep each other, and the night before Wu Min left home, she invited Chen Shan, who felt that she had taken good care of her home and was very envious. Wu Min said:
He values the tacit understanding of your work...
In his eyes, you are the real partners, and I am just a tool like his house, car, mobile phone, computer.
You see, that's the problem of communication.
Lin Qingkun likes to go home and have the warmth of a home, while Wu Min needs someone to accompany her for walks, cooking, chatting, etc.
This family, Lin Qingkun adapted, Wu Min did not adapt.
Chen Shan and Sun Lei, on the other hand, are facing problems of economy and development.
This home, Chen Shan can enjoy, but Sun Lei is confused and contradictory.
In these episodes, Sun Lei's performance is very disappointing, but reasonable.
The female writer Suzen said:
Yours, God has its own arrangements.
Most of the pain we experience in our lives is something that outsiders cannot know and experience, and it is even difficult to say it. You can only rely on time to dilute and rely on self to digest. It's like swallowing a needle that you, but still smiling.
Chen Shan was faced with this kind of unspeakable discomfort. She hopes that her husband will be motivated because she feels that the platform is not good, but it is a pity that his talent is angry.
Sun Lei is not unmotivated, he does not accept the 996 and white + black work rhythm, which is a personal choice.
But they face financial problems and need to make money. Mortgages, car loans, time is not waiting for them.
Chen Lei, who knows that he cares about others, is a good man who warms his heart and takes care of his family.
As a result, for more than 10 years, when there was a conflict between career and family, he paid more attention to the warmth and cold of his daughter and the triviality of his family, rather than the enterprising of his career.
Sun Lei was calculated by the leaders of the unit: on the one hand, he was indeed not welcomed by the leaders when he worked as a man, and on the other hand, his work attitude was also criticized.
It was the apprentice he had helped that year, who had pulled him along, giving him a high salary and new opportunities.
The new work of foreign pharmaceutical industry is labor-intensive, with a monthly salary of 200,000 yuan, it is he and his wife who are excited, he changed 1.2 million cars in advance, and took a family of 5 to eat a new restaurant.
After going to work, he was extremely uneasy inside, what was uneasy?
Family, children, wife, he thinks his world is here.
The high-intensity work rhythm makes him particularly uncomfortable at work:
Day 1:
He was flustered, unable to sit still, worried about the child's eating and drinking Lasa, while his daughter here, unable to sleep, his wife was urged by Lin Qingkun and needed her assistance.
This daughter is also a grinding age.
The couple also has differences in the education of their children. One thinks it should be coaxed, and the other thinks it should be educated.
Lin Qingkun commented on her family: You are completely messed up.
After Sun Lei returned, he thought that the unit model was terrible, and he was too uncomfortable.
Day 2:
With a rainstorm warning, she began to distrust her daughter and instructed her daughter in various ways, and the daughter obviously did not adapt to the rhythm of his work, and their father and daughter enjoyed each other's dependence very much.
He told his wife to pick up the children in the heavy rain.
As a result, it was because Wu Min called Sun Lei, let him break the work, used the noon time to rush out, picked up the two children, and missed the meeting of the unit.
Day 3:
His wife encouraged him and sorted out all the awards he gave him.
Then, the daughter's clingy phone call made her immediately stop communicating with the headquarters.
Then, Yuanchang gave him time to think, or let him leave.
When he found that he needed to earn money to support his wife and children, he went to his apprentice again, hoping to give him the opportunity to express that he would work hard, afraid of his wife's disappointment, afraid of family disappointment.
In the disciple's long words:
You pleaded with me to keep you, not because you love the job, but because you love your family, if there is a conflict between family and work in the future, you will decisively give up your job and choose your family.
Before Chen Shan said:
House's kind of work is to work a little more overtime, and for your future development, you must not slacken off. Raise your spirits.
Chen Shan, hearing that he had a global exchange conference, was excited as if she could do it, and in her eyes it was an infinite possibility of development.
In order to protect the tire, Chen Shan began to eliminate mobile phones and computers, afraid that she would start working as soon as she touched it.
Sun Lei lost his job, and his mother said of him:
If he wants character and professionalism, how can he not see it?
It is not like this, people with strong ability are to win the approval of others.
Among them, the happiest is the daughter.
This drama's characterization of Sun Lei is very successful.
If Sun Lei has experienced more than 10 years of life with a baby and suddenly changed his choice, it is inappropriate!
Wait until you change jobs, talk about the content of pregnancy, and as a result, the missing items are found by the wife.
Just as the detective's wife could not stand the deception of his choice of a new job.
Chen Shan wronged herself for the sake of her children, challenging psychological limits and physical limits.
The problem between the husband and wife broke out, Chen Shanqi husband and wife for 20 years, did not understand each other, angry husband did not tell the truth.
This is the focus of the contradiction between husband and wife!
Their next step may be the Cold War, divorce, warming, and remarriage!
Perhaps the twists and turns of life make people see the road ahead and the people who accompany it!
Text/@Rose Purple
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