Rousseau once said: "Great men will never abuse their merits, they see where they are superior to others, and they are aware of it, but they will never be humble because of this, and the more they excel, the more they realize their shortcomings." Similarly, "the ripe ear of wheat always bows its head" also describes those who are more knowledgeable, but the sense of self-reflection will be stronger, and the evaluation of objective facts will be more objective.
In Professor Tsinghua's view, consciousness can be cultivated from the day after tomorrow, and consciousness is the premise of determining behavior, when the child is 8-12 years old, he has prepared a certain self-awareness, and once the following 3 kinds are lacking, and there is no timely correction of ideas, then it is difficult to become a talent when he grows up.
1. Lack of self-control awareness
With the increase of age, the objective environment from the beginning of the single gradually become diversified, and the choices and temptations faced are gradually becoming more, at this time, if there is no certain sense of self-control, let yourself indulge, then it will quickly consume the original talent, and it will only be more difficult to go further.
Children aged 8-12 can express fluently and think deeper, and at this time, they need not only to think about the outside world, but also to understand their own responsibilities and the danger areas they should avoid. Don't wait until the child makes a mistake to reprimand, learn to inform the child in advance of the responsibilities he has to bear and learn to find his own life goals, is the basic law that can make the child's future smoother.
2. Lack of enterprising awareness
When asked what you want to do in the future, when you are younger, you can be more specific, and as you get older, you will gradually evolve into: "Nothing you particularly want to do" and "Anything you can do". Lack of enterprising awareness, even if dissatisfied with the status quo, do not want to make changes, become a common problem in many children. When the grades are not good, the moment the report card is received, there will be a rising momentum, and once the past week or a month has passed, most students will return to the normal state of doing nothing before, and there is not enough sense of enterprising and hard work to support long-term efforts, so that it will only fall into a vicious circle and repeat the cycle.
3. Lack of tolerance awareness
After entering primary school, children begin to slowly form their own small groups, the view of things has a specific concept, is no longer accustomed to listening to the opinions of parents or elders, so at this time the children will often be artificially "rebellious", "disobedient", in fact, on the basis of sufficient cognition of the objective world, the previous accumulation of knowledge reserves has been enough for children to express certain views, rather than blindly no judgment. What is too late is that many times parents will give enough tolerance to their children's behavior and language out of the basis of not worrying with their children, but in the long run, it is easy for children to form a stubborn, self-personality, and there is not enough tolerance awareness of others and different views, which is not conducive to the long-term development of children.
In Professor Tsinghua's view, when the child is 8-12 years old, once it is found that the child lacks the above 3 kinds of consciousness, then it is necessary to guide it in time, rather than immersing the child in the world of self and being satisfied with the present, only in this way can the children become talents after they grow up.
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