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Modern children's homework is much heavier than when we were young, and tutoring children to do homework has become a distress for many parents.
Some parents feel that it is too tiring to help their children do homework after returning home after work, but parents still work hard to be a good "home teacher" after complaining, because every parent hopes to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix.
While complaining that the teacher has assigned more homework, but also the parents to complete it together, while enjoying it and tirelessly accompanying the child to write homework and fight until late at night, they do not forget to send the circle of friends to post the picture supervision tool "stick", which is both a spit and a show off.
This is bitterness and joy, showing off that there is a good child who works hard at home, and showing off that he is a good parent who is conscientious and conscientious.
My two children are in the same kindergarten. My sister is over six years old and attends preschool. The younger brother is more than four years old and is in the senior class.
Although it is only kindergarten, there is also homework. I may be lazy as a mother, and I have never tutored two babies to write homework. Their grandmother often asked me to teach them to write homework, and I didn't think so.
Most of my classmates and friends around me are moms and dads, and I often see them drying late and still writing homework with their children.
I guess I'm not a good mother in the traditional sense because I don't tutor them with their homework and don't care if they're doing well or not.
I think what children need most is to have fun and spend a carefree childhood;
Have the company of their mother and give them love and security;
See the world as much as possible, perceive nature, and broaden your horizons;
Do what they love, have something they love, and have their own skills.
I never accompany my children to do homework, if I have time, I will accompany them to play, to exercise, to read books, to learn their favorite hobbies.
I believe that teachers can teach them well, and what I want to bring them is knowledge that cannot be taught in school, and what cannot be learned in textbooks.
In fact, as long as the children are taught well and develop self-awareness, there is no need for adult supervision at all, and they will also complete their homework on their own.
First, children also have their own sense of pride, they also want to do things well, and completing homework is also one of them.
Second, children also have their own pressure, they will also worry that they will be criticized by the teacher if they can't complete the homework, so they will complete the homework by themselves.
My sister and brother have this kind of self-awareness, after eating, they will consciously do their homework, do their homework and then play, sometimes let them do other things and come back and write.
Both children were better than when I was a child, and I can still remember the troubles of writing homework before.
Therefore, interest and self-awareness are the most important, and the education forced out with a stick is quantitative but not qualitative.
The education of children, I think, is to learn to be happy.
Childhood is short, and what they want to remember is the joy of playing with their siblings, the novelty of going out with adults to explore the world, and the interest that has always persisted because of love.
I don't accompany them to write homework, I just want to be their playmates and grow up happily with them.