In life, there is a saying called: brother, clear accounting
This means that although the feelings between brothers and sisters were good when they were young, they grew up.
Their minds have matured, they have their own home and their own family, and all of course everything will be for their own benefit.
Often at this time, contradictions and disputes also arise. Often there will be brothers who are red in the face because of unfair distribution, and they do not interact with each other.
So if it is an only child, will there still be such a thing as turning against each other?
You don't have to say, there really is.
Just in Chongqing, the mainland, a mother and daughter because of the inheritance of their deceased father, resulting in a furious enmity between the two.
Logically, in this world, the most trustworthy is the parents, and the only parents can really treat is their parents and their own flesh and bones.
So why did the mother and daughter turn against each other?
Then this matter has to start from the death of the man of the family.
A mother in her 70s in Chongqing and her daughter began to compete for the family's property. The most surprising thing is that this matter has been litigated three times in court.
You said that there are only two mothers and daughters in this family, to put it mildly, when the mother is a hundred years later, won't the property still be the daughter's?
Let's start with the first lawsuit in August 2015, this time it was Mrs. Li, and Mrs. Li's lawsuit to the court was: her daughter Zhou Xing did not fulfill her obligation to take care of the elderly after she became an adult, so Zhou Xing could not inherit her deceased husband's inheritance.
Now I know the reason, it turns out that the daughter did not fulfill her obligations as a child after she grew up, which is white-eyed and unfilial.
According to Mrs. Li's description, Zhou Xing's approach was really not fulfilling his obligations, and he was so angry that Mrs. Li wanted to jump down from the stairs.
It seems that this matter is not simple to make the 70-year-old person like this.
Mrs. Li said that Zhou Xing actually performed very well, but in the year when his wife and children were sick, Zhou Xing seemed to have changed into a person.
Mrs. Li said that her wife and child were very ill at that time and had reached the point of being bedridden. It is reasonable to say that Zhou Xing, as a daughter, should take care of it.
But Mrs. Li was the only one, busy before and after. It's feeding, eating, drinking, and carrying a urinal pot or something. And Zhou Xing didn't even enter the house.
At that time, the old two knew in their hearts that Zhou Xing's child was not filial piety. And this is only when the old partner is alive, and when the old partner dies, Zhou Xing's practice is even more chilling, and even a little afraid.
It turned out that after the death of their old partner, in order to alleviate the pain, the mother and daughter took a plane to Vietnam to travel.
According to Mrs. Li, at that time, Zhou Xing was like the one in the TV series "Mysterious Corner", just wanted to push himself off the cliff, if it were not for the reminder of the kind people, maybe she would have really succeeded.
Mrs. Li, who returned home, was sad and scared, and did not know why her daughter had become like this, and in private, she also began to be wary of Zhou Waking.
Moreover, Mrs. Li seems to have found that Zhou Xing has completely changed, and after returning to China, she has paid no attention to Mrs. Li's life, and this state of being alone has lasted for more than a year.
For more than a year, the old lady was alone in the empty room, and her physical condition was gradually deteriorating, and Zhou Woke was unable to count on it, and had to plan for her future.
In the end, Mrs. Li summed up that she might as well go to a nursing home to live.
However, the cost of the nursing home is not very low, so what will Mrs. Li do?
According to Mrs. Li, she has struggled with her husband for so long, and there are two houses here, so she took out one and sold it, which is enough to support herself in a nursing home for a hundred years.
However, new problems have emerged, it turns out that these two properties, in the holders, one property is in the name of the husband, the other property is in the name of Mrs. Li and Zhou Xing.
The problem now is that Mrs. Li's wife and children have died, which means that Zhou Xing has the right to inherit these two properties. Mrs. Li wants to sell the property, then it must be agreed to by Zhou Xing's nod.
However, with Zhou Xing's current situation, it is obvious that Zhou Xing will definitely not agree. When Mrs. Li told Zhou Xing about this matter, Zhou Xing on the other side of the phone directly hung up the phone.
It is also because of this incident that we have just mentioned the first lawsuit.
You said that Zhou Xing is almost 50 years old, and Mrs. Li is also more than 70 years old this year, and the 50-year-long family relationship has come to this step, which can't help but make many people feel pity.
Originally, I thought that this was all sued in court, and there would definitely be one party who softened down first and repaired the relationship between the two sides in time. However, Zhou Xing's attitude seemed to be very resolute, and he did not even go to the court, and all of them were handed over to his lawyer to deal with.
After the verdict came out, the result was the same as we thought, these properties had to be handled by Mrs. Li and Zhou Xing, that is, if they wanted to sell the house, they had to nod their heads in agreement at the same time.
In this first lawsuit, Mrs. Li's wish did not come true.
And this also shows that Mrs. Li is right, and her daughter Zhou Xing has no feelings for her mother.
You must know that Mrs. Li said before that Zhou Woke was very good before, why did she become like this now?
Is there any other reason for this?
It was really right, Mrs. Li said that Zhou Xing was not the biological daughter of the couple.
Mrs. Li said that the couple had been married for seven years, but they did not have children of their own, and when they just wanted to have children, they encountered Zhou Xing, who had just been born 3 days ago.
So the couple took Xiao Zhou awake and went home, you think about it, seven years. The family finally had a child, and the treatment of the little Zhou Wake could be imagined.
It is simply a pearl in the palm of your hand, and it is not too much to stretch out your hands and open your mouth to eat. And at that time, although the conditions were limited, zhou woke up to everything in the same age was the best.
Why did Zhou Wake up become like this?
Perhaps it is too much love for the child, which leads to zhou waking's heart does not have this grateful heart. But whether it is a biological child or not, this has been raised for so many years, and people's hearts are made of meat, so there should always be gratitude.
But Mrs. Li didn't want to think too much, or wanted to think about her future, or insisted on fighting a lawsuit.
And this second lawsuit is that Mrs. Li wants to terminate the adoption relationship with Zhou Xing. The reason is that everyone knows that the relationship between mother and daughter has deteriorated seriously, and Zhou Xing still does not assume the obligations of children.
This second time in court, Zhou Xing finally appeared. In court, Zhou Xing looked at Mrs. Li resolutely, and Zhou Xing was resolutely disagreeing with the adoption relationship between the two parties.
In fact, this can be more or less known what is going on. First, after all, Mrs. Li raised herself and did not want to break the relationship, and on the other hand, she would have a little relationship with real estate.
But Zhou Xing also expressed his views in court, as a child, he was somewhat deficient in the care of Mrs. Li, but a slap could not be made, and the way things have developed to the present, it is not only his own reason.
According to what Zhou Xing said, from childhood to adulthood, it was his father who cared for him, compared to his father, Mrs. Li may not be able to do anything.
And Zhou Xing also said that the main reason for his refusal to sell the property was that he was afraid that Mrs. Li would be deceived. Zhou Xing said that Mrs. Li likes to gamble, afraid that the money from the sale of the house will be taken by Mrs. Li to play cards, or deceived by villains.
Zhou Xing said this, then we may understand the first lawsuit, why Zhou Xing refused to sell the house.
However, under the persuasion of the judge, Zhou Xing said that in the future life, he was willing to ease the relationship between his mother. If you don't say that the family has a difficult scripture, since Zhou Xing is willing to bow his head and admit his mistake, but will Mrs. Li think so?
That must not agree, and Mrs. Li felt that Zhou Xing must have another purpose, maybe it was for these two properties.
On the one hand, bowing his head and admitting his mistakes, on the other hand, he thinks that the other party has selfish intentions. This also embarrassed the judge, but in order to maintain justice, the judge still privately questioned neighbors and friends.
Only then did I find that the easing relationship that Zhou Xing talked about in court had not been done at all, and the relationship had not been eased, and it had deteriorated even more.
Therefore, the court held that Zhou Xing's approach was not beneficial to Mrs. Li's pension, so the result of the second lawsuit came out, and the court ruled to terminate the adoption relationship between the two parties, which was 50 years of family affection, and it ended here.
However, Zhou Xing did not seem to be satisfied, and zhou Xing appealed and began the third lawsuit. The general content of this lawsuit is that Mrs. Li has some mental problems and has designated herself as Mrs. Li's caretaker.
As soon as this statement comes out, everyone will definitely think, isn't this still for the sake of property? But why do you say that Mrs. Li has a spiritual problem?
If it is true that as Zhou Xing said, Mrs. Li has mental illness, then are there problems in the previous two lawsuits?
At this time, some friends will ask, since they know that Mrs. Li has mental problems, then in the court two times before, why didn't Zhou Xing say it?
According to Zhou Xing, Mrs. Li said that she killed her in Vietnam, which is completely unnecessary, and it is completely blind to Mrs. Li herself.
Mrs. Li knew Zhou Xing's accusations against herself, and she was directly anxious. However, the court still took Mrs. Li to do an appraisal, and it turned out that Mrs. Li really had a paranoid mental disorder.
To put it bluntly, this paranoid mental disorder is characterized by paranoia, feeling extremely insecure and sensitive to distorting things.
But Mrs. Li still needed a caretaker, and with this mother-daughter relationship, Zhou Xing was obviously impossible to serve.
In the end, he found Mrs. Li's nephew, Mr. Zhao, and asked Mr. Zhao to serve as Mrs. Li's caretaker. This week, I woke up unhappy, and I felt that this person was also plotting against me.
You think, who would serve a 70-something man for no reason. But Mr. Zhao said that there was no such idea at all, and according to the law, Zhou woke up to inherit, which was her own reasons and pushed these out.
But in any case, the elderly Mrs. Li was finally taken care of. At this time, onlookers also expressed their own opinions.
They think that it is very likely that it is the reason for the personality, people are more or less a little sick, there are old people in the family should also know, the old man is difficult to serve, so this matter developed into this, both sides have problems.
In fact, in daily life, contradictions are inevitable. What we have to do is to make big things small, small things, and there are always more ways than difficulties. If you want to solve difficulties, the most important thing is the mentality, and you must think more about the benefits.