January 15, 2022, is Yu Feihong's 51st birthday.
Actors of this age, especially actresses in show business, don't want others to mention age.
Yu Feihong said generously in the interview program: I was born in 1971.
Age is no stress in her place.
"Frozen age goddess" and "immortal goddess" are the words used the most by netizens when evaluating Yu Feihong, but it is such a big beauty in everyone's eyes, who is still unmarried and childless at the age of more than 50.
Yu Feihong once said: Getting married or not getting married are just two different ways of life.
I don't reject marriage, but I haven't met the person who can walk into marriage hand in hand.
This shows that the older unmarried did not cause her any trouble, on the contrary, she was very aware of what she wanted.
In fact, Yu Feihong has always had boyfriends for so many years, but most of these boyfriends are outsiders.
Coupled with Yu Feihong's low profile, many people think that she is an unmarried person.
Yu Feihong's attitude toward marriage is very clear, in contrast, the traditional thinking parents have broken their hearts for Yu Feihong's personal problems.
But Yu Feihong used his own methods to reassure the second elder and no longer worry about her life's events.
On January 15, 1971, Yu Feihong was born in Hangzhou to a family of intellectuals, his father was the only six-year college student at Tsinghua University in the 1960s, and his mother graduated from Zhejiang Institute of Chemical Technology, with relatively favorable family conditions.
In the family, Yu Feihong is the second oldest, with an older sister above and a younger brother below.
In the 1970s, the conditions were relatively harsh, and everyone did not attach much importance to cultural knowledge, but in the Yu family, it was an exception.
Father hoped that they would be able to read poetry books and find another world in the books, so that their lives would be richer.
From childhood to adulthood, the three brothers and sisters received a strict education from their father.
From the time I remembered, I had to practice writing every day, read several books a month, and my father had requirements for all three of my siblings.
Every weekend, my father would bring back a large stack of books, which the three brothers and sisters would read for the next week.
To read books, to practice words, but also to meet the father's exams from time to time, although the three brothers and sisters are bitter, they will also find fun in pain.
It is the nature of children to love to play, and the Yu family is no exception, as long as the father works overtime or travels on business, it is Yu Feihong's happiest day.
After school, they don't have to rush home, but first play with their friends in the yard for a while.
At this time, my mother will also turn a blind eye and make no demands on them.
However, the strictness of the father had an effect after a few years.
When Yu Feihong was in the third and fourth grades of Primary School, his father's study became the place that the three brothers and sisters most yearned for, and the favorite place to go every day after school.
There are interesting stories and endless knowledge waiting for them to discover.
It may be that the relationship between childhood and children playing too little, and Yu Feihong, who is an adult, is particularly unaccustomed to crowded occasions.
She is afraid that other people's eyes are on her, and she is also worried that she will be "ugly" in public.
Worried about not being good enough to be embarrassed in public, Yu Feihong worked very hard at everything he did.
In the dance class, she was the youngest, but she was the hardest.
At the age of 8, Yu Feihong ushered in the first role of his life.
At that time, the movie "Bamboo" was picking small actors, and Yu Feihong, who looked outstanding, was favored by the director and played a small role in it.
Because of his young age, Yu Feihong did not have any special feelings about acting for the first time, but he had less homework and more time to play.
In the 10 years from the age of 8 to 18, Yu Feihong acted in a total of eight movies, although they were all small supporting roles, she fell in love with the profession of actor.
Acting in movies and dance performances is different, and once it is not good, it can be repeated, which is not too suitable for Yu Feihong, who pursues perfection.
Although there is no one in the family who is engaged in artistic performance, his parents are also strongly opposed to Yu Feihong's practice of art.
However, she had an opinion from a young age, and despite the opposition of her family, she resolutely dropped out of school and re-entered film school after being admitted to college.
In 1989, Yu Feihong was successfully admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy and became classmates with Wang Qian, Shao Bing, Liu Yunlong and so on.
The face is like a peach blossom, the pavilion is jade, the speech is not hurried, and it is the appearance of everyone's boudoir at a glance.
Soon after entering school, Yu Feihong became the most high-profile freshman in the film school.
Because he has been reading poetry since he was a child, Yu Feihong has a bookish atmosphere in his body.
This bookish atmosphere, coupled with her beautiful appearance, made her quickly become a goddess of film school, and many boys from other departments often ran to the classroom to see Yu Feihong.
It is said that the near water tower platform first gets the moon, and the boys in the performance class naturally will not miss such a good opportunity.
Yu Feihong liked kittens and puppies since he was a child, and the male classmates in the class raised a small dog in the dormitory.
As long as there are students who want to ask Yu Feihong, they will pull up the puppy, and they can make an appointment with Yu Feihong and walk around the campus.
As long as there are puppies, Yu Feihong usually does not refuse to come, and finally the boys who develop into other departments run to the dormitory to borrow puppies.
Borrowing puppies always has to show something, so the boys do not accept the "benefits" of others because of Yu Feihong, sometimes it is a box of popular song tapes, sometimes it is simply to take them out to rub it.
It's just that the boys' "tricks" did not succeed, because Yu Feihong was too well-behaved to think about that aspect at all.
Instead, Liu Yunlong took the lead and took the lead in hooking up with Yu Feihong.
But this relationship lasted only a few months before it ended in a hurry, and the two never mentioned it again.
While the classmates were busy falling in love, Yu Feihong was learning English and could later act in English.
When the students were still sleeping, Yu Feihong had already gone to the practice room early, even if the teacher did not ask for it, she did not fall behind for a day, and finally got the scholarship;
When the students complained that the 1500 meters were too difficult to run, Yu Feihong trained several times and won awards in the competition.
In the eyes of her classmates, Yu Feihong is a super self-disciplined person, she has goals every semester, just like her father set goals for her when she was a child.
In the summer vacation of his junior year, director Wang Ying called the Beijing Film Academy and asked Yu Feihong to star in the movie he was about to direct, "Xifuhui".
Wang Ying is a famous Chinese director, who has directed "Snowflake Secret Fan", "Chinese Box", "Millennium Prayer", "Manhattan Cinderella" and so on, and his wife is a famous actor Miao Qianren.
"Xifuhui" starred Wu Junmei, Lu Yan, Zhou Caiqin, Yu Feihong, etc.
It is about four women who have emigrated to the United States and their daughters who were born in the United States.
Yu Feihong played the rich female warbler in it.
Wang Ying only saw Yu Feihong's photo and sent her a script.
In Yu Feihong, Wang Xun saw the gentleness and classical beauty of Chinese women.
At that time, it was more troublesome to apply for a visa, and when Yu Feihong arrived in the United States, the film had already begun to be filmed.
The person who picked her up took her directly to the set, regardless of the fact that she had been on a plane for more than ten hours and did not let her fall into jet lag.
Extremely tired and uncomfortable, Yu Feihong performed a major play inside.
Watching this movie now, you can see that in addition to hatred, there is also fatigue and anxiety on Yu Feihong's face, which is exactly what the character needs.
After filming "Xifuhui", Wang Ying saw the potential in Yu Feihong, and he tried his best to persuade her to stay in the United States, promising that the protagonists of the next movies would be given to her, and he could also help her get a green card.
At that time, many people in China wanted to come out and take a look.
However, such favorable conditions were rejected by Yu Feihong, and she chose to return to China to continue her studies.
Shortly after returning to China, Yu Feihong participated in the film "Heaven and Earth" starring Andy Lau Investment, in which she played the female number two.
In 1993, Yu Feihong obtained the qualification to stay in the school to teach with the first good result in his major.
Became the class teacher of Xu Jinglei, Liu Lin, Liu Zi and other actresses.
At the same time, her graduation thesis "On the Highest Realm of Acting" was selected into the nortel acting tutorial "The Fourth Stage of Film and Television Performance".
After staying in school for half a year, Yu Feihong found that due to his lack of experience, he was only repeating the theories of his predecessors in teaching.
She is not much better at how to portray a character than a student.
She has always pursued independence and got rid of some kind of shackles, but from Hangzhou to Beijing, she has not really been independent.
Both spiritually and personally.
She did not want to "mess around" like this, so she resigned from public office and went to the United States for further study.
When she first arrived in the United States, she studied English while working part-time, and at the same time, she worked hard to learn various survival skills, take a driver's license, learn to cook, and move alone...
She actively integrated into American society, during which she shot TV commercials for telephone companies, and earned 2W dollars for one advertisement;
When making a movie, she also learned Cantonese by the way when shooting a movie called "Superfights", and she was able to talk to people fluently in Cantonese.
In half a year, her economy was independent.
She had never been so fulfilled, and she loved the days of being able to make her own decisions.
But when she had time to relax, an unprecedented loneliness began to envelop her.
She desperately wanted to go home, to return to China.
She called her parents, called her sister, called her friends, called her classmates, and tried to get rid of this loneliness, but to no avail.
One day, she called a friend again and told her about her loneliness.
The friend is a rectum, said a word: coming back is not simple, is not a ticket thing.
At that moment, Yu Feihong suddenly woke up.
Did you come to the United States and want the end of running away from the wilderness?
She began to re-examine her purpose in coming to the United States, listing it as a small plan and accepting the fact of loneliness.
Once shy, she began to deliberately learn to express herself in crowded occasions, and began to boldly say "no" to people and things she did not like.
At the same time, she also learned the American way of expressing emotions.
On the phone, she began to generously express her thoughts for her parents;
For unfair things, she also learns how to express her dissatisfaction and anger;
In the United States for more than two years, in addition to professional learning, character breakthroughs, affected the second half of her life.
At the end of 1996, director Yang Yang went to the film school to find actors, and she was looking for actors for the upcoming "Holding Hands".
Teacher Qian Xuege gave Yang Yang a photo of Yu Feihong.
At that time, Yu Feihong was still in the United States, and director Yang Yang sent her a script first.
At the beginning, Yang Yang liked Yu Feihong to play the role played by Jiang Wenli, an intellectual woman.
But after reading the script, Yu Feihong felt that the role of Wang Chun was more suitable for him, and he had just graduated for less than two years, and he did not understand it but was obsessed with feelings.
For the first time, she gave her opinion to the director about the role.
This had to be put before, she did not dare to think about it.
Because he had never met Yu Feihong, Yang Dao proposed to let her come back first and talk about it after meeting.
Yu Feihong gave up his studies and boarded the plane back to China for the first time, but also for an uncertain role.
Although on the phone, Yang Yang was not sure which role to let Yu Feihong play, she was already bound to win "Wang Chun".
The development of things, as Yu Feihong expected,
After meeting with the director, the director also felt that Yu Feihong was more suitable for the role of Wang Chun, because he was more youthful than in the photo.
"Wang Chun" is the first heavyweight role that Yu Feihong received after graduation.
Of course, the role of "Xia Xiaoxue" is heavier, if you want to be famous, it is estimated that many people will choose "Xia Xiaoxue".
But Yu Feihong did not think so much, she simply believed that the role that suited her was more important than the number of roles.
In the drama "Holding Hands", Yang Yang won the "Feitian Award" Best Director Award; Jiang Wenli won the "Golden Eagle Award" Best Actress Award, as the female second Yu Feihong, the material did not receive.
If Yu Feihong plays Xia Xiaoxue, will she also win the Best Actress Award?
However, the influence of this drama at that time also brought a lot of resources to Yu Feihong.
Film and television dramas such as "Little Li Flying Knife", "Tze Ma Xiao West Wind", "Big Mansion Gate 2", "Worry-free Princess" and so on, let Yu Feihong quickly have a certain popularity in the circle.
In "Holding Hands", Yu Feihong also met the producer Ma Ning, laying the groundwork for her future director "Love has an afterlife".
"Love has an afterlife" is adapted from the short story "Ginkgo Ginkgo Biloba" by Shanghai female writer Xu Lan, which Yu Feihong first read in the 90s.
When she came to prominence in entertainment, the idea of bringing this short story to the screen became more and more intense.
Since 2001, Yu Feihong has been preparing for this movie.
In those years, most of the film and television dramas that Yu Feihong took over were costume dramas.
And why take over costume dramas, an important reason is that the remuneration of costume dramas is higher than that of modern dramas.
Yu Feihong and gossip boyfriend
At that time, there were rumors that Yu Feihong had a boyfriend in the United States, and she wanted to make more films and make more money, and then go to the United States to settle down.
After that, Dou Wentao also became her gossip boyfriend, and the media said that their relationship was ambiguous.
It wasn't until after the release of "Love has an Afterlife" that everyone found out that all this was Yu Feihong preparing for her debut film.
"Love Has an Afterlife" invested forty million, and Manin was one of the producers, and the investment was also pulled by him.
Yu Feihong is both a director and a lead actor, as well as an investor.
This movie, which consumed Yu Feihong's 10 years of hard work, almost ruined her family, but fortunately, the reputation of the movie is not bad.
But the box office has not escaped the curse of literary and artistic films, only 2 million, which can be said to be nothing.
This movie fulfilled a director's dream for Yu Feihong.
The love of the two lives of "Love has an Afterlife" is both poignant and touching, which is the love she likes.
Not only that, "Love for a Living" also won the 17th College Film Best Debut Award for Yu Feihong.
At this time, Yu Feihong is nearly 40 years old, and although she has always had a boyfriend, she does not seem to have taken marriage to heart.
Both parents have retired, and they have focused on the marriage of their children.
Yu Feihong has three siblings, only the eldest sister grew up completely according to her parents' plan.
Yu Feihong's eldest sister graduated from the Department of Economics of Zhejiang University with a master's degree, and after graduation, she entered a well-known bank and has always been an executive position.
After that, he married step by step, had children, and was the most worry-free child in the family.
The younger brother is 4 years younger than Yu Feihong, and he is also over 30 years old, and after returning from studying in the UK, he works for a well-known real estate group and has never been married.
It is said that a woman's 40-year-old is a hurdle, and in the hearts of her parents, Yu Feihong, who is almost 40 years old, is not.
Get married as soon as possible, and still have a son and a half daughter, and in a few years, women will not have this opportunity.
During that time, Yu Feihong was recuperating and adjusting her mentality, and tourism became her first choice.
In the face of her parents' urging, she had to take her parents with her, while traveling, and let her parents know about herself.
The failure of "Love Has an Afterlife" caused her financial losses, and her parents thought that she would be depressed.
But during the trip, Yu Feihong did not seem to be affected by this.
She traveled quietly, talking to her parents about movies, about feelings, about her pure lifestyle, about things of interest.
She also has a clear understanding of her life, the current situation and the future development.
After this trip, the parents really knew this daughter.
She has an independent personality and thoughts, and her handling of feelings is also extremely rational and mature.
After returning from the trip, Yu Feihong took her boyfriend and went back to her parents' house for dinner.
The "hairy-footed son-in-law" is steady and very patient with the two old people, talking to them about his work and life with Yu Feihong.
Not only that, the "hairy-footed son-in-law" is also considerate of Yu Feihong,
When Yu Feihong was busy, she did not have to worry about the logistics at home, and someone did a particularly good job of logistical support.
When they are not busy, the two have endless topics.
Seeing the tacit understanding between the daughter and the boyfriend, in many ways, the three views are the same, what else can the parents say.
What the daughter lacks is not feelings, just a marriage certificate.
Marriage is unattainable for her. It's not that she doesn't want to get married, it's just that the time hasn't come yet.
The parents are not pedantic people, and seeing that the daughter's attitude is clear, they no longer urge, but instead aim at the younger brother.
After a few times, the younger brother was overwhelmed and often asked Yu Feihong, the sister, for help.
As long as he is in Hangzhou, Yu Feihong always tries to find time to accompany his parents.
She learned to bake, the elderly can not eat too much sweet, she will make a love brand sugar-free whole wheat bread, sent to her parents.
Relatives are her biggest support, as long as everyone has time, Yu Feihong likes to take the whole family to travel together.
She enjoyed even if it was just a few days in a resort area.
The days with her loved ones made her feel particularly at ease.
Fast forward to 2016, these years, Yu Feihong's career ushered in a small peak.
She played Song Meiling in "Oriental Battlefield", zheng yi, the cold and desperate villain zheng yi in "Father's Identity", and Gu Xiaoyan in "Big Husband" and so on.
Her acting skills, her beauty, make the audience remember. But she remains as low-key as ever.
This year, my brother also turned 40 years old and is still unmarried.
In order to appease his parents, Yu Feihong often joked with his parents:
Don't be too greedy, having a grandson is good enough.
At this time, the sister's children have graduated from college, and the family often gets together, and the infection of family affection makes this big son feel particularly happy.
On October 22, 2021, "The First Incense" directed by Xu Anhua was released, in which Yu Feihong played his aunt Mrs. Liang.
Some people say that Yu Feihong is not suitable for this role.
Mrs. Liang in the original work, with vulgar speech, calls herself an old woman at every turn, and before you get close to her, you can feel a kind of "twilight" emanating from her.
However, Mrs. Liang, played by Yu Feihong in the movie, is a temperament beauty with a slim body, bright eyes and bright teeth, and red lips.
There is neither the vulgarity of the novel, nor the fierceness of the aunt, a proper room.
Before taking on this role, perhaps Yu Feihong himself did not realize that no matter how he acted, he could not play a vulgar city woman.
In an interview with "Thirteen Invitations", Xu Zhiyuan once asked Yu Feihong:
Are men an important extension of your boundaries to yourself and they will help you?
By implication, did you grow up with men?
Yu Feihong sincerely replied: I really did not rely on men to let me grow.
Xu Zhiyuan continued to ask: What do you rely on, do you rely on women?
Yu Feihong said: No, rely on self-redemption, more rely on spiritual absorption, film, reading, thinking, experience, is to live.
Of course, there will inevitably be love in this. That's part of it, but it's not the whole thing that has given me to grow.
The tutors of her original family taught her to regulate herself first, and then to break and re-establish a new self.
In this process, she gave up the university she went to and then entered film school, she gave up her public office and went to the United States to pursue independence; even if she lost everything, she had to try her debut film.
These processes allow her to break herself again and again and establish a spiritual, completely independent personality.
On the Internet, many people like to compare Yu Feihong and Xu Qing together.
The two are about the same age, about the same family background, about the same educational background, are big beauties.
But these two people seem to be different.
Xu Qing's beauty always seems to be inseparable from the man's relationship, her charm, her talent, her meaning, want to say Hugh.
Yu Feihong's beauty is the beauty of independence.
She is not attached to anyone, she is Yu Feihong, Yu Feihong is her.