1. A spiritual monologue that reveals the truth
With the bright flickering of the magnesium lights, Yu Feihong sat upright at the recording site of the program, looking calm and calm, and his hands were staggered on his legs. As a special guest, she will face a sharp question from the host Dou Wentao today.
"Dear Ms. Yu, you have remained single for many years, which has aroused the curiosity of many people. ”
The audience instantly discussed, although the topic was quite bold, but it made people look forward to Yu Feihong's sincere response. Yu Feihong smiled indifferently, as if he didn't think it was an unspeakable topic.
In a calm and honest tone, she said: "I think this is just as natural as physiological needs such as diet and excretion, so there is no need to be overly surprised. Perhaps for men, the physical and emotional are separated, but for most women, the two are often closely linked.
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Dou Wentao's eyes narrowed slightly, and Yu Feihong's answer was just like his person, concise, bright and easy.
2. Reminiscing about the past
Fast forward to the 70s of the 20th century, and Yu Feihong was born in a family of intellectuals. Both of her parents are highly educated, and their daughter's education is strict and conservative.
From childhood to adulthood, whether it is life habits or academics, Yu Feihong is required to follow the rules and obey orders.
As a result, Yu Feihong gradually adapted to the role of a "good girl" and obeyed the arrangements of his parents. It wasn't until she was 8 years old that a chance chance completely changed the course of her life.
One day, Yu Feihong was walking on the street with his mother, and a talent scout suddenly came forward to talk to her, asking her if she was interested in participating in the movie. The cautious mother immediately guarded her daughter tightly, lest she be in danger of being trafficked and left in a hurry.
However, the determined scout eventually found Yu Feihong's door, explained his identity to her parents in detail, and showed a script to implore them to allow him to participate.
Under his persuasion, his parents reluctantly agreed.
In this regard, 8-year-old Yu Feihong participated in the filming of his first work "Bamboo", and showed extraordinary talent in his first appearance in front of the camera, attracting the attention of director Cui Xinqin in one fell swoop.
In high school, Cui Xinqin strongly recommended Yu Feihong to be the protagonist of the movie "The Murderer and the Coward", which he wrote and directed.
With her outstanding performance of this TV series, Yu Feihong developed a deep love for the performing arts, and she decided to apply for more in-depth study at Beijing Film Academy, one of China's top art schools.
However, when she expressed this wish to her parents with great anticipation, she received strong opposition from the whole family.
3. Heart-warming encounters
After participating in the TV series "Murderer and Coward", Yu Feihong finally got his wish and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy that he had longed for for a long time. With her unique beauty and extraordinary acting talent, she quickly became a leader in the school and can be called the "school flower" on campus.
In addition to her excellent grades at school, Yu Feihong also had a remarkable experience — she was one of the first students at the Beijing Film Academy to be sent overseas to shoot films.
When she was 19 years old, she traveled to the United States to work on the film "The Joy Luck Club", with which she became famous and immediately won the admiration of many local directors.
However, Yu Feihong, who has high aspirations, is not very interested in international development, because she knows that the Beijing Film Academy is a solid foundation for her to realize her dreams. So, she did not hesitate to return to her alma mater and continue to devote herself to her studies.
In his fourth year of college, Yu Feihong was fortunate to co-star in the movie "Heaven and Earth" with Andy Lau, a young actor who was at the peak of his career at the time. Although the response to this film has been relatively muted, Yu Feihong's popularity has begun to emerge in the film industry.
After graduating, she chose to stay at the Beijing Film Academy as a teacher, and it was here that she met the famous writer Wang Shuo.
When Wang Shuo first met Yu Feihong, he was deeply attracted by her temperament and talent, and he thought that Yu Feihong was the kind of woman who was "like a fairy, but not sought". The two soon developed a deep friendship and became each other's confidants.
Once, Yu Feihong recommended his favorite novel "Ginkgo, Ginkgo" to Wang Shuo. To everyone's surprise, Wang Shuo took the initiative to adapt this novel into a movie script and fully supported Yu Feihong to put it on the big screen.
In 2009, the movie "Love Has an Afterlife" directed and starred by Yu Feihong was finally successfully completed and released.
Fourth, twenty years of companionship
Just when Yu Feihong was in trouble due to negative comments on the Internet, a person who claimed to be her "die-hard fan" bravely stood up and firmly supported her creative ideas, and the person who later became a well-known host was Dou Wentao.
In fact, many years ago, Dou Wentao was deeply attracted by Yu Feihong's talent and beauty. He not only watched every film and television work starring Yu Feihong carefully, but even silently followed her every move.
Dou Wentao's special admiration and love for Yu Feihong is like hot magma, even if he can only become an unknown companion in her life, it can make him feel endless satisfaction and happiness.
This secret has been hidden in his heart for an unknown amount of time, just as secret and precious as Yu Feihong's identity as his partner.
However, fate took a wonderful turn in an inadvertent moment. Yu Feihong watched this show by chance, and his curiosity about that "mysterious fan" grew like weeds.
Under the clever arrangement of the program team, the two people who had never met before began their first face-to-face conversation.
When Dou Wentao met Yu Feihong for the first time, the deep admiration in his heart became more firm. He secretly vowed to silently protect this woman in his own way, even if he could only be her friend and supporter, he was willing to give everything.
Time flies, time flies. A few years later, Dou Wentao was fortunate to become a high-profile host. When Yu Feihong was invited to participate in the talk show "Qiang Qiang Threesome" hosted by him, the "official relationship" between them was officially made public.
At the end of the show, Yu Feihong suddenly said a sentence that shocked everyone present: "Actually, I have a stable partner who has been with me for twenty years.
Looking at Dou Wentao's appearance of wanting to speak and stopping, Yu Feihong smiled slightly: "Yes, you have always been silently supporting me and accompanying me, we can be said to be 'soul mates'."
It turned out that this "mysterious fan" who could only be silently admired in her heart turned out to be the "fixed partner" in her mouth. Dou Wentao had mixed feelings in his heart, both joy and emotion.
He finally mustered up the courage to ask Yu Feihong why she had remained single for many years. "Then, why haven't you entered the palace of marriage?" Dou Wentao's tone was extremely cautious.
Yu Feihong was silent for a moment and said in a low voice: "I'm not an unmarried, it's just that I'm not in a hurry to get married." Whether I am single or married, I will choose the way that suits me best, and I don't need to pursue anything.
Dou Wentao nodded suddenly in understanding, he had already gained insight into Yu Feihong's persistent pursuit of marital freedom. However, there are still many people in this society who regard marriage and having children as the ultimate goal of life, and regard marriage as the way to go.
However, in this complex entertainment industry, not everyone holds such a concept. Women such as Xu Jinglei, Chen Jin, and Wang Zuxian are staunch non-marriageists and live full and meaningful lives.
Xu Jinglei once expressed her opinion frankly: "The key to whether the two can be together for a long time lies in the deep emotional bond between each other, not through marriage.
And Ms. Chen Jin also firmly said: "Each of us is a unique individual, and in the end, we still need to spend the rest of our lives with ourselves, so I prefer to choose to remain single."