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Preamble:
Dou Wentao, this familiar name, have you ever been curious about his little-known past?
In the course of 56 years of life, what kind of love and hatred has he experienced?
The sweetness and bitterness of first love, the ups and downs of his career, and the unknown ten-year underground relationship with Yu Feihong...... How did all this shape today's legendary man who has never married for life?
Let's walk into Dou Wentao's inner world, uncover the mystery of his life, and listen to the stories buried in the depths of the years.
College years: first love intertwined with sweetness and bitterness
Time goes back to Dou Wentao's college days in his green years.
At that time, he was full of energy and longing for the future.
The beauty of life, like the bright sunshine outside the window, shone into his heart.
By chance, he falls in love with a girl named Xiao Shi.
Dou Wentao touched Xiao Shi's heart with his unique thoughtfulness and care.
They embark on a sweet love journey hand in hand.
However, Dou Wentao's fiery love has instead become a shackle to this relationship.
His meticulous care and care made Xiao Shi feel pressured.
Gradually, the girl began to feel suffocated, and the distance between the two seemed to be getting farther and farther away.
In the end, Xiao Shi made a painful decision - to end the relationship.
Love was supposed to be the fusion of two souls, but because of too hot giving, it led to a falling apart ending.
At the moment of the breakup, Xiao Shi left a meaningful sentence: "From now on, I have decided to stop pinning my joys, sorrows and sorrows on cooperation with others, and no longer pour everything into it." "
This sentence became an unforgettable lesson for Dou Wentao, and it also foreshadowed the tone of his future emotional path.
Once the balance of love is out of balance, it will be difficult to return to the past.
Heartbreak Journey: A long journey to healing
Dou Wentao, who lost his beloved, fell into deep pain.
He chose to leave the place of sadness, packed his simple bag, and embarked on a journey to find spiritual comfort.
He hopes that through this trip, he can forget the past and find himself again.
His footsteps have traveled all over the great rivers and mountains of the motherland.
In Zhangjiajie, he let his mind fly on the top of the towering peaks; In the ancient city of Phoenix, he looked for tranquility in the quaint and quiet streets; In Enshi, he even spent an unforgettable Chinese New Year's Eve in a Tujia village.
The magnificent scenery of nature seemed to soothe the pain in his heart and bring him a moment of peace.
However, the beauty of the journey did not completely heal the pain in his heart.
On that tearful Chinese New Year's Eve, Dou Wentao walked alone on the country road, and Fei Xiang's "Hometown Clouds" sounded, arousing the sadness in his heart.
The shadow of the breakup always lingered in his heart.
The wound of love is not something that can be completely healed by a trip.
Those sweet memories have become an eternal pain in his heart.
The ups and downs of the sea of love: the romantic years of constant scandals
In 1997, by chance, Dou Wentao joined Phoenix Satellite TV.
In Hong Kong, he lived under the same roof with Xu Gehui and Chen Luyu, two female anchors, due to work needs.
The three young people support each other in a foreign land and establish a deep friendship.
Despite much speculation about their relationship, this innocent friendship eventually dissolves misunderstandings.
Those days of sharing joys and sorrows have become the most precious memories of their youth.
After leaving Hong Kong, Dou Wentao's love life became ups and downs.
He first had an affair with Faye Wong, the queen of heaven, and the intimate behavior of the two at the airport caused infinite reverie in the outside world; Immediately afterwards, he kissed with the school flower Zuo Jia on the street, and once again became the focus of public opinion.
However, what really makes people talk about is his ten-year underground relationship with actress Yu Feihong.
This relationship, like a secret mystery, has aroused the curiosity and speculation of countless people.
In the face of all kinds of speculation about his love life from the outside world, Dou Wentao is always vague and unwilling to talk about it.
But these scandals all show his once suave and charming side.
In that high-spirited era, what he longed for was the freedom to soar into the sky, and he did not want to be bound by the shackles of the world.
However, this freedom may be the reason why it is difficult for him to get true love.
When a person is accustomed to the game of feelings, how can he easily deliver his sincerity?
Money Lessons: A wake-up call from a mother's illness
The prosperity of his career has continuously improved Dou Wentao's quality of life.
However, his attitude towards money has become more and more casual, even to the point of profligacy.
Until one day, a bolt from the blue broke his false perception of money.
Fate often inadvertently gives people the heaviest blow.
His mother had a cerebral infarction and was admitted to the hospital.
The high medical costs were like a flood of beasts, which instantly swallowed up Dou Wentao's savings.
Faced with his mother's illness and hospital astronomy bills, he finally realized the importance of money.
At that moment, he realized that no amount of fame and fortune could bring back his mother's health.
Money is not just a tool to squander, but also a necessity to protect your loved ones.
At this difficult moment, Liu Changle once stepped forward and reached out to help.
The benefactor who founded Phoenix Satellite TV helped Dou Wentao tide over the difficulties of his life.
He remembered this kindness in his heart, and then decided to devote himself to his career in order to repay his benefactor for his reconstruction.
A mother's illness made him re-examine the meaning of life, and also made him understand that the true value of money lies in giving protection and peace to loved ones.
The reason why I never married: The far-reaching influence of the teachings of my first girlfriend
Dou Wentao never married, what is the reason behind this? The answer can be traced back to his first girlfriend Xiao Shi.
That unforgettable love affair left an indelible mark on his life.
"Don't pin your happiness on others", this sentence has become the motto of Dou Wentao's life.
In Xiao Shi's eyes, marriage is a kind of cooperative relationship that requires complete self-determination and fulfillment of the other party.
However, Dou Wentao, who has experienced emotional trauma, can no longer fully devote himself to such a relationship.
He was afraid, and poured everything into it again, only to receive another heart-rending pain.
Xiao Shi's departure left a scar in his heart that is difficult to heal.
That unforgettable first love made him have deep doubts and fears about love.
He was afraid of giving up all his body and mind again, only to end up being injured again.
Therefore, despite the scandals after that, he never entered the palace of marriage.
Perhaps, for Dou Wentao, maintaining celibacy is a way of self-protection and an insistence on freedom and independence.
Epilogue:
Today, the 56-year-old Dou Wentao is still single, but he seems to have gotten used to it.
Looking back, he may be filled with emotion.
That high-spirited teenager once had a fiery love, and he also had ups and downs in the love scene.
However, the relentless carving of the years has made him realize more and more clearly that happiness should not be pinned on others, but must learn to master it himself.
Dou Wentao's life story is a legend about love, friendship, family and career.
His experience tells us that the road of life is not always smooth, but as long as you stick to your inner beliefs, you will eventually find your own piece of sky.
Perhaps, Dou Wentao's decision not to marry for the rest of his life stems from his yearning for freedom and obsession with love.
He would rather die alone than entrust his happiness to others again.
This is a kind of tragedy, but also a kind of open-mindedness.
Dou Wentao, a man who was once in his prime, is interpreting the meaning of life in his own way.
His story is worth savoring and thinking about by each of us.