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In that youthful college years, Yu Feihong, who was in his prime, was like a blooming jasmine, exuding a charming fragrance. Those big deep and indifferent eyes seem to contain countless stories; The unique pair of Danfeng eyes added a little touching style.
Yu Feihong's beauty stands out, not only has a deep old Jiangnan charm, but also integrates the fashion characteristics of the modern city, isn't it an incomparably wonderful work of art?
Such a beautiful woman who captivates the country and the city has naturally attracted the attention of countless suitors. However, Yu Feihong has always remained calm and rational, devoted himself to his studies and acting career, and turned a blind eye to these suitors.
In this tense and busy rhythm of life, Yu Feihong and Liu Yunlong met. Liu Yunlong, who fell in love at first sight, began a passionate and crazy pursuit, going all out to show his charm.
At first, Yu Feihong was a little confused and uneasy about this passionate pursuit. However, Liu Yunlong gradually won Yu Feihong's trust with his mature and steady behavior, and invited her to enjoy the drama and have dinner together.
As time passed, the relationship between the two grew deeper. Liu Yunlong was deeply attracted by Yu Feihong's unique temperament, and Yu Feihong was also moved by his careful care.
Their love affair is not full of passion, but like the spring rain moisturizing things silently, quietly growing, plain and long-lasting.
There are no earth-shattering confessions, only mutual support over the long years.
In youth, love is always so innocent and fiery. At that time, we could open our hearts to each other without reservation and talk about everything. However, with the change of career focus, Liu Yunlong and Yu Feihong had to be separated for a long time in a different place, and there was a rift in their relationship.
The quarrel escalated, and the distance between the two grew farther and farther apart.
However, the fond memories of the past have not gone away. In order to shoot the TV series "Life and Death", Yu Feihong and Liu Yunlong worked together again. The emotions of the past are rejuvenated, and they turn into warm currents that come to my heart.
However, this may already be the limit of their relationship and cannot move forward any further.
In this way, an affectionate but unsuccessful relationship has become an eternal memory in Yu Feihong's life. Although they failed to get to the point of growing old together, their innermost persistence has become an endless motivation to chase their dreams.
This innocent love is transformed into nutrients that promote each other's growth.
Since breaking up with her ex-boyfriend, Yu Feihong resolutely quit his teaching position and crossed the ocean to the United States, devoting himself to pursuing his ideal career.
After three years of study and hard work, she finally learned something, and when she returned, Yu Feihong's acting career broke out in full swing, and she has participated in many popular classic works, such as "Holding Hands", "Xiao Li Flying Knife" and so on, and became famous in the film industry, known as "a strange woman like a fairy".
However, while Yu Feihong's career is thriving, her love life has also aroused widespread attention and heated discussions from all walks of life. It all started with a novel called Ginkgo Ginkgo.
By chance, Yu Feihong read this novel and was deeply moved by it, and even came up with the idea of adapting it into a movie. However, the cost of buying the rights to a novel is too high for her as an actress to afford.
At this time, the famous writer Wang Shuo learned of her wish and did not hesitate to pay out of his own pocket to buy the copyright for Yu Feihong.
"Since you have a soft spot for this, let me help you make it happen!" Wang Shuo said firmly.
Yu Feihong's heart is full of gratitude, but she also understands that filming a movie is very different from the actor's performance, and it takes a lot of effort. For her, who has no directing experience, this is undoubtedly a difficult challenge.
Wang Shuo stepped forward again and took full responsibility for the filming of the entire film.
As a result, the outside world began to speculate about the relationship between the two of them. Some people believe that Wang Shuo's generosity must have ulterior motives for Yu Feihong. After all, he had never been so obsessed with any woman.
When "Ginkgo Ginkgo" was released, due to the sensitive subject matter, it received a lot of criticism during the publicity period. At this critical moment, Dou Wentao bravely stood up to support Yu Feihong to relieve the siege.
It turned out that he had been silently in love with Yu Feihong for six years and had endless admiration for her.
"I have been deeply intoxicated by your charm and cannot bear to be hurt in the slightest!" Dou Wentao's affectionate confession moved Yu Feihong.
However, Yu Feihong did not accept Dou Wentao's love, but made an incredible decision - to "cohabit" with Dou Wentao. That's right, a woman and a man who loves her dearly, live under the same roof, but promise each other to remain "innocent".
In that former talk show, Yu Feihong unabashedly revealed that unusual "special relationship", and Dou Wentao did not see her as a woman. However, in an early interview, she openly stated that Dou Wentao was her "stable partner".
This intricate "cohabitation" relationship has attracted many doubts, but reflecting on the reasons for this, we may be able to get a glimpse of the tip of the iceberg of Yu Feihong's persistent pursuit of "freedom".
In Yu Feihong's eyes, marriage is just a formality, a way of life. She would rather choose to pursue herself than be bound by this form. She firmly believes that only by accompanying and supporting each other can the most sincere love be achieved.
Looking back at Yu Feihong's enthusiasm for acting, it can actually be traced back to when she was 6 years old. That year, the production team of the movie "Bamboo" visited her elementary school for casting.
Yu Feihong, who was only six years old at the time, won the first place in one fell swoop with her excellent appearance and unique temperament, and won the opportunity to play, although it was only an insignificant small role, but this undoubtedly became the starting point of her acting career.
Since then, whether it is in school activities or theatrical evenings, Yu Feihong has always actively grasped every opportunity to exercise himself. Her love for acting burned like a flame and gradually turned into a force to move forward.
In high school, Yu Feihong ushered in the first important role in his life. Shanghai Film Studio planned to shoot the film "The Murderer and the Coward", and the director in charge of casting accidentally discovered Yu Feihong, and was instantly impressed by her unique temperament, and secretly thought: "It's her!" So he did not hesitate to award the title of protagonist to Yu Feihong.
Facing the important stage in his life, Yu Feihong naturally did not flinch at all. She devoted herself to the shaping of the role, and vividly interpreted the complex and changeable inner world of the heroine with her unique perspective and superb acting skills.
This work can be called the brainchild of the director and actors, and it was warmly sought after and highly praised by the audience as soon as it was released.
The shocking facts are just around the corner! The young and promising Yu Feihong has already shown outstanding talent in high school, and it is amazing to be ahead of his peers.
And when the first battle of her career was successful, her eyes became more lofty, and after the successful completion of her studies, Yu Feihong's heart was surging with a surging blood, vowing to bravely embark on the journey and hit the Beijing Film Academy, which is located in the capital Beijing and is enough to represent one of the highest universities for China's national master arts.
However, as the saying goes, "the sky is unpredictable", Yu Feihong, who was born in a family of high-level intellectuals, was firmly opposed by his parents, who regarded acting as a "dirty profession" and refused to recognize that the industry could be regarded as a formal job.
For parents who expect their children to become the backbone of society, Yu Feihong's enthusiasm for acting is undoubtedly unacceptable.
However, in the face of the severe criticism of his family, Yu Feihong was not afraid, but was high-spirited and firmly followed his own path. In the end, her parents couldn't resist Yu Feihong's firm will after all, and could only reluctantly agree to her chasing her dream school.
"Excuse me, how does Ms. Yu Feihong deal with her personal physiological needs?"
Faced with such a direct and sensitive issue, Yu Feihong may have felt shy and embarrassed in the past. However, now that she has matured and steady, she did not hesitate to give an answer: "I have a stable partnership."
This sentence seems prosaic, but it has caused an uproar in the outside world and triggered endless speculation. Although Yu Feihong did not reveal the true identity of this "stable partner", from her words, we seem to be able to catch a mysterious clue - the "partner" in her mouth may be Dou Wentao.
That's right, it was Dou Wentao who once stood up when she was in trouble and publicly expressed his deep affection for her. Yu Feihong not only candidly admitted that he had a "special relationship" with him, but even made it clear in early interviews that he was his "stable partner".
It is incomprehensible to the onlooker that a woman and a man who love her dearly live together under the same roof and yet promise each other an "innocent relationship". However, Yu Feihong doesn't care about this, she has her own unique life philosophy and persistent pursuit of "freedom".
For Yu Feihong, marriage is just a formality, a way of life, and she has never been bound by this shackle. Her desire for "freedom" has long been deeply integrated into her life and has become an indispensable part.
Spending time with your loved ones and walking hand in hand is the most precious love in the world. It is in this way that Yu Feihong has chosen a unique "companion" lifestyle. She is not bound by the world, but only moves in the direction of her heart.
Although her lifestyle may seem deviant, there is no doubt that Yu Feihong interprets the original meaning of "freedom" with practical actions.
However, there are different opinions on Yu Feihong's maverick concept of life. Some speculate that he may be "frigid"; Others suspect that it "prefers the same sex"; Some even candidly questioned whether Yu Feihong had "basic physiological needs".
However, these gossips did not cause the slightest trouble, and Yu Feihong did not care about them, she just wanted to be able to spend every part of her life with her lover.
Yu Feihong is not pursuing the goal of life without marriage or childbearing, but the inevitable result of exploring the road of "freedom". She knows that only by breaking free from the traditional framework of life can she achieve her maximum personal value.
In her heart, perhaps the word "freedom" is the highest ideal to pursue all her life.
Exploring Yu Feihong's ardent pursuit of "freedom" is rooted in his family environment and upbringing. Born into a family of intellectuals, Yu Feihong grew up under the strict control of his parents since he was a child.
The pressure on parents to shape this gifted daughter into a pillar of society can be imagined.
Yu Feihong, who grew up in such an environment, developed an almost obsessive desire for the word "freedom". She doesn't want to be bound by anything, she just wants to follow the guidance of her heart. When Yu Feihong expressed her determination to apply for the Beijing Film Academy, her family's strong opposition was like a thunderbolt from the blue, which shocked her.
In the eyes of his parents, being an actor has always been regarded as a lowly profession and cannot become an orthodox career.
However, Yu Feihong resolutely resisted this view and resolutely moved forward. This persistent belief in "freedom" eventually helped her overcome her family's opposition and successfully enter her dream school.
However, fate played a joke on her at this moment, and Yu Feihong was unfortunately infected with the hepatitis A virus, which once put her future in jeopardy.
However, in the face of strong difficulties and challenges, Yu Feihong never gave up, but was highly motivated, devoted himself to the treatment process, and finally successfully overcame many obstacles and realized his dream of entering the ideal school.
After his brilliant career achievements, Yu Feihong did not stop because of this. She resolutely resigned from her teaching position and went to the United States, which was undoubtedly a unique and courageous way to "escape", which was exactly in line with her endless yearning for "freedom".
After three years of hard study, Yu Feihong has accumulated profound theoretical knowledge, and after returning to China, her career is booming day by day.
In the emotional world, Yu Feihong has always adhered to the pursuit of "freedom". She is not bound by the form of marriage, she just hopes to be able to work hand in hand with the person she loves.
This may be the reason why she chose to "live together".
Marriage? Procreate? In Yu Feihong's eyes, these are just a kind of constraints imposed by society. Only by breaking free from these shackles can we truly realize our self-worth.
Not only is she resolutely not married, but she is even tight-lipped about the so-called "stable partner" identity, and has never revealed the slightest rumor to the outside world.
"Freedom" is undoubtedly Yu Feihong's lifelong goal, and no restraint can stop her from releasing her personality. She's just too attached to her inner voice, and she's not afraid to even if it might lead to unwarranted accusations.
Yu Feihong's attitude towards life and personal choices are undoubtedly controversial and questioned in today's society.
The relationship between her and Wang Shuo and Dou Wentao is confusing, causing the outside world to speculate whether they have an "impure" relationship between men and women; She insisted on a lifestyle of not marrying and having children, and was labeled as "frigid" and "homosexual".
However, if we abandon prejudice and put ourselves in their shoes, we may be able to gain insight into Yu Feihong's unwavering pursuit of "freedom". Because each person's understanding of "freedom" and the way of pursuing it are unique.
In Yu Feihong's view, marriage is just a form, a way of life, and instead of being bound by this form, it is better to pursue the true self. Only by supporting and accompanying each other with your loved ones is the most sincere love.
The reason why she chose not to get married, not to have children, and to "cohabit" with Dou Wentao contains profound spiritual sustenance. This is not a deliberate departure from social order and good customs, but stems from the ardent yearning for and unremitting pursuit of "freedom".
Only by breaking free from the shackles of the world can we truly realize our self-worth, which may be the belief that Yu Feihong has upheld all his life.
As an individual human being, everyone should have the right to choose their own path of life, provided that the red line of social stability and order is not touched. We should abandon harsh reproaches and instead approach them with a more inclusive and in-depth mindset.
It is precisely because of the interweaving of various voices that the world can reveal its rich and diverse faces, and if we are conservative and stubborn, we will undoubtedly tear our vision of a better life to pieces.
As the famous actor Yu Feihong said, when we choose to succumb to the pressure of public opinion, that is the real tragedy! We should embrace the so-called "otherness" with a more open and broad mind.
Diversity of lifestyles is not a cause to blame, because everyone has their own unique perspective on the definition of happiness, and only by respecting differences and embracing diversity can our world be endlessly vibrant.
Although Yu Feihong's attitude towards life may seem a bit "maverick", she interprets her ardent yearning and unremitting pursuit of "freedom" in her own way.