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Yu Feihong, who is more than half a hundred years old, still maintains her beauty and vitality, and is respected as the "goddess of immortality". Her lifestyle seems to have upended our expectations of traditional female roles.
However, Yu Feihong is not alone, she has a confidant partner who has known each other for a long time and has been with her for more than 20 years - Dou Wentao.
When asked why she is still unmarried, Yu Feihong always replied without hesitation: "I have had a stable relationship for 20 years, why rush into marriage?"
And Dou Wentao is undoubtedly her most reliable support for the deep affection between them for 20 years, which has surpassed the ordinary realm of love, the two support each other, just like the good couple in the poem Dou Wentao always takes care of Yu Feihong meticulously, like a strong umbrella, sheltering her from the wind and rain Yu Feihong is full of gratitude for this, but she has never lost herself because of this affectionate kindness, and always adheres to an independent attitude towards life.
As Yu Feihong said in an interview: "Feeling good about myself is the most important thing for me. Looking back on Yu Feihong's growth process, it was those tortuous and difficult years that shaped her independent personality today.
Yu Feihong was born into a traditional family of scholars and received strict family education from an early age. She is introverted, obedient to her parents, and rarely expresses personal opinions. However, a fortuitous arrangement of fate completely changed the trajectory of her life.
When he was eight years old, Yu Feihong was unexpectedly discovered by a discerning talent scout when he was out shopping. The scout was attracted by Yu Feihong's unique artistic temperament, so he tried his best to persuade her parents to let Yu Feihong participate in the filming of the first film "Bamboo".
Since then, Yu Feihong has stood in front of the camera for the first time and experienced the endless fun brought by performing arts. Since then, a seed has been planted in her heart - to become an outstanding actress, using her acting skills to interpret wonderful stories on the screen.
After entering a new stage of high school, Yu Feihong once again participated in a short play called "The Murderer and the Coward". This short but fulfilling shooting process has deepened her love for performing arts, and she has become more persistent in her dreams!
When the college entrance examination scores were announced, Yu Feihong plucked up the courage to reveal his innermost desire to his parents. Sadly, however, her wishes were not supported by her parents, but were met with strong opposition.
What's even more distressing is that her parents secretly adjusted her college entrance examination intention and pushed her to the door of a foreign language university.
Yu Feihong seemed to have been ruthlessly stifled by fate, and his heart was filled with endless anger. She is deeply aware that if she cannot live for herself, then she will always be at the mercy of her parents' wishes and live within the framework set by others.
After in-depth thinking and weighing, Yu Feihong decided to make a brave choice - to drop out of school and embark on a long road to pursue his ideals.
In the end, with perseverance and otherworldly efforts, Yu Feihong successfully stepped into the door of Beijing Film Academy and devoted himself to further studies in acting. For the next four years, she devoted herself to her studies and never missed a single professional course.
Yu Feihong successfully graduated with excellent grades and officially embarked on the road of an actor.
During his studies at Beiying, Yu Feihong won the love and appreciation of many classmates with his outstanding beauty and talent. There was a steady stream of suitors, but none of them could really touch her fiery heart.
Until one day, she met Liu Yunlong, a senior in the same school.
Compared with young people of the same age, Liu Yunlong shows a mature charm that transcends age boundaries. At first, he was very caring and considerate of Yu Feihong. In the hot summer, he will always hold a small fan to cool down Yu Feihong, and in the cold winter, he will intimately prepare a warm baby for her.
Liu Yunlong's consistent gentleness and patience finally knocked on Yu Feihong's heart, and the two began a sweet and warm campus romance.
However, behind the beauty of love often hides cognitive conflicts. As we spend more time together, the differences in personality between each other become more and more prominent. Liu Yunlong persistently hopes that Yu Feihong will devote himself to family life and shoulder the heavy responsibility of childcare and housework.
However, for Yu Feihong, her career dream is her life's pursuit, and she is eager to make achievements in her career rather than being tied up by family trivialities.
As we all know, Liu Yunlong and Yu Feihong have huge differences in their life concepts and values, and this difference is like an avalanche that makes their emotions gradually cool down.
Eventually, after a heated argument, they painfully made the decision to break up.
Undoubtedly, Yu Feihong's heart is full of great regret, but more is the endless longing and expectation for the future. She is acutely aware that if she does not devote herself wholeheartedly to self-actualization, she will achieve nothing and will fall into endless emptiness for the rest of her life.
After the breakup, Yu Feihong did not hesitate to devote herself to the struggle of her career, and she was determined to use her unremitting efforts to prove the correctness of her independent choice.
After the breakup, Yu Feihong did not fall into long-term grief and confusion, on the contrary, she invested all her energy in the development of her career. is in the golden age of her career, and she has participated in many popular classics in a row, and her popularity has soared.
At this time, the famous writer Wang Shuo was also deeply attracted by Yu Feihong's unique artistic charm.
Once, Yu Feihong met Wang Shuo at a friend's banquet. In a casual conversation, Yu Feihong revealed that he loves Wang Shuo's novel "Ginkgo, Ginkgo" very much, and expressed his hope that he can have the opportunity to adapt it into a movie.
Since then, Wang Shuo's appreciation of Yu Feihong has reached an unprecedented peak.
Wang Shuo even made an impassioned promise to her: "No matter how you conceive the shooting plan, I will do my best to support you." "
So, with the full support of Wang Shuo, the movie "Love Has an Afterlife" started filming smoothly. However, in the early days of filming, the project faced a shortage of funds, and the progress was relatively slow.
At the critical moment, Wang Shuo ran around and finally succeeded in winning sponsorship for Yu Feihong. In this way, "Love Has an Afterlife" was released as scheduled in 2009 and achieved considerable box office results.
Originally, people thought that after this cooperation, the relationship between Wang Shuo and Yu Feihong would naturally develop. However, Yu Feihong once again politely rejected Wang Shuo's pursuit. She even openly talked about her special experience with Wang Shuo in a talk show, and said with heartfelt emotion: Mr. Wang Shuo is a kind and excellent person, and he is also her closest friend.
However, between the lines, it shows her deep dedication to firmly pursuing and maintaining the concept of a free and easy life.
Perhaps it was precisely because of these thoughtful words that the talented Wang Shuo profoundly experienced that no matter how hard he tried, the final result was still the endless regret of not being able to spend the rest of his life with the goddess he deeply admired in his heart.
Therefore, Wang Shuo began to slowly withdraw from Yu Feihong's life stage.