Home is always the harbor of a child's soul. Children are tired of learning, parents can give comfort and encouragement, children are tired of playing, they can lie in bed and rest well, grow up, work is not smooth, parents support themselves in the heart.
Home can give children a steady stream of energy in their growth, and with a home, the child's life is complete.
Some children have no home, or their home is mutilated.
Liu Xuezhou has no biological parents since he was a child, and he was brought up by his elderly grandmother. In order to have a complete home, he embarked on the road to find his biological parents.
1. Liu Xuezhou fell out with his parents
Liu Xuezhou has fallen out with his biological parents. His biological mother blacked him out and stopped contacting him, and his biological father blamed him for destroying his family.
After Liu Xuezhou found his parents, he was very happy, and there was new sunshine and happiness in his life. He tried to get along with his parents and enjoyed the comfort of having his biological parents. Just as he was about to step into the normal track of life, he discovered a painful fact.
At that time, Liu Xuezhou was not abducted and sold, but was voluntarily abandoned by his biological parents. After Liu Xuezhou's mother and father were together, they became pregnant before marriage. Liu Xuezhou's biological mother's mother's mother's family wants a dowry of 40,000 yuan, otherwise they cannot get married.
After Liu Xuezhou was born, his parents sold Liu Xuezhou together, and the tens of thousands of yuan they got were given to Liu Xuezhou's grandmother as a dowry money for Liu Xuezhou's father to marry his wife.
After marriage, the two had another child. At present, the two have long been divorced and have new families.
After Liu Xuezhou found his parents, as he learned more, he found that he was abandoned rather than for other reasons. The already scarred heart adds endless pain.
The incomprehension and selfishness of his biological parents—even saying that he was the one who destroyed their existing family—Liu Xuezhou's heart was as painful as a thousand arrows piercing his heart. I never imagined that the outcome of the search for relatives would be so melancholy and so painful.
Knowing that this is the case, why not live your original life?
2. Why liu Xuezhou is looking for his biological parents
Liu Xuezhou has been treated as a wild child since he was a child, enduring the blank eyes of others. He knew from an early age that he was not biological, and he especially wanted to know where his biological parents were and why he didn't want to be himself.
I think that not only Liu Xuezhou has this idea, but any child who grew up in someone else's parents when he was a child has the desire to find his own biological parents.
Her adoptive parents have died, and her elderly grandmother has brought Liu Xuezhou to grow up. He had sunned out his and his grandmother's house, dilapidated and overgrown with weeds around it. What's wrong with him looking for his birth parents and having a complete and secure home?
3, Liu Xuezhou helpless pain
After the relationship with his biological parents broke down, he was called a "white-eyed wolf", and some people sneered and said, "Why should I find my biological parents, am I not doing well?" Hearing these unreasonable accusations and insults, Liu Xuezhou cried helplessly.
He was still a child, and while other children were still trying to study and accumulate strength for their future, he could only embark on the road to independence early, earning money to support himself while enduring the pain of not having parents and no family.
Liu Xuezhou is looking for his own biological parents, which is a common human feeling. After the interests of his biological parents were damaged, he disliked Liu Xuezhou and affected their existing family life, turned his face and did not recognize anyone, his mother blocked his communication method, and his father regarded him as a "plague", in this world, what is more painful than learning that his biological parents took the initiative to abandon themselves to exchange money?
If there is, it must have found their biological parents but they rejected and attacked them.
4) Biological parents are original sin
The people who attacked Liu Xuezhou were really new and unique in their thinking. He came into this world not out of thin air, but by his own parents.
Parents are born without raising, selfish, abandoning sons, this is the original sin of the whole thing, the behavior of the biological parents is the original sin, it is no exaggeration to say that Liu Xuezhou's biological parents are the culprits.
If they had not abandoned Liu Xuezhou, Liu Xuezhou's current tragedy would not have happened. As Liu Xuezhou said, "When you say that I disturb your family, you disrupt my whole life." ”
Don't say liu Xuezhou aggressively, from the moment his biological parents sold him, the sins of his parents have been formed, it is they digging a black hole for themselves, and this black hole is now devouring their selfish lives.
Bless the rest of Liu Xuezhou's life, no parents, but more strong, no umbrella children, work hard, you will get your life belongs to you.