When the child is not at home, he looks forward to coming back, and when he comes back from vacation, he sleeps late and gets up late, so he can't get angry.
When I was a student, my favorite thing was to take a vacation, to sleep lazily, and to squat at home and watch TV. But sometimes I don't want to take a vacation, and I am always nagged by my parents at home. Very annoying.
Recently, in Xuchang, Henan Province, a girl returned home from vacation. The attitude of parents ranged from booing and asking for warmth to yin and yang weirdness. And our parents are too similar, some netizens responded: it is so real.
Parents are also contradictory, they can't see their children and think, and when they see them, they feel that everywhere is not pleasing to the eye. It is in such a contradiction that green silk changes white hair, parents are old, children grow up, go to strange cities to develop, and parents, guarding that familiar window, can not see those familiar people for a long time.
When students go home, their parents' attitudes change, from booing and asking for warmth to yin and yang weirdness
We've all had this experience. When there is no holiday, every week to talk to the parents on the phone, parents are always looking forward to the children's holiday home, eager to keep the good food, waiting for the child to come back to eat together.
After the holiday, parents are indeed always with their children, give their children a long time to leave delicious food, and do not ask children to get up early in the morning, so that we can sleep until we wake up naturally. At that moment, we felt so happy.
It's just that the good days won't be too long, and in a few days, our parents should dislike us for being too lazy, either sleeping late or getting up late. Even shouted that none of us responded.
Recently, in Xuchang, Henan Province, a student went home from vacation and experienced such a scene. Just after returning home, my mother greeted her warmly and made her food. I was afraid that my daughter would be hungry at school.
Within a few days of the good days, the mother began to get bored, feeling that her daughter was too lazy, and went to bed late and got up late every day. Not only to call her daughter to get up, but also to cook for her daughter. Suddenly, I felt that it was best not to come back, and I began to look forward to the start of my daughter's school.
Netizen response: This is also too real, many people have experienced similar scenes, sometimes very annoying, when after work to find out, parents are such contradictions. Because after becoming a parent, I understood the heart of my parents.
This scene, many people have experienced, sleeping lazily, parents cleaned up the room, forcibly opened the curtains, good dreams have also been disturbed. Although the child is very annoying, he does not dare to get angry, otherwise there will be no one to cook.
The heart of a parent, we should all understand
If you don't raise children, you don't know your parents' grace. Only when he became a parent, did he suddenly understand that his mother was worried.
Parents look forward to their children coming home because they are afraid that their children will not eat well and wear well outside. After returning home, I saw that my child was so lazy, and I began to worry that I might not be able to find a job after graduation. Parents are not contradictory, but just want to see their children better.
We all understand the thoughts of our parents, but home is a haven, no matter how tired you are outside, it will be very comfortable to come home. The place where there are parents is home, and the child that parents see who sleeps late and gets up late is the most authentic self.
The mind of our parents can only be understood if we are parents. I also hope that we can live up to the expectations of our parents and become a better version of ourselves.
Write at the end
The mother in the video is the national version, and everyone is like this. There are troubles, there is happiness, there is joy.
Some people feel that their parents are very annoyed, they are unwilling to go home during the holidays, and they have no money to ask their parents. As everyone knows, parents have gradually aged and their faces are fleeting, but they cannot change back to their children's understanding and companionship.
In this fast-paced era of development, we also want everyone to have a warm home. At home, there are nagging, concern for the heart, and there is happiness from booing and asking for warmth to yin and yang.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, the son wants to raise and not to wait, I hope we can spend more time with our parents, rather than not going home for a long time because of fear of nagging.
When you are old, can't walk, snooze by the fire, remember your youth...
I hope that when you reminisce in your old age, your mind will be full of pictures of the fullness and happiness of accompanying your parents, rather than the old tears after complaining, self-blame and regret.
Please take extra time to spend with your parents