Text/Flying Fish
Regarding love, there is a law called "collaborative game" in psychology, which is actually a rule.
That is, when two people in love are together, when they have a misunderstanding, or a dispute, no matter who it is, only one of them has made an expression first, or taken the initiative to show goodwill, or directly apologize, or give hints, give each other a step down, is to ease the contradiction of the love of two people.
Because the two of them have already discussed before, no matter when, they must follow this rule, so that love can be kept fresh forever, and the two people will quickly eliminate contradictions and misunderstandings, so as to reconcile feelings.
True love for a person, will know how to tolerate and tolerate, but also willing to compromise for the sake of the other party.
In fact, in a relationship, a man really loves a person, it is pretended that he can't, and love and non-love are really obvious.
A man truly loves a woman, and the most obvious manifestation is just this two words: heart.
First, try to collect about her preferences and then surprise her.
A man who truly loves you will be very attentive to you. He will use his heart to collect all his preferences about you, and then he wants to prepare some surprises for you, to do his best for you, just to be good to you and show his love for you in front of you.
Zhou Jinshun in "Semi-Acquainted Lover" He has always liked Luo Ying, so he will silently collect information about her, have a lot of understanding of her, he hears that she likes to drink soup, and wants to drink soup, knows that he likes to sing, so he uses his heart to learn to cook soup, use his heart to find a recording venue for her, pretend to take her to sing, in fact, he wants to give her a surprise, that is, to take her to record songs, and then through the radio, let the world hear her voice.
A man who truly loves you, will pay attention to your likes, to cater to you, to please you, to take you to do romantic and interesting things, is to surprise you and make you happy.
Such a hard-working man, silently pay for you, even if the woman did not choose him in the end, he also feels no regrets, because he really likes a person, to take the initiative to pay, this experience is very meaningful.
If there is a man in your life who does this to you and you like him, then seize the opportunity.
Second, remember the words you said inadvertently.
When a man truly loves a woman, when he is with her, when he talks to her, he will listen carefully, listen patiently, and remember some of the things she has said with his heart.
"Semi-acquainted lovers" in Lola and Yu Yue went out to dinner, the two people ate while chatting, Yu Yue felt that he was very relaxed with her, but also very chatty, when the two people chatted, they would not deliberately go to find a topic, but let nature go on, in fact, Yu Yue had already pulled his heart to Luo Yue, and had not had the opportunity to talk to her well, so he seized the opportunity for her to go out, and then went to pick her up, took her out to eat, so he created an opportunity for the two people to get along alone.
Yu Yue actually looks at Lola's circle of friends every day and pays attention to her dynamics, so when he mentions the circle of friends, Lola also said that he often looks at him, so he is happy in his heart.
Later, he posted a "good night" in the circle of friends.
In fact, he was saying goodnight to Lola. Because Lola told him, "If I can meet a man and say goodnight to myself every day, it will be a very happy thing."
So, he remembered it with heart.
And when Lola looked at his circle of friends, he saw the "good night" two people, and he immediately understood that this man was attentive and would remember the words he said inadvertently, which also felt very warm.
Therefore, men really love you, will be very attentive to you, will remember what you say, surprise you, give you warmth, let you know that he actually has you in his heart.
Third, do some very small things with your heart, but it is very warm.
Remembering Xie Nan's mention of an experience with Wu Jing in "Semi-Acquaintance Lover", the two people had not yet established a relationship, but Wu Jing wanted to see the New Year's Eve concert she hosted, so Xie Nan gave him a ticket.
After Wu Jing came over, he saw that his position was actually occupied, but he did not mean to say, and he stood in the doorway of the safe passage the whole time, and when it was time to count down, he counted ten numbers in his mind, and he should celebrate the New Year with her.
At that time, Xie Nan felt that he was very attentive, knew that his legs were not good, and stood for four hours, just to accompany her on New Year's Eve, such a small thing, in Xie Nan's heart, is an unforgettable memory.
The man who truly loves you, even if it is a very small thing, he will go to the other party very hard to make you feel warm.
Wang Ziwen also mentioned that he came back from work very late, but when he came back, he found that he still made meals at home and waited for him to eat together. When he goes out, he will leave himself a small note with instructions, these heart-warming things, only a man who truly loves you will do this to you.
Always believe that in love, it is mutual, and if you run to the double book, you will definitely harvest good feelings.
In fact, in the eyes of women, men have intentions, and there is no intention, it can be seen, she knows your intentions, the heart will feel happy.
As Xie Nan said, "When I was a child, the feeling of surprise was seen, that feeling was very good, but after a certain period of time, I found that the feeling of being pampered was felt in my heart, and this surprise may not be said by everyone wow, but we will all be hmmm." ”
Whether a man's love for a woman is sincere or not, whether there is a heart or not, in fact, women can perceive it.
I hope that you can truly love the person who really loves you, and when you meet it, you should cherish it.
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Author: Flying fish heart language, deep love of words, like minimalist slow life, holding a vegetarian pen, writing about the warmth of the world.
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