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Many people actually have some prejudice against women's initiative in life, and there are always people who say that women's initiative is upside down, in fact, instead of holding themselves, it is better to take the initiative to take the first step and get closer to the people they like, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Never feel that it is wrong for women to actively pursue a man, because whether it is a man or a woman, they must take the initiative to love the power.
In life, it is lucky to meet a person you like, if you don't try to take a step, how can the other party understand your intentions.
Therefore, in the relationship, women like a man, but also will take the initiative. When she has a good feeling for a man, she will look forward to further with you, will take the initiative to understand you, pay extra attention to you, and be very concerned about your affairs.
To see if a woman is emotional about you, it depends on her active understanding of you.
Because of a woman's emotional signs: take the initiative to get to know you.
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In fact, women are not easy to move in their feelings, perhaps because their past experiences tell themselves to be cautious, or perhaps because they have read books and seen many things, she looks forward to the emergence of love, but also will be very nervous, very cautious.
When a woman feels that her love is coming, she is happy, really likes someone, and does not mind taking the initiative.
Maybe you don't dare to take the initiative when you are 20 years old, but after the age of 30, the love between adults, if you don't take the initiative anymore, then the opportunity is gone.
Initiative is actually not a bad thing, when you have tried, loved, and taken the initiative to pay, even if the other party does not accept you, you have no regrets.
Feelings, you may not be able to work hard, but you do not express anything, nor can you.
Because between people, those who can come together are actually the same people, and there are reasons for encounters, either gifts or lessons, but also believe that the beauty that belongs to you may be a little slow, but it will come.
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Women like a man, that is, to take the initiative to understand him, to take the initiative to get close to him, this is not a drop in the piece of behavior.
When I first liked Mr. Liu, I took the initiative to say to him, "I have a good feeling for you." Tell him that if you also have a heart-pounding feeling for me, then we can get to know each other.
So, after that, he would set aside time to communicate with me, and later he took the initiative to teach me to play games, took the initiative to ask me out to dinner, and even took the initiative to confess.
We went all the way, from love to marriage, he cared about me very much and loved me.
So I would like to say that as long as a woman is sure that the other party is worth fighting for, there is really no problem at all, take the initiative, express her heart to the other party, and when she takes the first step, maybe the other party also happens to like you.
In short, women like a man, do not take the initiative to boldly try it, how can they be worthy of their own heartbeat.
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If you like someone, you will be impulsive. Women are the same, when she is emotional about a man, she will take the initiative to understand each other, take the initiative to invite each other, is to be able to express their hearts to each other, but also hope to let the other party know more about their different self in the conversation, hope that the other party can fall in love with themselves.
Thinking of Tong Yao in "Semi-Acquainted Lover", she has a good feeling for Yu Yue, for her personality, in love, is a person who wants to do anything, so she is sure that she likes Yu Yue, she will take the initiative to attack, take the initiative to invite her, she is happy, because going out to eat with the people she likes is happy and happy.
Like a person, take the initiative to pursue, but also a real self, when you do the real self, in fact, is very happy, do not have to hide.
When you take the initiative to talk to each other, take the initiative to understand each other, about love, about career, about life in various topics to determine whether the other party is the person you want, you can also conclude that the other party does not like in your heart.
When she takes the initiative to determine whether the other party has a good feeling for her, she will not force it again, so such a woman is rational in her treatment of feelings, and she can also afford to put it down.
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After a woman is emotional, the most obvious sign is to take the initiative to understand.
Understand each other's likes, understand each other's profession, understand each other's living habits, often brush the sense of existence in front of each other, and when you see each other alone, you will take the initiative to chat with each other.
In fact, when a woman likes a person from the bottom of her heart, she will silently pay attention to your whereabouts, pay attention to your daily life, remember some of the words you have said, and accompany you to complete some things, or surprise you and do what you like.
Especially when she hears that you are encountering something difficult, she will take the initiative to help you, and when she hears that the other party is in a bad mood, she will try her best to comfort him, listen to his complaints, be willing to share the joys and sorrows for him, and be willing to do something for him.
Women's initiative is actually more willing to fight for the happiness they want, hoping that you will meet a woman who loves you.
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