Text/Flying Fish
Many friends ask, how can you capture women?
In fact, some women are not so easy to chase, although you have paid a lot, or get no response, often only two possibilities: love and no love.
Either she doesn't like you at all and doesn't respond to you all the time, or she hopes that you will take the initiative to quit and stop doing unnecessary performances.
Or maybe she likes you too, but because she has a lot of concerns herself, she has not dared to easily agree to you, nor does she dare to give her heart easily.
Encounter the first kind, then choose to let go, feelings can not be strong, others do not love you, do not dwell on it anymore, the dignity of adults, is to quietly withdraw.
If you meet the second kind, if you want to get her heart, let her completely like you, and run to you with confidence, then you need to do these three things.
1, learn to empathize, let her feel that you understand her.
In fact, women are also very eager to meet a person who understands herself, knows that you are cold and warm, understands your sadness and joy, and resonates with herself, so that she can get along comfortably.
If in the process of getting along with men and women, a woman never gets the understanding and understanding of the man, then she will feel very tired, so she wants to leave and give up on this person.
In fact, between men and women, it is often because of empathy that the relationship will break through.
For example, Lola and Wang Nengneng in "Semi-Acquaintance Lover", she is eager to talk about a relationship, but she has been single for so many years, not that she has not found it, but she has never met the person who understands herself.
So when she met Wang Nengneng, everything she experienced, Wang Nengneng could understand her, understand her, even tolerate her, accept her, when she told Wang Nengneng her own experience, Wang Nengneng's eyes were full of pain, and also told her her own secrets, when he also said it, Lola found that the experiences of the two people were very similar, so she resonated with Wang Nengneng.
A man, want to capture a woman's heart, in fact, empathy is very important, because understand, so compassion, when the other party feels that you are the one who understands themselves, then everything you do, can touch her.
So, she's willing to try to accept you too.
2, throw in her favor and move her.
In fact, if you want a woman to be impressed with you, a man must know how to give, do what she likes, know what she wants, and then be good to her, she will always be moved.
Just like Yu Yue in "Half-Acquainted Lover", he has a good feeling for Lola, but he does not know what Lola thinks in her heart, and his advantages are always able to remember what Lola said and then silently realize it.
For example, Lola felt happy if she wanted someone to say goodnight to her. So Yu Yue sent the word "good night" in the circle of friends, in fact, she was telling her, and would knock on her door to personally say goodnight to her.
For example, when Lola was uncomfortable, he would give her some medicine to send warmth. When Lola said she wanted to get up in the morning to eat two poached eggs, Yu Yue silently made poached eggs for her.
Therefore, Yu Yue silently repeated, in fact, Lola can see, Lola is actually moved by Yu Yue, but Lola still has some heart in her heart, if Yu Yue does not mind, then Lola will choose her, because in front of Yu Yue, Lola is always shy, and even feels that the two people do not talk together, but also feel very comfortable. This is a very good signal.
In fact, women have no resistance to touching this matter, and I hope you can hold on tightly.
3, favor her, take the initiative to give her a sense of security.
In fact, every woman is eager to be pampered and favored, and being favored by a person is simply the happiest thing in love.
If you want to get a woman's heart, learn to favor her and take the initiative to give her a sense of security.
Because women are still quite sensitive, especially some of her previous experiences tell her not to start a relationship easily, it may be because she has been hurt in the relationship before, so she lacks security.
If a man prefers her in front of others, is only good to her, indifferent to others, and has only himself in his heart, then women will feel very happy.
When a man likes a woman, he takes the initiative to keep a distance from others, will no longer engage in ambiguity with others, meets others like him, and he already has a heart, then he takes the initiative to explain to others, let others no longer waste time on him, then such a man, is to take the initiative to give his beloved woman a sense of security, but also a favor.
The love that women most hope to get is actually favored by people, so that they will feel very secure, and they will let down their vigilance and guard, accept men's confessions, and have been pampered by men.
In short, if you want to get a woman's heart, you must learn to understand her, to understand her, to move her, to give her companionship and security, to give her preference, and she will slowly fall in love with you.
Love is coming, sometimes it can't be stopped, I hope you can hold on tightly, like a person, you have to be brave to pursue, take the initiative, there will always be gains.
Because every woman actually hopes that men can take more initiative, in fact, she is also giving you the opportunity to seduce her, hoping to see your performance, to determine whether it is the person you want.
When your efforts touched her heart, I believe that soon you will reap happy love.
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Author: Flying fish heart language, deep love of words, like minimalist slow life, holding a vegetarian pen, writing about the warmth of the world.