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Love is a game of the brave | Cheng Yi
Climbing a mountain and loving someone are two great blessings in life.
But not everyone can encounter a landscape that can stop for them.
I think that most people who can understand this sentence have a person who loves but can't.
That person may have amazed you in your youth, and may have accompanied you through some difficult years.
But they, without exception, all got off the bus halfway through.
You can't forget it, it's hard to let go.
You say you've seen the most beautiful rainbow in the world, and it's hard to be impressed with anyone.
I can't go back, and I can't let go of myself.
Recently, I was watching "Half-Acquainted Lover" and was touched by the love of 30+.
There is no dog blood drama, only the serious decency of adults.
My favorite is Wang Nengneng, who is 37 years old.
But he can still show his big boy side when facing the favorite Lola.
It is steadfastness, it is preference, it is the direction of the heart.
Seeing Wang Nengneng, we found that
It turned out that the man was a teenager until his death.
It turns out that no matter how old you are, the heartbeat can really happen.
This heartbeat may be a hormonal attraction, may be a combination of dopamine and adrenaline.
But it's more about paying attention and being nervous about that person.
It's a promise of "you don't have to be pretty, I still love you."
I think everyone has experienced this kind of heartbeat when they were students:
When doing duty, rub the blackboard together and accidentally touch his shoulder;
When handing in homework, his own book and his inadvertent are put together;
Or maybe he wore a nice white shirt and walked through the hallway of your classroom.
Just one glance and you'll remember it for a long time.
When I was young, my heart was always so unprovoked and unusually firm.
Two people who don't understand anything can make a vow of mountain alliance and sea.
Later, we had an independent economy and a mature mentality.
But we also really, really can't find anyone who is in the mood anymore.
In our class, there was a college student couple.
From freshman year to senior year, they are like glue paint, envious of others.
Just when everyone thought they would get married after graduation, they broke up without warning.
The boy said that the family did not agree with them, and he was going back to his hometown to develop.
The girl was also stubborn and did not keep him.
Later, the boy returned to work at the local institution.
A year later, he married a wife who was right in the house.
The girl chose to work in the big city and is still alone.
Someone asked her, after so many years of not being in love, is it still impossible to let go of him?
The girl could only smile bitterly.
There are always people who are so free that they can move on to the next paragraph very quickly.
But I haven't had a heart beat in a long time.
Maybe everyone who has truly loved and died without illness can understand the girl's feelings.
As time passes, the wounds of the past will heal and scab, and everyone thinks you are fine.
However, on rainy days, the wound will be faintly itchy.
Although the pain is already weak, the injury has really happened.
Almost complete, full of regrets.
The frustration of this emotion surrounds you for a long time.
So that when you meet the next person, you subconsciously think,
"Forget it, it's going to end anyway, so don't start."
But choking on food is not the right attitude towards our feelings.
Without trial and error, you will never find the right answer.
Every fairy tale has its own troubles.
The Little Mermaid has no feet, and Cinderella has no money.
Sleeping Beauty didn't wake up half the time, and Snow White almost lost her life.
But stories with flaws are fascinating and teach people to cherish.
It gives people a long time of shock and touch.
Experience is wealth, and the ending is no longer important.
There may be love, it may just be bubbles, it's all the same colorful.
I know that as I get older, love becomes less pure, always mixed with pros and cons.
But the heartbeat cannot deceive people.
The excitement of the fawn bumping, even at the age of 80, is still real.
Liking a person's eyes can't be hidden.
It's like the seasons change, day and night, and you simply can't stand up to it.
Everything is so natural.
Even if you try to cover it up, your eyes will always betray you.
It dodged from time to time, and couldn't help but care.
You can't be indifferent to his actions.
Your heart is exposed.
You still like him.
Such a heartwarming moment, everyone's life, more or less, will always appear a few times.
If you miss it, you may not come back.
Therefore, when you meet someone you like, you should be like Miriam Yang sang in "Yong":
I have no tenderness, only this bit of heroism.
Loving someone is not holding the mentality that you must see the sea today.
Instead, you can't see the sea on a cloudy day, and you have to pick up shells on the beach.
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