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"My dad said that you nurses are not serious, and I don't feel at ease with you, if my relatives know that he still has a strange disease in the world, it will be strange if they don't scold me first."
Xiao Zhang, a sperm bank nurse, received such a sentence from the other party's family during a blind date, and after hearing it, Xiao Zhang was instantly stunned.
Only then did Xiao Zhang understand that it was the other father's prejudice and misunderstanding of nurses, and as his father's first relative, he did not stand on his side, but questioned his professionalism.
In desperation, Xiao Zhang could only tell his father the content of his work, and when his father knew that his idea was wrong, he did not apologize, but said a little sarcastically: "What's the use, you nurses are not serious professions, no one will believe what you say."
However, his father's words pierced Xiao Zhang's heart, and Xiao Zhang still wanted to say what he wanted, that is: "If you don't know us nurses, don't question us with this mocking tone."
So what is the usual work of sperm bank nurses, and why do they encounter such prejudice and misunderstanding in blind dates?
What kind of mental journey is this?
How did she adapt to this job, and what kind of changes in society's cognition and prejudice against this special profession were reflected through the various things she encountered.
1. Prejudice in the blind date market.
Whenever Xiao Zhang is on a blind date, in the face of the other party's parents' questions, Xiao Zhang is always silent, and he doesn't know how to answer, and the other party's eyes are always with a trace of disgust and contempt.
However, the parents of the other party were also very dissatisfied with Xiao Zhang's silence, so they directly said to Xiao Zhang: "How can you answer the question without speaking, or not a serious girl, this is the current nurse, there is no serious one, how can anyone marry?"
However, for Xiao Zhang, this is not the first time she has encountered such a situation, and she is used to it, Xiao Zhang will not change her style of doing things because of these words, Xiao Zhang is also an optimistic and positive person, and she will not be affected by such questioning words.
The reason why Xiao Zhang was questioned in the blind date is because Xiao Zhang has been working as a sperm bank nurse all along, and the profession of sperm bank nurse is very improper in the eyes of people, so he will be accused by the other party's family when he goes on a blind date.
But these are not once or twice for Xiao Zhang, Xiao Zhang has always been able to stick to his work, and for Xiao Zhang, Xiao Zhang thinks that his work is meaningful and very important, but in the eyes of people it is considered improper, Xiao Zhang is very puzzled.
However, Xiao Zhang's work is also very hard and very respectful, so what kind of job is a sperm bank nurse?
Why is it considered an unserious profession?
The sperm bank is a special place, the average person is rarely able to access, and the sperm bank has its own responsibilities, the sperm bank nurse is mainly responsible for the collection of donated sperm and preservation, which is also very important.
When female friends donate eggs, they will also need the help of nurses, therefore, the nurses of the sperm bank are also very important, but in the eyes of some female friends, the nurses of the sperm bank are also very lowly, and even some female friends think that their daughters cannot be nurses, if they become nurses, they are not good nurses, and they will still damage their chastity.
And the job that Xiao Zhang is engaged in has never been recognized by the other party's family once in a blind date.
But Xiao Zhang always believes that the job of a sperm bank nurse is meaningful, and at the same time, Xiao Zhang also feels that he is very happy, because it is also very meaningful to be able to help infertile families through his work, so that more families can be helped.
When Xiao Zhang is on a blind date, he will always be asked by the other party's family: "What kind of work are you, it feels unserious when you hear it, but my son is working alone in the field, I always can't rest assured, and your identity is unknown, in case he still has some strange disease outside, my family has eyes, and I can definitely see it."
This sentence was also a sentence to Xiao Zhang, Xiao Zhang didn't know how to answer for a while, and could only be silent, but after hearing it, the other party's family thought that Xiao Zhang didn't dare to say it, so he said directly to Xiao Zhang: "You unserious nurses, don't go on a blind date, the blind date is not to find someone to do, you still have to find someone who is responsible for the family."
After hearing this, Xiao Zhang could only say to the other party's family: "I know, I will report to the higher authorities, and I hope to solve this problem as soon as possible."
2. Prejudice and Truth.
Although the work of the sperm bank is very improper in the eyes of people, it is very important, and the work done by the sperm bank nurses is also very meticulous and important, because the work they do is related to whether the work of the entire sperm bank can be carried out in an orderly manner, and it is also related to the happiness of many families.
Nurses are a very well-rounded profession, and during their studies, they can learn very professional nursing knowledge, as well as various skills, not only that, but they also learn relevant medical knowledge and social knowledge.
At the same time, nurses also need to master professional nursing knowledge and skills, as well as the operation of various medical instruments, so it is not easy, but nurses did not flinch in the process of learning, but strengthened their belief, that is, choosing this profession must be right.
However, the most important point of nurses in their work is to communicate with patients, and at the same time to relieve the tension of patients, but at the same time to relieve the tension of patients, they also need to pay attention to the details of the work, otherwise there will be some bad consequences.
When nurses face the fear and challenges of work, they can only continue to learn, increase their professional knowledge, and at the same time improve their skills through some simulation training.
At the same time, nurses also need to constantly exercise their psychological quality, so that they can become more calm in the face of various challenges, and these nurses can do it, and at the same time, they can gradually adapt to their own working environment.
However, nurses also work very hard, because they not only have to face a variety of diseases, but also have to endure verbal harm from patients and their families.
However, nurses will not be deterred by this, they always believe that as long as their work is right, they must persevere, and at the same time, for those who are not sensible, they will not pay attention, but use their own practical actions to prove their worth.
In this job, the nurses have also received a lot of praise from patients and their families, and at the same time, many patients and their families will write when they send pennants: "Nurses and sisters have worked hard."
This also made the nurses very touched, and they were also very happy, because they could get the support and encouragement of their families and patients, and these are the biggest motivations for the nurses.