Unexpectedly, the beginning of 2024 was actually a steely man Wu Jing's personality collapsed, and the image of a good man in everyone's mind before was gone, but he was labeled as misogynistic and disrespectful to women, and there was a two-level reversal in an instant, and even many netizens ran to his wife Xie Nan's Weibo to persuade him to leave, I think the most empathetic person in this situation is Zhu Dan
At the beginning, everyone felt that Zhou Yiwei was not a good man because of Zhu Dan's wrong expression, so they shouted on the Internet to let Zhu Dan divorce, but this year, Zhou Yiwei participated in the show because he and Zhu Dan were together, and everyone knew that they had misunderstood, and during that time, "I owe Zhou Yiwei an apology" has also become a hot topic
Unexpectedly, the catastrophe of Zhou Zhouwei was over, but it was Wu Jing's turn, Wu Jing's image in everyone's minds had always been a good man, but recently netizens found that he treated his wife very badly in a certain show, and he threw things if he didn't agree with him, much like that kind of domestic violence man, so they ran to Wu Jing's wife Xie Nan's Weibo to persuade him to leave, forcing Xie Nan to come forward to respond to the matter
Xie Nan posted a long post on January 25 in response to the controversy caused by the old variety show clip, denying that her husband Wu Jing was misogynistic, disrespectful of women, and did not love his wife. She said: "If you doubt, then you can believe that we love each other enough, and if we are absolutely blessed, then I have to tell everyone that we are also quarrelling, and life is not black and white." ”
I have to say that Xie Nan's high emotional intelligence speech has resonated with many people, many people said that this is a matter of two people, netizens can't care about it at all, and some people think that Xie Nan is too in love, and he has been treated like this by Wu Jing, and he is not divorced, but as Xie Nan said, life is not black and white, which couple is not noisy and noisy, and what caused controversy was some clips in the old variety show
The reason for the incident was that some netizens took screenshots of the show that Wu Jing and Xie Nan participated in, and judging from the screenshots, Wu Jing is completely an irritable man, and he doesn't care about his wife's feelings at all!
For example, when the two were cooking in the kitchen, Xie Nan asked twice "Do you want chicken soup" Wu Jing completely ignored it, and didn't put a fart, and when the noodles were ready, he was also sitting there alone, and he didn't even call Xie Nan, this approach, Xie Nan was naturally aggrieved in his heart, so he said Why don't you call me when the noodles are ready, but he beat a rake and blamed Xie Nan for not seeing the rice ready
After the two quarreled a few words, Wu Jing ran to the bathroom alone, smashed the mirror with a towel and was angry! After being angry, Wu Jing went downstairs, and many people also felt that Wu Jing looked like that kind of domestic violence man, and felt that he was going to beat his wife in the next second
For example, when he played a tacit game with his wife in the show, Wu Jing didn't know the essentials at all, and after several failed attempts, he lost his patience, and even beat Xie Nan and said that Xie Nan did not cooperate, and this kind of behavior of throwing the pot also caused dissatisfaction among netizens, and many people shouted and began to criticize Wu Jing's behavior
thinks that Wu Jing's practices are suffocating, very selfish and indifferent, like an emotional giant baby, completely disrespectful of his wife's ideas, very machismo, and there are even rumors that the marriage between the two has turned on a red light!
Because in a show in 15 years, when the two disagreed with each other, Wu Jing was very dissatisfied, saying that it was Xie Nan's fault, which made Xie Nan cry, and the program team asked Xie Nan a question, if there is a chance to do it again, will he choose to marry Wu Jing, Xie Nan at that time replied no, so many people feel that Xie Nan has suffered a lot of grievances in this marriage, and always has to accommodate Wu Jing, she must be unhappy, and when she can't bear it, it is when the two are separated!
Seeing that things have evolved like this, Xie Nan sent a long response to correct Wu Jing's name. Xie Nan wrote in a long article: "Actually, when the show first aired, they were all condemning me for 'doing', calculating, and paying too much attention to details, but now they have begun to denounce him, right or wrong, no one can detach themselves to understand others, and what they substitute is their own experience." ”
This response also highlights her high emotional intelligence and pattern, she admitted that the way she and Wu Jing get along is to hate each other, and Xie Nan also expressed her attitude towards the voice of controversy in the outside world, but she did not blindly deny netizens, but showed great inclusiveness
"I understand all the incomprehension of him, and I understand all the criticism of me. In the practice of life, everyone is a trainee, and they may make mistakes, but they still go for high scores in their hearts. "For a while, it has also aroused the empathy of many people, indeed in the matter of life, everyone is a trainee, there are times when they make mistakes, there are times when they take detours, we are all the first time to come to this time, the first time to do the question of life, who can give a full score answer
Besides, what is shown in the show is just the tip of the iceberg, is it unfair to judge a person's character based on only a screenshot of a clip? Moreover, some programs will deliberately edit some things in order to stir up the topic to cause everyone's dissatisfaction, we don't have to take it too seriously, you will lose if you are serious! We haven't even really gotten along with Wu Jing, how can we know what kind of person he is, and Xie Nan and Wu Jing get along day and night, if Wu Jing is really such an unbearable person, needless to say, Xie Nan himself will take some measures
Now everyone only remembers his selfish performance in the show, but forgets that Wu Jing avoided risks in the show, and after seeing that the chimney of the program team's house was straight, he thought it was dangerous, but the program team didn't take it seriously, and in the end, Wu Jing personally started to improve the chimney, and also forgot that when Fan Wenfang fell into the sea, Wu Jing was the first to find out and rescued him
Everyone only saw Wu Jing's performance in the show, but forgot Wu Jing's love for Xie Nan in private, when Xie Nan stood on the stage to host, Wu Jing looked at Xie Nan's eyes in the audience, this kind of love can't be pretended, and once when promoting the movie, Wu Jing looked at Xie Nan and even forgot that she was hosting the show, and habitually held hands and wanted to take Xie Nan away, aren't these love
And from Xie Nan's words, it can also be seen that Wu Jing is a man who cares about his family, for example, his son is going to participate in the summer camp, Xie Nan because he feels that he wants Wu Jing to participate in the bitter wine with the child, but all the people who go are mothers, only Wu Jing has a father, and for example, when Xie Nan wants Wu Jing to sing, although Wu Jing is full of resistance, she still sang her favorite "Like You", and if Wu Jing is really an extremely selfish person, he will not donate 1 million as soon as he learns about the earthquake in Gansu!
What kind of person Wu Jing is, Xie Nan knows best in his heart, he doesn't need netizens to put his beak, and that show has been on the air for several years, but now he suddenly brings up the old things again, and the intention behind it can be imagined
Everyone knows that Wu Jing is a 40 billion box office actor, I don't know if his excellence hinders some people, so he will make such a play and destroy Wu Jing's reputation, what do you think?