Most parents hope to leave some good memories in their children's lives, but we often ignore what kind of moments can better bring children deep memories. In Time Magazine, the moments that can make a deep impression on children are summarized, including five aspects.
First, when parents give their children a sense of security. For children, he faces the fear of the unknown far more than adults, so in their growth process, when facing fear, they need the companionship and encouragement of their parents, if they are in adversity or fear, parents can give him encouragement or support, can better, leave a deep impression in the child's heart. In short, there are enough external fears for children, and what parents need is to give them support and help.
Second, when given attention to the child, the child develops deeper memories. "Time": When you put down your work, concentrate on talking with your child, or go out to play, these moments can leave a deep memory in the child's growth process. For the child, in the process of his growth and development, the high-quality companionship given to him by his parents is very necessary. At present, many parents often think that they are concentrating on their work and trying to earn money so that their children can grow better, but they ignore their children's inner need for companionship. On the other hand, some parents in the process of accompanying their children, only perfunctory accompaniment, let the children play by themselves, without any participation, and play mobile phones or talk to work next to them, etc., these companionships can not give children good spiritual help. Therefore, it is very important to truly integrate into the world of children and give them high-quality companionship.
Third, getting along with the other half will also have a great impact on the child. The child's initial connection with the world is the parent, so the development of his spiritual world often has a great connection with the parents, and the relationship between the parents can have a very big impact on the child's growth process. When the relationship between parents is harmonious and stable and full of love, it is that children are often more able to feel love and give love to others after they grow up, and if the relationship between parents in the original family is not harmonious, often quarreling or insulting each other, then the child in the process of growth, these things will also have a greater impact on the establishment of his character, often more irritable, easy to complain.
Fourth, the affirmation and criticism of parents will bring children deep memories. In "Time", the child's heart must be solidified cement, emphasizing the impact of parents' affirmation and encouragement on children in the process of children's growth. Many parents on the child's evaluation is often casual, and not, taking into account the child's inner growth, often compare the child with other peers, for example, in the process of parents communicating with other parents, there may be "your child is much smarter than my child" similar sentences, these words may be unintentional, but the child's inner growth has brought a very negative impact, long-term uncertainty and criticism will affect the child's inner confidence. To better address this problem, parents should pay more attention to their own words and deeds.
Fifth, family traditions also have a huge impact on children. Some parents may think that family traditions are not the key point in their children's memories, but for children, there is a relatively stable family in the process of growing up, and traditions are often very worth looking forward to, and these will also leave a strong memory in the depths of their memories. Family traditions can bring children a sense of atmosphere and better make children have a sense of belonging in life.
Mo Yan once said that "there are no parents who are born successful, and there are no parents who do not need to learn" In the process of children's education, parents need to constantly adjust their educational methods and educational concepts, so as to better create a healthy growth environment for their children.
The 2022 Blue Oak Education Calendar continues the style of the previous two years, defining the theme as "parents study well, children improve every day", hoping that parents can better face the parent-child relationship and make family education more relaxed and harmonious. The root of education is the experience and practice of parents, and the use of hand-torn Hitachi to record education is more ritualistic. The advantages of the new version of the calendar are mainly in the following aspects,
First of all, the fabric cover was adopted, the process was upgraded, and the texture was more advanced. Secondly, the paper quality has been thickened, the previous calendar paper is relatively thin, the feel is poor, and this time the use of thick paper for printing, has a better texture and more environmentally friendly. In addition, the logic of family education has been reorganized. This calendar has sorted out the underlying logic of education, and there are more educational examples in the calendar, which can enable parents to have a deeper understanding of educational concepts. Fourth, stick to hot topics. The calendar contains hot topics in recent years, such as "self-driving force", "double subtraction", "gender education" and so on. Finally, the calendar will also recommend an enlightening educational movie every week, encouraging parents to watch it with their children, so that they can have more comparisons in their own family education and better avoid some educational problems.