In recent days, primary schools around the world have successively held final examinations, and some schools have corrected the examination papers of some subjects and let students take them home. In the face of the children's return of the rolls, it can be said that a few joys and a few sorrows, those who have done well are all happy, the fathers are kind and motherly, the poor tests are chickens and dogs, and the parents are angry to the liver trembling in minutes.
Guangzhou: The girl only scored more than fifty points, and her mother was incoherent: let your father send you to the Shaolin Temple
Recently, in Guangzhou, Guangdong, a mother received a message from the teacher, this final exam daughter only scored more than fifty points, on the spot was angry, incoherent, said to let the child's father send her to the Shaolin Temple.
In the video, the mother, holding a mobile phone in one hand and repeatedly pointing to the test papers brought back by her daughter and the message sent by the teacher, said angrily:
"I'm really me... I don't want to even say anything about you in any language. ”
"Look at the message sent by your teacher for yourself, I don't even know how you get back... I don't even know what's going on, you know? ”
"The test paper is also, the teacher has talked about the topic you have not even changed, you have in class, how can you have so many words to say!"
At this time, I don't know whether it was the child's grandmother or grandmother who interjected softly, letting the little girl say sorry to her mother, and the mother was even more emotional:
"You... Can you please not talk about it when I'm talking, I... I don't need her to tell me I'm sorry You know, I won't hit her, you're in a hurry."
Instead, he lectured his daughter: "I... I'm angry and it's not because you only got more than 50 points in the test, you know, that is, your learning attitude is really problematic, if you can't do it, I won't teach you, let your father send you to the Shaolin Temple. ”
"Wen is no longer good, you can't try martial arts, I want to give you a prostration on the ground."
This mother spoke in a hoarse voice with a crying voice, really angry to the point that her lungs were about to explode. The daughter lay on the table the whole time, watching her mother count herself.
After the video was released to the Network, it triggered heated discussion among netizens:
Many parents empathize with the mother's mood and directly turn the comment area into a scene of complaints, saying that their children are also "scum" and do not know what to do.
Some netizens think that there is a problem with the mother's education method, saying that they cannot be so grumpy about the child, and suggest that the mentality is flattened.
Some netizens comforted that they should give their children the opportunity to change, and they will become better in the future.
Some netizens believe that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and they must learn to accept that children are ordinary, and if they can't manage it, don't care about it.
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Judging from the video content, this mother is really angry and helpless at her daughter, before it should be good to talk about evil, what methods have been used, but the daughter is not in the oil and salt, belongs to the kind of "knowing the mistakes, next time dare to", really hate iron is not steel, only desperate to such a mouth.
But even if she was angry to the point of liver trembling, she was still reluctant to beat her daughter, which showed that she was also very restrained.
As for whether her education style is really too grumpy? In the author's opinion, it is "the benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise". Each child's personality and psychological endurance are different, and the education methods of adaptation are different, some children are suitable for spring wind and rain, and some children are more suitable for rough education methods, which cannot be generalized. That is why there is such a thing as "teaching according to one's aptitude".
For every parent, educating their children is a kind of practice, a process of continuous trial and error, there is never the most correct way and method, the main difference is that some parents have found a more suitable educational method for their children in a relatively short period of time, while other parents have been struggling to find it.
What if you can't ask for it? Of course, I continued to grope. If you still have no effect after repeated attempts, then it is recommended not to make a car behind closed doors, ask teachers or other parents for advice, and learn more about some educational methods.
Poor parents in the world, when they are young, their children often can't understand the good intentions of their parents, until they grow up and become parents, they will understand the feelings of their former parents.
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