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Parent-child education as a part of family life, although many parents are paying attention to and thinking, but the real attention of the family is still relatively limited.
This is actually because many parents have not yet fully understood the importance of parent-child education, so is it necessary to pay attention to parent-child education? The answer is yes.
Parent-child relationship, as the name suggests, is the relationship between the child and the parents, which is the earliest contact relationship in a person's life, and it is the most basic but important link in all interpersonal relationships.
A person's thinking mode, behavior habits, attitude, and personality shaping are all slowly formed in this relationship.
Therefore, parent-child education is the starting point of children's educational career, which directly affects children's physical and mental health and the formation of the three views, that is, the world view, life outlook and values.
Specifically, its importance is mainly reflected in these points:
First, good parent-child education helps to improve children's academic performance.
Studies have shown that the atmosphere of family education is closely related to children's achievements.
Children who can feel the support and care of their parents when they study have a higher proportion of excellent grades;
In those cold and alienated families, the proportion of children with excellent grades is very low.
At the same time, if parents can invest more time and energy to participate in their children's learning, it is conducive to children to develop good learning habits, improve their patience and perseverance in learning, and be more motivated to learn, thereby improving academic performance.
Second, parent-child education plays an important role in the development of children's personality.
As the saying goes, "A dragon gives birth to nine sons, each of which is different." "The personality of children cultivated by different family education is different.
Psychologist Freud emphasized the importance of infancy and infancy for personality development, arguing:
From the time a person is born to the age of 6, the basic pattern of personality at this stage is roughly formed.
Therefore, it is very necessary to pay attention to parent-child education, early childhood is the key period and sensitive period of learning, if you can give correct and positive guidance and education to the child in the early stage, let him feel more family happiness, help to form his good personality.
From many examples in life, it can also be seen that those who have a good family education atmosphere from a young age are mostly warm and positive; while those who have unfortunate families have received a flawed family education and are prone to develop extreme personalities.
Third, parent-child education has a subtle impact on children's interpersonal relationships.
If the child's parents themselves are not good at words and do not communicate well with others, the child will also learn these small habits invisibly and slowly develop an introverted and lonely personality.
Therefore, parents must pay attention to the fact that if you are not good at words, you cannot let your children also follow their own "old way" and become bad at words.
You should try to let your child receive what is good, and find a way to guide it to become a sociable person.
In addition, as soon as the child makes a mistake in front of outsiders, some parents will directly scold and accuse, and gradually the child will think that he is really bad, resulting in the psychology of self-abandonment, so that he is more and more afraid to show himself in front of outsiders, unwilling to contact and interact with people.
Therefore, parents should not blindly blame when the child makes mistakes, under the premise of protecting the child's self-esteem, let the child realize his mistakes, understand that even if he makes a mistake in front of outsiders, he will change it, and continue to maintain the courage to show himself in front of outsiders, and the correct guidance will be very helpful for the child's interpersonal communication in the future.
Therefore, it is very necessary to attach importance to parent-child education.
If parent-child education is done well, it will have a great positive effect on children's academic performance, develop a good personality, and build social interpersonal relationships.
In modern society, many parents ignore parent-child education because they are busy with work, hoping that their children will become excellent, but they are not willing to spend time and energy to educate, how can they expect to cultivate high-quality children?
Here it is recommended that parents, even if they are busy, must take time to accompany their children, accompany their children to learn, and teach their children to behave in the world, in order to truly raise a good child with excellent character and learning.
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