A few days ago, I saw a video and was very sad.
A man was seriously ill but could not afford to pay for a large amount of treatment.
Emotionally out of control, in order to survive, he knelt down to the doctor in the hospital hall for help.
Seeing this scene, my heart was very unhappy, and I had a strong thought in my mind:
In the second half of life, the greatest blessing, the most advanced show of wealth, is not how much gold and silver treasure you have.
Rather, it is good health, no disease and no disaster.
Zhihu has a question: "When did you realize the importance of health?" ”
One answer was very heartfelt: "The unit physical examination found that there was a tumor, and I went to the hospital for a biopsy."
As I waited nervously for the test results, I thought about what to do with my wife, children, and parents. ”
Yes, in the fast-paced life, we desperately make money for life, so busy that we don't have time to pay attention to health.
When the body warns us, we remember that a serious illness can destroy not only a family, but also an entire life.
A while ago, Meituan Mutual Aid and Easy Mutual Aid have announced their closure, and recently the largest online mutual aid platform in China, "Mutual Treasure", has also announced that it will be officially shut down on January 28 due to major changes in the mutual aid industry.
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Almost every person who falls due to illness has a broken family behind him that can't survive.
Behind every adult, there stood a group of people.
Philosopher Spinoza said: "Staying healthy is the responsibility of being human." ”
For children, for parents, for ourselves, we should all pay more attention to health.
For parents, children are their own weakness.
Remembering the plot of the movie "Send You a Little Red Flower", Wei Yihang, who is suffering from brain cancer, chatted with his mother.
When my mother was young, she was very timid, afraid of the dark, afraid of insects. But after giving birth to him, I was not afraid of heaven.
Later, after Wei Yihang fell ill, her mother was afraid again, afraid that he would get sick and afraid of losing him.
After Wei Yihang's surgery, he needed to go to the hospital regularly for review, and he ate a lot of medicine like a meal, and the expensive medical expenses made this ordinary family worse.
In order to make money, Dad secretly drove a car after work hungry, and even held back stomach pains in order to save money for examinations.
In order to take care of her sick son, the mother gave up the opportunity for promotion, and bargained for some bits and pieces of parking fees and grocery purchases.
In the film, there is also a father who is reluctant to eat a good meal in order to give his child chemotherapy, and also lies to the child that he has eaten beef rice.
Finally the child was gone, and at that moment, the collapsed father cried bitterly at the hospital door.
As a line from the movie goes: "You get sick, and it's harder for the people around you." ”
Illness is never a person's suffering, but a family's test, especially if the child is sick.
If the child can recover from illness and disaster, the whole family will also survive the haze and usher in the dawn.
I have seen such a heart-warming story in the user group of Mutual Treasure.
Mr. Kim's daughter suffered from eye cancer, and the child always wanted to see Princess Elsa after the operation, but because he could not look at the electronic screen, the child has been sullen.
Mr. Kim put on a princess dress, a wig, and a magic wand to make the child happy.
Looking at the child's little face, a cute smile finally appeared, and Mr. Jin's tired face also showed a smile.
"Send You a Little Red Flower" says this:
"Send you a little red flower to cover your new scar today, what a difficult day, you can overcome it." 」
No matter what you encounter, your child is a lifelong concern for your parents.
They will always hold up a piece of the sky for their children and desperately protect them.
I saw a news that a sixty-year-old uncle accidentally fell down in the subway station, and his head was bleeding.
When the police were ready to contact the uncle's children, he lied that his children were out of town and was unwilling to say their contact information.
Later, under the repeated questioning of the police, the uncle said that he was afraid that the children were busy and did not want to cause trouble.
Parents are getting old, and the biggest heartache is not that their children are not filial piety, but that they become the burden of their children.
They are not afraid of getting old, but they are afraid of getting sick.
They may be more afraid of being a burden to their children than they are of death.
The inability to allow parents to enjoy their old age is sad for their children.
Colleague Obayashi is an only child, the family conditions are good, and he has never been concerned about making money.
It is said that in front of parents, we will always be children.
But three years ago, Obayashi's mother was diagnosed with a serious illness, and during those long and endless years, he accompanied her to check-ups, chemotherapy, and surgery, as if he had grown up all at once.
The medicine that the mother took was also very expensive, although it could be reimbursed for a part, but it was eaten over time, and the family that was not rich could not afford it.
Once, when her mother accidentally dropped a pill while taking medicine, Obayashi reprimanded her mother fiercely because the medicine was too expensive.
The mother silently picked up the medicine on the ground and sat alone in front of the window of the ward in a daze.
For a long time, she said to Obayashi, "It doesn't matter, it's a big deal to die early." ”
Obayashi burst into tears in an instant, preferring his mother to leave because the hospital had no treatment plan or her body could not support her.
He was too afraid that when his mother wanted to live, he would not have the money to buy her medicine to eat.
Bi Shumin said: "We all believe that the long party who came to Japan believes that the day when Yijin returns to his hometown, he can calmly fulfill his filial piety."
It is a pity that we forget the cruelty of time, and forget that life itself has a fragile fragility. ”
We are always used to waiting, but wait, wait, wait, wait for the mother to have white hair, wait for the father to bend his back, we have not waited for the time and opportunity.
Parents are here, and there is still a place in life.
When your parents go, there is only one way back in life.
The best thing in the world is this: I've grown up and you're still healthy.
Life is a reincarnation of feeding, don't let parents become our biggest regret.
I always felt that there were so many accidents in this world, with my own children, my parents were older, and I knew that accidents could happen at any time.
Once I saw a mother who was seriously ill and worried that her family would be sad after she was not there, she left a suicide note:
Husband, if my illness is not cured, you will have to find someone to accompany you.
Child, if you think of me, you can look at the phone, you must not forget me, mom will always love you.
Mom and Dad, if you want to sell your house to treat me, in the end you will be empty of money, the house will be well kept, and I will be your child in the next life.
A few simple words, people tears.
When we reach middle age, we have parents, children and lovers behind us.
Only their own health is the support for the eternal happiness of the family.
I once read a passage like this:
"Don't show off your money, when you get to the hospital, it's not worth anything;
Don't show off your work, fall down, and have people who do better than you do;
The only thing you can show off is your health. ”
"Anti-cancer blogger" Ah Jian never thought he would get cancer, and the worst illness before was nothing more than a cold and fever.
When he had bloating and abdominal pain at the beginning of the disease, he also thought that it would be good to take some medicine.
After being diagnosed with terminal cancer, he has been sharing his experience of fighting the disease online.
A mental boy was tortured by the disease for more than 460 days, taking medicine and chemotherapy had great side effects, and he was so thin that he only had skin and bones.
He puts it this way in the video:
"I always thought that I was very young, that there must be no big problem in my body, and that it was impossible to get cancer."
I'm sorry for the parents, sorry for the children, and finally made such a mess for them.
I am not afraid of death, and death is actually a relief for me now, but I can't be so selfish.
Parents are older, children are still so young, what to do when they grow up in the future? ”
We often think that youth is capital, but we don't know that there is no old or young in the face of disease.
Some people leave once they leave, they say goodbye forever.
There was once a street interview, and if there was a phone call to heaven, who would you most like to call?
Most of the people interviewed, whether young, middle-aged or elderly, chose to call their deceased relatives.
Sometimes fate pushes everyone forward, and there are many difficult times that we can only bear.
No one can predict what will happen in the future, a serious illness may force a family into a desperate situation, or it may be separated forever.
In order to protect the quality of life of parents in their later years, in order to plan a better future for their children, in order to give themselves an additional guarantee, it is urgent to enhance their awareness of insurance.
With one additional layer of protection, you get one less risk.
"Mutual treasure" is such a health security mutual aid platform with a certain public welfare nature, and its original intention is to let you and I, who have never known each other, work together to help each other.
Many people do not have enough financial ability to treat them when they are seriously ill.
According to the public data of the "Mutual Treasure Social Value Research Report":
10% of the people have no other protection except for "mutual treasure", 30% of the respondents have an income of less than 50,000 yuan, if they are sick, 54% of the respondents can only barely bear the medical expenses of less than 100,000 yuan, and less than 14% of the consumers who can bear the medical expenses of more than 300,000 yuan.
"Mutual treasure" is a kind of hugging warmth that can resist the risks in one's own life, and can also give strangers a hope with a show of hands.
"Mutual Treasure" has been online for 3 years, and has completed 71 phases of mutual assistance, helping 179127 members tide over the difficulties.
Compared with the nearly 180,000 people rescued by Mutual Treasure, it is more important that "Mutual Treasure" has completed a health security education for hundreds of millions of people.
It has allowed hundreds of millions of low-income people in China to begin to contact, participate in, and attach importance to the supplement of commercial medical insurance.
In this way, mutual treasure is considered to have partially achieved its social mission.
However, there are still 75 million users of mutual treasure health protection, and it is still not ignored.
In order to ensure that the health protection of mutual treasure members is constantly filed, as long as they are diagnosed with a serious illness before January 28 and meet the requirements, they can still receive sufficient assistance.
When "Mutual Treasure" exited the market, it did not forget to leave hope for some low-security personnel.
All members of "Mutual Treasure" can transfer to the "Major Illness No. 1" major illness insurance underwritten by PICC Chinese Health Insurance without threshold, and there is no need to re-inform the health notice when transferring, there is no need to recount the waiting period, and at the same time, before January 28th, the first 3 months can be directly free.
As Lu Xun said: "Infinite distances, countless people, are related to me." ”
The suffering of strangers can also be gently guarded so that the world does not despair.
The good deeds of mortals trickle into a warm ocean.
There is also a saying in "I am not a medicine god": "In addition to money, those who can cure diseases only need love and kindness." ”
No matter how hard the days are, we must also believe in life and believe in love.
There are many people in this world who love us, so that we have the courage to fight against this world.