As the saying goes, children avoid their mothers, and women avoid their fathers. For many people, when the child is still young, parents can do some intimate behavior to the child, but the child gradually grows up, the parents should change their own behavior, parents should also cultivate the child to a certain extent to develop a sense of self-protection, so that the child can be truly independent.
Nowadays, society is progressing, the development of the Internet is gradually maturing, mobile phones have become one of the essential living items for people, many people will always take out their mobile phones to brush videos to watch some news in their leisure time, in recent times, a video exploded on the Internet, in which netizens also expressed their opinions in the comments, but most of the netizens' remarks think that such a move is abnormal.
Girls in school uniforms are hugged by adult men, netizens: female adults should avoid their fathers, it is not appropriate to do so
On the Internet we can often see some videos of parent-child interaction, if the child is still young, it is normal for parents to hug and cuddle their children, but if the child is older, it is somewhat inappropriate for parents to make such behaviors to their children, and it is precisely because of this idea of netizens that many videos on the Internet have been sprayed.
But in the face of such a situation, we must also tell our views according to the real situation of the matter, and do not wear colored glasses on each video, so that we will not only not know the truth of the matter, but also affect others. In the recent period, this video has caused controversy among netizens, in which we can see that in a restaurant in Shanxi, a girl is holding a mobile phone in her hand and wearing a school uniform, while a grown man is holding him behind his back, and witnesses at the scene also said that the two embraced for up to 5 minutes.
The two of them are queuing up to order food, during the two while hugging, but also while shaking, so that many onlookers are uncomfortable, of course, some netizens said that the two are lovers relationship is not big, may be after all, the age difference between the two is so large, it is very likely that the biological father-daughter relationship.
After this remark was exposed on the Internet, many netizens discussed the topic of "children avoid mothers, women avoid fathers". Some netizens said that it is normal for fathers to hold their daughters, people may not have seen each other for a long time, can't they see their daughters happily hugging for a while? What's more, the daughter has not started a family no matter how old, and the parents should also think that the daughter is a child.
Of course, some netizens said that as the age of girls increases, their gender differences will become more and more obvious, as the father of the child, you must have a certain distance from the daughter, after all, if the action is too intimate, it is likely to affect the development of some of the child's personality, and even affect the child's life.
Daughters are daddy's intimate little cotton jacket, but also daddy's past life's little lover, when their daughters are born, they will always inspire a strong father's love, to do such behavior, the parties do not want us as bystanders what rights do they have? Some netizens said that shooting videos without the consent of others is disrespectful to others, and such a practice is also inappropriate, in short, the relationship between the two has not yet had a clear explanation, whether the two are lovers or father and daughter is still an unknown.
What is the impact of "women who do not avoid their fathers"?
For many children, they grow up mentally fast from the age of three to 6, they are like a blank piece of paper and a clean sponge, they don't understand anything, but they are accepting everything, the words and deeds of their parents, they are also learning, as parents and children, keeping some distance is what you have to do as parents.
In their eyes, parents are omnipotent, and the father's love is like a mountain, the daughter's admiration and love will mostly be placed on the father's body, and as a father, you must also understand that at this time you can cultivate the child's sense of self-protection, which also means that the scale and educational guidance for the child will begin. If the father is too close to the child, it is likely that the child will have an "Oedipus complex" and even adversely affect the child's future behavior.
As a netizen said, girls are the same, the father is too protective for girls can easily produce princess disease, whether it is a boy or a girl, as a parent must learn to let go, only by letting go, children can really grow independently. Emotional boundaries must be done, as parents have many ways to express love to their children, parents should also clarify the different scales of love.
In short, although it is a parent-child relationship, it is still a difference between men and women who avoid mother and daughter and avoid father, which is the concept that parents must instill in their children, and it is also what parents must do. Affection is pure and clean.
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