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In the process of raising children, many parents will encounter difficulties, among which how to quit electronic devices for their children has become a hot topic for many parents in recent years.
Indeed, with the development of the Internet, more and more children have begun to contact various electronic devices from an early age, and some parents have directly placed them in front of the TV in order to make their children quiet for a while, and even let their children achieve mobile phone freedom.
When parents understand the harm of electronic products to their children, it is often too late, and what is more troublesome is that parents' preaching at this time is useless, and the parent-child war is about to break out.
How can I effectively help my child quit electronic devices? I believe that after reading the following mother's approach, you will definitely express your admiration.
The child is addicted to electronic devices, the mother uses eyeshadow to draw dark circles for it, and netizens call it too hardcore
Not long ago, a video of a mother helping a three-year-old child quit electronic products on the Internet attracted the attention of many netizens.
The mother said that her son is three years old and is often addicted to mobile phones and iPads, and no matter how the family stops them, it is difficult for the child to quit.
Considering the damage that electronics can do to her child's eyes, the mom came up with a brilliant idea, opening her own eyeshadow palette while her son was asleep and then skillfully applying coffee-colored eyeshadow to her son's eyes.
In this way, the sleeping son immediately became a panda eye, and when he woke up and looked in the mirror, the whole person was suddenly scared to cry.
The little boy in the mirror has two heavy dark circles and a very poor face.
At this time, the mother told her son that these two circles of dark circles were caused by him usually looking at the mobile phone too much, and if he continued to look, the dark circles would be even more serious than now.
Apparently, Mom's words worked.
When asked if he would look at his phone later, the boy shook his head while crying, and the tears fell down, and the eyeshadow was more realistic after the smudging of tears.
This scene also successfully amused many netizens, many people are impressed by their mother's makeup technology, and some netizens said that this method really works, only if the child feels afraid, they can restrain their behavior.
" Laugh at me, this mother is so funny, you can see from the dark circles of the eyes that this is a makeup master!" 」
"It's really hardcore! Dealing with the current post-00s, parents have to fight for iq. ”
Is this education really appropriate? The dark circles are drawn so that the children have psychological shadows..."
" Prepare to learn from it, children can only change bad habits if they are afraid."
What should parents do to help children quit electronics?
As we all know, it is difficult for our lives to leave the mobile phone anymore, but the harm of electronic production to children cannot be ignored.
Especially for small babies under the age of 3, long-term exposure to electronic products will not only damage vision, but also affect the child's intellectual development, depriving children of time and opportunities to exercise.
If you want to scientifically help your child quit electronic products, parents need to do the following:
First of all, if the child is already addicted to electronic devices, the process needs to be gradual, parents can communicate with the child, both sides set a good time for daily entertainment and strictly follow.
Once the regulations are violated, they are punished, and this punishment is not to touch the electronic device for several consecutive days.
Second, to keep children away from electronic devices, oral education and reprimands from parents have little effect.
Instead of getting angry with your child every day, take your child to participate in outdoor activities or do something meaningful, so that children can experience the fun of outdoor activities, and over time, the time spent on electronic devices will gradually decrease.
Finally, children are often addicted to electronic devices because parents take the lead. In many families, parents scold their children for playing with mobile phones while having fun with themselves, and in this family atmosphere, it is difficult for children to self-discipline.
Therefore, if you want your child to develop good learning and living habits, parents need to set a good example for them, and only when adults restrain their behavior, children can be reassured and worry-free.
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