Lazy daughter-in-law

One day of morning exercise, I met an old colleague of morning exercise. Talked about parental shortness. An old colleague asked me: Is your daughter-in-law lazy? I pondered for a moment and replied: Maybe you're not lazy yet, right?

My old colleague and I said: When my son and daughter-in-law got married, we didn't live in different places, and we rarely went to their homes; my son's family often came to our house to see the clean clothes and wearing of my son, daughter-in-law and grandson; occasionally went to my son's house, glanced at the kitchen and bedroom, etc., and it was quite tidy. But I don't know who picked it up, so it's hard to draw conclusions.

The old colleague sighed and said that his daughter-in-law was lazy. I've seen lazy people, I've never seen people so lazy. They're all lazy to come out of the flowers!

The old colleague continued that after the daughter-in-law gave birth, it was normal not to work during the month, but after four or five months of confinement, it was still too abnormal not to work.

Today, the child is five months old, and the daughter-in-law has not gone to work. The daughter-in-law pays great attention to health, in order to eat well, the confinement to keep up with nutrition, also invited a person to make lunch.

Every day, I go to the market early in the morning to buy vegetables, and my wife goes to her son's house early in the morning to take the children. The daughter-in-law does not care about the child, and only when the child is hungry and crying, she takes the child into her arms and feeds the child.

I bought back the vegetables and sent them to my son's house. At eleven o'clock in the morning, the cooker came and began to cook. When the meal was ready, the meal was brought to the table and the daughter-in-law began to eat. At one o'clock in the afternoon, the cooker leaves work. I went to the kitchen to wash the dishes. The daughter-in-law finished eating and went to the bedroom to rest. At four o'clock in the afternoon, I prepared dinner because my son was also coming back for dinner.

In the evening, after my son and daughter-in-law finished eating, I went to the kitchen to brush the dishes and wash the dishes. The son began to take care of the children, while the daughter-in-law began to look at the mobile phone. My wife cut in and did something else.

When I finished cleaning up the kitchen and the child was asleep, my daughter-in-law went to the bedroom to take care of the child.

It wasn't until six or seven o'clock in the evening that my wife and I were able to return to our homes.

The old colleague said helplessly that my wife and I did not want to do too much, but there was really no way: the son was afraid of his daughter-in-law, if we didn't care, the son would suffer, and he had to go to work, take care of the children, and have to cook and clean up! My daughter-in-law once said in front of us that she would not do any work! Therefore, although the daughter-in-law is too lazy and unkind, we are not good at speaking directly! But we are so sad for our son that we have to do it! An old colleague asked me, is there a good way to cure my daughter-in-law's laziness?

I said, there is really no cure for this lazy disease. But the ringer still needs to tie the bell, your daughter-in-law's own laziness is of course the reason, but your son is also responsible, and you, doing too much, she is lazy and lazy, but "lazy" is not a moment and a half can change; in the future, the first thing to change is your son and you!

The colleague replied, "Yes!" ”

Friends, I don't know if there is such a lazy daughter-in-law in your family, and if so, how to change the "laziness" of the daughter-in-law?