Some time ago, the upstairs neighbor came to visit the door and asked how to cultivate the child's concentration? She said that what toys his children play with are 3 minutes of heat, and they can't turn 2 pages of picture books, and they are often "complained" by kindergarten teachers: they are distracted in class and love to talk.
Listening to the neighbor's complaints, I talked to her about the experience of my mother-in-law with her daughter, hoping to be useful to her children. My mother-in-law was a primary school teacher before she retired, and after retirement, she came full-time to help us with our baby. During the period, because of the child's early education problems, he repeatedly had unpleasant troubles with his mother-in-law, and even complained that his mother-in-law was "not doing the right thing".
The reason is that I bought my daughter a variety of early education books, left and right brain development books, and even proposed to send my daughter to an early education institution, but these were rejected by my mother-in-law. She said that the child is young now, he should play, so he takes his daughter to play with stickers every day, and does not teach anything else.
To this end, I have complained to my mother-in-law many times: "What can I learn by playing stickers every day?" Isn't that just fooling around? You see wangwang next door, more than 2 years old can recite ancient poems! ”
"2 years old is not the age to memorize ancient poems, children should play now, focus on playing, since children like to play stickers, then let her play..." the mother-in-law said;
"What can I learn from playing stickers?" You see that everywhere you put it in your home, this is obviously not doing the right thing", I argue with reason;
After listening, my mother-in-law did not argue with me again, because I was busy with my husband's work, although I was dissatisfied with my mother-in-law with a baby, there was no better way.
I didn't expect that after the child went to kindergarten, the outstanding performance really surprised me, and I was praised by the teacher for being particularly focused, sitting still, and listening intently to the teacher's lessons, thinking ability, language expression ability, self-care ability, and induction ability are particularly strong.
When playing the game, the teacher will be able to fully understand the rules once, and the other children, the teacher may not be able to understand it 3 times. Other parents have repeatedly asked me how I developed my child's concentration.
Surprised, I went home and talked to my mother-in-law about this problem, and my mother-in-law smiled and said, "This is actually due to the stickers played by children." Why? My mother-in-law looked at me with a confused look and explained:
First of all, children like to stickers, and playing often can exercise their concentration
Many people think that children over 2 and 3 years old do not understand anything, but in the eyes of the mother-in-law, 2 and 3 years old is the golden period for cultivating children's concentration, and 3-6 years old training also has an effect, and it is difficult to cultivate them.
Children of this age like to try it with their hands, and stickers can not only meet the child's psychological cognition and hand development, but also meet their desire to do it. In the process of tearing and pasting, let the child experience success and build self-confidence, thus cultivating concentration.
Therefore, parents should seize this stage and use scientific methods, such as children's favorite games, to stimulate the development of various parts of the brain, thereby improving children's concentration.
Secondly, stickers can exercise children's induction and sorting ability
After kindergarten, the teacher will let the children sort out the toys according to the shape, position, color, etc., and the daughter can quickly sort them out every time.
Parents should not underestimate the play sticker, when the child tears the sticker, the index finger and thumb need to cooperate to uncover, after completing the paste. This process is very helpful for exercising the delicate movements of the child's hands, which is very helpful for holding and carrying the pen in the future.
When my daughter learned to write, she was very strong at the beginning of her pen holding, which was inseparable from her mother-in-law's frequent play with stickers.
Finally, the stickers enhance the memory and realize the play of middle school and learning
The general stickers are concentrated together, and after the child understands the rules, he will look for the corresponding stickers in many stickers and paste them to the corresponding places. This is not easy for young children, children in the process of operation, attention will be very concentrated, memory will be improved.
As the saying goes: the hand is the second brain of the human body! In the stage of rapid brain development (0-6 years old), the more hand stimulation is given to the child, the better the child's brain will develop and the smarter the child will be. Playing stickers is a very good exercise method, not only the hands, brain, eyes have been stimulated and exercised, but also the concentration has been improved.
The mother-in-law has grasped the growth and development and psychological characteristics of children of this age, and has played the role of sticker games to the extreme, so the daughter's concentration is so good.
Warm reminder: sticker books are a good time-killing tool, but also cheap, when the mother has something to do, take out a copy for the child, you can let the baby entertain herself for a while.
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