What kind of child lives the most tired?

There is a question on Zhihu: "What kind of child lives the most tired?" ”

The highest praise answer is: "How deep the parent's desire is, how tired the child is." ”

Indeed it is.

Too many parents graft their own desires onto their children.

This desire could be money, it could be fame.

But whatever it is, they deprive the child of his own childhood and innocence.

There is such a passage in Zhou Guoping's "Life is Precious in the Chest":

"Everyone has a time in their lives that lives according to their true nature, and that is childhood.

Children are naïve and refuse to restrain themselves.

He was living the whole time to enjoy life, and the worldly interests and rules were not in his eyes for the time being. ”

They should run in the sun and laugh wildly on the green grass.

Parents who treat their children as experiments, cash cows, and printing presses get nothing but a little pitiful desire and a momentary satisfaction in their hearts.

However, children are not the private property of their parents, they have their own independent personality, they should not be forcibly trapped in the cage of the adult world, they should see the colorful, vast world.

And we parents, while educating our children, should always test and educate ourselves.

Because, when we are right as parents, our children are naturally right.

So, give your childhood back to your children, it is the best time in everyone's life that is gone forever.