In the Korean drama "Coast Village Chacha", there is such a plot:
Liu Chuxi asked Commander Lü how she knew she liked him.
Commander Lu said: "It is not so much to know, but to feel." ”
Indeed, if you like someone, how can you hide it?
Although women's likes are more euphemistic than men's likes;
But once the word love is stained, there will be nowhere to hide.
Even if the other party doesn't say a word about her liking for you, she can't hide her liking for you.
In the process of your relationship, you can feel it to a greater or lesser extent.
If it weren't for the true feelings for you, women would definitely not have the following 3 kinds of initiatives.
Take the initiative to share your past with you
I know that the author Jin Tu once said such a passage:
"People like me don't like to meet new people. You know, it's tiring to talk about your past.
But the day I met you, I thought about making the first half of my life a movie for you.
Let you see the snow in Hulunbuir that I have seen, the four deserted streets I have walked,
Spend the night drunk and walk, and make up all your uninvolved lives. ”
Deeply.
Once emotional, you can't help it.
Although you have not participated in your past, you still can't help but want to share it with you.
Seemingly inadvertent, in fact, it is her plan for a long time.
Because I like it, I can't help but want you to know about her past that you haven't been involved in.
So, if you have such a girl around you, don't be silly and not understand her affection for you.
No one easily talks to others about their past, especially girls.
Because of his past, after all, he is only a matter of his own.
Even if you talk about it, it is only a few sentences to take, it will not go deep.
But once she likes you, it's different.
She will relish sharing with you all the interesting things that have happened in the past.
Take the initiative to find a topic to chat with you
A person who frequently finds topics to chat with you must have a good feeling for you.
In this fast-paced society, everyone is very busy, and there is very little time to really belong to themselves.
And in this limited time, she is still willing to give her time to you, which is undoubtedly true love.
As Suzen said:
"The most extravagant person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you."
Whoever has time is valuable, and giving time to you is equivalent to giving your own world to you. ”
Seriously.
Everyone's time is limited and equally precious.
If there is a girl, she will often take the initiative to find topics you like and chat with you.
Well, her mind for you is already obvious, that is, she likes you.
Because I like you, I have secretly learned about you and inquired about your preferences in private.
She knows exactly what you like, what you don't like, and what you're interested in.
So, don't be surprised why a girl is so similar to you and has a common language.
It's nothing more than that she's doing her homework behind your back.
If you don't really like it, how can you be willing to spend so much time on you.
So, if you are lucky enough to meet, if you also like it, don't live up to her affection and intentions for you.
Take the initiative to persuade you to go to bed early
I have seen such a question on Zhihu:
"Persuade you to go to bed early and stay up late with you, which kind of person loves you more?"
There is a high praise answer at the bottom:
"The people who stay up late with you are actually getting you off the track of health little by little.
Only those who know that you will be impatient, irritable, and risk being 'blocked' by you;
The person who still insists on urging you to go to bed early is the one who really loves you and thinks about you. ”
Yeah, in this world, no one should be nice to you.
The opposite sex will often take the initiative to care about you, nothing more than falling in love with you and wanting to be with you.
Even in the process of getting along, she never said 'like'.
But every word and deed she says to you is the word 'like'.
Adult likes, sometimes, don't necessarily have to be said to count.
For the unspoken likes of the opposite sex, if you are also moved, then hurry up and act.
In this relationship, turn passive into active, and bravely grasp the happiness that belongs to you.