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No matter what kind of feelings, it will go through a cold period, and in the marriage, it will also go from fresh to flat, so how can the marriage spend the cold period and save the marriage in the cold period? Xiaobian will tell you three ways to see how to save the marriage in the cold period.
1. Take the initiative to increase the chances of getting along
After we save, the salvaging party will put up its own previous posture because of face or dignity, to express its grievances in the process of redemption, hoping that the other party will take the initiative to comfort, hug, show love, and show regret that it has broken up.
This practice may cause the hard-won feelings to fall into a stalemate again, and neither one is willing to take care of the other. If you want love to return to its original state, don't be reckless, take the initiative to hug each other, and express your love and grievances in redemption.
Take the initiative to meet to eat together, go shopping, press the road and so on. Don't repeat the mistakes of your own waywardness.
2. Find the crux of the problem and know yourself and know the other
The husband does not want to live a time, it must be a big problem in the marriage will be like this. At this time, we must find the crux of the problem, to see whether it is an extramarital affair, or a disagreement between the three views, or the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc. Only by finding out where the crux of the problem is, can we prescribe the right medicine, of course, if it is a terminal illness, there is no need to treat it.
3. Change yourself
Secondly, know that the reason is not enough, to change yourself, to recognize where to do badly, so that the other party is not satisfied, you must talk about it well, say the shortcomings of the other party, and correct it, so that I think your love will improve. The important thing is the attitude, if you ignore the love of the cold period, I think it will not be able to recover.
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