For all of us, parents are the greatest people in the world, although many people find that when children go to and from school, the children are picked up and dropped off by the child's grandparents or grandparents, and it is rare to see the parents of the child, or the parents who basically come to pick up the child are the mothers of the child.
Some families, grandparents and grandparents have great problems in educating children, for the sake of the child's future parents can only think of other ways, at this time the identity of full-time mothers came out, the role of full-time mothers is very large, they are also raising children as adults, and are an important medium for educating children to develop the correct three views, but it is such an identity, but many people look down on them, but also look down on the family, think that she has not done anything at home, there is nothing to pay for the whole family, there is no meaning in existence, In fact, many women quit their jobs and become full-time mothers, they will always encounter all kinds of difficulties, of which only they know and only they understand.
Some time ago, a video exploded on the internet, so that many full-time mothers have triggered a resonance, and even some netizens said that if you want to become a full-time mother, you must be fully prepared, if you have money at home, it is called a full-time mother, there is no money in the family, it can only be called a housewife, in short, you must weigh your family bottom is not thick, there are no conditions, there is no capital.
A full-time mother in Hubei picked up her son from school, and her son erased all her efforts with a word, and netizens cried
In fact, for every girl, they long to have a family, but for their children, easily listen to the other half's "it's okay, I raise you" lie, a hot brain, quit their job, then must know if they are at home full-time, what will they face? It is possible to exhaust her dreams, a woman in Wuhan, Hubei Province, speaking to a little boy, every word and every sentence is full of grievances and heartache.
In the video we can know that this is a mother and son, the child came home from school and threw the school bag on the sofa, as the child's mother, it is necessary to develop good living habits of the child, so she asked the child to sort out the school bag, but the child said "I am very tired from school, you are idle at home every day, why can't you tidy up?" What did you do at home? Didn't you just cook a meal and do this chore? ”
The child's words so understated became a knife, easily erasing all the efforts of the full-time mother, and her efforts for so many years were like a bubble, but as a mother, she did not make a big fuss about the child, but taught the child. I hope that the child can understand her efforts over the years when communicating with her.
She said that I am a master's degree graduate, in this city can find a good job, I once had my own social circle, resigned to be a full-time mother at home for you, but also for this family, your father never said a word about me no, your father also understands her efforts, he has not said so about me, why do I say this by you? I'm doing repetitive things every day, boring and tedious, and as your mother, I'm willing to give, but that's not a reason for you to take it for granted.
After this video was exposed online, many netizens cried, and they are not the people who play the role of full-time mothers in the family? Some netizens also said that the three views of this full-time mother are very positive, and sure enough, the books have been read differently, which simply speaks the voice of the majority of full-time mothers.
The mother's approach also gives many parents a wake-up call, the child suddenly appears in such a situation, we must find the reason, if it is not heard around the family, then it is possible that the children around the child also have such a situation, when educating the child, must not use violent education methods, to reason with the child.
In "Strange Story", Fu Seoul, as a full-time mother, once said that society is progressing, and society is also respecting everyone's value choices while making progress, how about becoming a full-time mother? They gave up their great future and willingly threw themselves into their small family, and her choice should be respected by everyone.
As a full-time mother, you should also actively set an example for your children in your daily life, pay attention to your own words and deeds, let your children understand that it is not easy to be a full-time mother, and see the value of yourself. Although we do not participate in the work, but also to actively work hard to improve themselves, keep up with the pace of society, at the same time to communicate with children, let children know that all labor is valuable, mother and father they are very hard, just different division of labor, but they are also working hard for their own small family.
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