As a psychological counselor who focuses on adolescent psychology, it is my lifelong desire to let the mental health of all children grow, and it is also my original intention to establish Ape Ball Village.
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First of all, parents need to enrich their psychological knowledge reserves and learn to control their emotions.
No matter how good a child is, how self-disciplined adults are, in his life, he will go through several stages with relatively large emotional fluctuations, such as adolescence, and then menopause.
These special periods happen to be important nodes in psychological development, and only when they are spent peacefully can they belong to healthy growth.
As a parent, you must grasp the psychological changes in these periods, on the one hand, you can control your emotions, on the other hand, you can understand the child's sudden temper tantrums, and timely channeling, take the child through these times together.
Second, strengthen children's cognition of psychology.
If, in a child's childhood, he is relatively stable and happy, then the only time that can make him have great psychological changes is adolescence.
In adolescence, the body grows at a very fast rate, and children suddenly have a thought in their hearts: I have grown up.
But in fact, in this period, under the stimulation of hormones, there is an error in their cognition, and they are still the childish young man.
It is a necessary task for parents to let children understand the psychological development of adolescence in advance, fully understand themselves, and spend an adolescence without contradictions.
Finally, the social environment should strengthen the popularization of psychology.
Whether in the community, at work or in school, mental health courses should be set up to let the whole people understand the importance of mental health, and for some children with psychological problems, parents and teachers can be tolerant enough and patiently guide.
The desire for national mental health is big and small, so big that it needs the participation of the people of the whole country, young and old, and so small that everyone only needs to pay a little effort and a little understanding.
Hopefully, one day, it will be possible!
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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