The beginning of each relationship is sweet, and when two people are in love, it seems to be a whole, but when the relationship breaks, really every account will be calculated very clearly.
For example, in this recent video seen online, a young man is arguing with restaurant staff. He once charged his girlfriend 100,000 yuan to eat small fried yellow beef, and later found that he accidentally charged it wrong. Now she and her girlfriend have broken up and want the restaurant to return the rest of the money to him.
The restaurant does not refund this money, but needs the cardholder to go to the scene to confirm together, after all, the number is not small. It turned out that the man charged 100,000 yuan to the ex-girlfriend's consumption card, and if he returned the money, he also needed to notify himself.
The dispute between the man and the restaurant is actually a problem left by the ex-girlfriend after the breakup, and whether the money in the relationship should be refunded?
Couples in the relationship, eating, watching movies, buying clothes, sending gifts to each other, etc. will produce economic exchanges, and will also send a red envelope to express their hearts during holidays. So when the breakup, will the money be returned?
Recharge your girlfriend for 100,000 yuan to eat beef, the man is indeed quite spoiled girlfriend, this fee is not a small amount. In the face of men's behavior, netizens say everything, some comments he installed a wide in front of his girlfriend, consumption is too impulsive; some netizens commented that if it is a small amount of money, it is not necessary to come back, if the amount involved is relatively large, it is better to come back after the breakup.
In fact, we have also seen men's encounters in life, some couples will return the gifts they sent to each other after breaking up, and separate them with dignity; some old and dead do not interact with each other, and they throw away the previous gifts.
After Chen Xiaosuan, an actor who played a troublesome actor in the TV series "Ruyi Chuan", broke up with her boyfriend, the boyfriend returned the luxury goods given to her, turned around and took them to the second-hand website to sell. Many people think that Chen Xiaolun's ex-boyfriend is too patternless, and this operation is really eye-opening.
But then again, money debt is easy, love debt is difficult to repay. There is a process at the end of a relationship, and the process of returning gifts to each other is actually the process of slow release in the heart. After the breakup, it does not mean that the two people have no feelings, but the contradiction between the two people at that time is greater than the previous old love.
Exchanging gifts is actually equivalent to denying the previous beauty, and also denying the youth and time they have paid. When you see the gifts you have given you turn around and come back, you will also have a kind of sadness in your heart. For those couples who still want to get back together, this will block the back road, let alone compound?
Of course, this view is not absolute, if the gift sent by the other party is too expensive, then it is still necessary to negotiate according to the actual situation.
In recent years, there have been many cases of asking for breakup fees after a breakup, so what do you think about the act of asking for gifts and money back? Discussion is welcome.