However, many people just can't grasp this point well, it is easy to plunge into it and not come out, even if this south wall has collapsed, she can hit it again, it is really not the heart of the Yellow River. If you don't grasp the essence of moderation, it can easily lead to the breakdown of a relationship, and then you regret it, but it is too late.
Especially for women who are easy to be emotional, in heterosexual communication, women can do this "three noes" for men, the highest emotional intelligence, and men love you as fate!
Not too clingy
The reason why the buddy broke up with his girlfriend who has been together for a year last Monday is this, the buddy even has the idea of never being in love again, we can only persuade him, not all women are so clingy and want to open up. Although you love someone too much, you want to be with each other all the time, but you also have to have a degree, 24 hours a day, who has not done their own things, even if you have to wait at the door to go to the toilet, it is really unbearable.
Maybe you yourself understand these truths, but you just can't help yourself, but you really have to understand that your proper sticking will promote your feelings, then if you are too sticky, it will cause you to break up in the future. Men don't like women who are too sticky because they will feel oppressed and painful, and the love you said he didn't feel at all, he just wanted to run away from you! A woman with high emotional intelligence will not be too clingy to men, and men will love her more.
Won't play gone
Messages do not return, phone calls do not answer, ask friends around them to say that they do not know, go downstairs to wait for her to wait for people, this is simply crazy. I don't know what kind of psychology some women have, like to disappear inexplicably, and then see that he can't find you for a day, and suddenly appear, is this fun? This will only make the man think that you are too unreliable, sometimes and sometimes, it is really too insecure, and the feeling of gain and loss will follow, and he will begin to doubt you, and then doubt your feelings.
So if you don't mean it, it's better not to disappear without moving, so that the person who loves you worries about you and at the same time creates distrust, thinking that you don't care about your feelings and his feelings. Women with high emotional intelligence will not do such uninteresting things, but will make men feel that they are reliable, and men will love her as they are destined.
There will be no cold violence
It is said that men are the most violent in cold violence, but some women are more powerful, and they have never lost on playing cold violence, so they never take the initiative to bow their heads, nor are they willing to serve this soft, even if they are wrong, they do not admit their mistakes. This really hurts the people who love you, you only care about your own face problems, although the quarrel is not your fault alone, but you hold a cold attitude of avoidance, boyfriend talks to you you do not care, no matter how good patience is worn out. Maybe you said that he just doesn't love you, but think about it from another angle, if you take the initiative to ask for peace and be dumped by people like this, do you dare to come forward again and again?
So, there is something to say well, don't be cold and violent, it hurts feelings too much! The most taboo in the relationship is too strong, not only hurting the other party but also unfavorable to themselves, so moderation is the best. Women must not only understand these truths, but also do so that the relationship will develop steadily. Women with high emotional intelligence will be cautious to use cold violence to make love more warm, make men feel warmer, and men will love you as fate.
The truest love in the world is concern,
The deepest love in life is thoughts,
The best feeling in life is to look at each other without words,
Can have each other's understanding, without words can produce a resonance,
Thick thoughts, deep concerns, is the invisible warmth in the heart,
Concern is the worry between people, and thoughts are the entanglement of hearts and minds,
The encounter in life may be an accident, but the thought is the eternity of life!