Rest assured, I will not hurt my mother's self-esteem! "Dad, you're telling me the truth, this red pen wasn't just bought by Mom, right?" Rest assured, I won't hurt my mother's self-esteem. "The son secretly went to his father to ask the truth.
Yes, on Wednesday night, my son told me that he wanted a red pen, which the teacher usually used when he finished the exam paper and changed it himself. I readily agreed that what I needed to learn was something that had to be supported. At six o'clock in the morning on Thursday morning, we went downstairs to ride a bicycle to exercise, and my son reminded me again: "Mom, you remember to promise me that you must not forget, buy me a red pen today!" I replied confidently: "Rest assured, don't you trust your mother yet?" ”
In the evening, the child's father came to pick me up from work and said to me: "The child asked me to remind you, don't forget to buy him a red pen." "After a busy day, it was half past eight when I left work, it was dark outside, it was cloudy and cold, and I really didn't want to wander around anymore, so I hurried back to my warm home and unloaded my tiredness. It occurred to me that I still had a red pen in my drawer that I had bought a long time ago, and that I had just used it a little. If I told my son that I had just bought it, I wouldn't have found it, and I was secretly happy. As soon as I got home, my son rushed to give me a big hug. I took the opportunity to sell it: "The red pen I bought for you is in my bag, take it yourself."
I watched my son's performance while eating, and to be honest, I was a bit weak-minded. The son found the red pen and looked at it and asked me, "Mom, is this something you bought for me?" Are you sure it's not old? I pretended to be angry and said, "Forget it if you don't believe it, forget it" Watching him put the red pen into his stationery box, I was relieved: I was finally confused and scared to death. The taste of lying is not good, it is really too difficult to be able to make your face not red and your heart not beating, and you can be straight. It was almost ten o'clock after dinner, and I went back to my bedroom and collapsed on the bed, when my son came in, put his arm around my neck and said, "Mom, I've seen this red pen in your office before, but I'm not angry." I suddenly felt embarrassed, and when the lie was exposed, there was no need to pretend anymore, so I confessed to my son: "Son, if you don't like this one, I will take you tomorrow, and you can choose one that you like?" My son kissed me: "This one can still be used, and when the new semester comes next year, you will send me a new one!" "Just like that, my embarrassment was resolved in an instant.
I had always thought that he knew the truth and would make trouble for me, and I had already presuppose a hundred ways to deal with him in my mind. Only I did not presuppose to today's result, in front of the child, I am superficial! It turned out that he loved me more than I thought. It didn't embarrass me, didn't accuse me, just carefully cared for my self-esteem, built me a step, and helped me to come down steadily. With his own heart, he quietly loved his carefully chosen mother. As a mom, I am happy at this time! I believe that the establishment of all mother-child relationships in the world is not accidental, but has experienced the expectations of life and the blessings of the world.
Only then did we have such an intimate relationship. So every such intimate relationship should be worth celebrating and blessing. There is a particularly warm and healing picture book story, I believe that many mothers and children have read, yes, it is "Guess How Much I Love You", the book depicts the little rabbit and the mother before going to bed kissing warmly, talking to each other about their love for each other. Guess how much I love you? Oh! It was melted by a thick love in an instant, and every scene was full of sweetness! In this world, I believe that every mother loves her child, but many mothers may not know that when you love your child with your heart, your child is more, stronger, and longer than your love. I have heard the saying that every child comes into this world out of love for his mother.
"When I See Mom on the Clouds" and "Mom, I'm Here for You" and "I Remember Yo! The true narration of the child's memory in the 3 books "The Time in the Mother's Belly" makes us more convinced that the child in front of us really comes with love. Many children say that before they are born, they live on soft clouds, with angels and fairies, and in the world they find the best woman in the world that they think no one can replace as a mother in the world, and then leave the comfortable sky and fly into their mother's belly to accompany their mother. As parents, how much do we guess how much our children love us? There can be a hundred, a thousand, or even more...
However, for children, mothers are really the whole world.