Love is unpredictable and growing. Some loves will become more and more solid in the operation of two people; some loves will slowly pass away in the disregard of two people.
When we are deeply in love with someone, the most frightening thing is that the other party will suddenly change their minds one day. So even if two people are together, we are easily insecure, the other party's words, a behavior, we may all guess randomly, will anticipate a lot of possibilities.
Sukhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world. ”
In love, we all involuntarily guess each other's thoughts, and want to fully understand each other's inner world. Only in this way will our hearts be guaranteed, and we will have more initiative in this love.
Especially for women, they are naturally more sensitive and suspicious. When a man is working overtime, a woman will worry about whether the man is lying to her or not, whether he is with other women. When men are more annoyed, women will also feel that men are tired of this love, so they want to leave her.
For those women who are more suspicious, it is easy to ignore the time when men perform well, but they are always easy to hold on to some not very good things and have a lot of doubts.
Women should know that men are most tired of women's questioning, and they are also disgusted by women's deliberate tests. Women who want to know how much a man really loves you, they have to learn to observe quietly. Actually, the answers women want, these "feelings" will hint at you.
01 When you are together, will you take the initiative to pay for you?
Plato said: "Love, only love, can make a person dare to give his life for the person he loves; this is something that not only men can do, but women can do." ”
As long as you truly love a person, even if the other party does not bring it up, you will take the initiative to guess the other party's thoughts and pay for him. Willing to do this, it is because the other party can feel sweet and happy in this relationship, and will feel that this love is worth it.
With love in your heart, you will naturally want to have a good ending, and it is a very normal thing to pay for each other, and it is also very necessary.
For women, only when they see each other's efforts and feel this warmth in love, women will feel happy and know how much men love her.
Women who want to know how deep a man's love for you is, they have to feel what he has given to you, feel the thoughts he has spent on you. If you pay a little attention to this, you will know the extent of this love.
02 Will you take the initiative to change some of your shortcomings for your own sake.
Voltaire said: "The noble element of love is no less than the element of tenderness, the power to make people upward is no less than the power to make people wither, and sometimes it can inspire other virtues." ”
The more we think about a person in our hearts, in front of this person, we will pay special attention to our words and deeds, try to show ourselves as gentle and understanding as possible. A sincere love can make us take the initiative to examine our shortcomings and take the initiative to change these shortcomings.
If we don't care about each other's feelings at all, we naturally don't realize where our problems lie, and even if we know, we won't change our habits. There is no desire to continue to develop in the heart, and naturally it will not take the initiative to change this mind.
The more a man loves a woman, the more obvious this feeling is for a woman. If he will take the initiative to guess his own thoughts and take the initiative to change in the direction you want, it is enough to show that in his heart, he actually cares about you, so he is not willing to disappoint you, and he is not willing to let you be wronged.
03 Will you cherish you and care about your feelings.
In love, every woman hopes to be pampered and cherished by men. Such love can make women feel more secure and enjoy this happiness happily. It's just that not every man can do it, or maybe even if they have a relationship, they may not be fully engaged in it.
Some men don't think much about it after having a relationship. They don't love a woman enough in their hearts, so they don't think about things in the future, just want to enjoy the moment. When a period of time has passed, men are tired of this relationship, and they will not cherish it.
If a woman encounters such love, no matter how much effort you put in and how much you expect from the future, it cannot change the fact that men do not love you enough.
Shiqibachev said: "Love should know how to cherish, and cherish it more with the years." Love is not idle under the bright moon, nor is it sighing on the bench. ”
Women should know that the more a man loves you, the more he will care about your feelings and cherish the relationship between you. His cherishing of you will be manifested in every detail of your time together, not just lip service.
Women want to know how much a man loves you, don't just know how to stupidly test each other, to question each other, but to learn some quiet ways.
A woman's sixth sense is very accurate in many cases, and love also needs to be felt. Especially in these things, if a man truly loves you, it will definitely make you feel that he cares about and cherishes you, and can also feel his efforts.
Cervantes said, "Love is looking at things with glasses, seeing brass as gold, poverty as wealth, and spots in the eyes as pearls." ”
If He truly loves you, he will certainly make you feel it in these things.